I think you probably know this already, but you didn't maintain the boundaries as strictly as you should have. Once you start getting more personally involved with a client and give away freebies they will 100% take advantage of that. He sounds like a manipulator, and he probably knows exactly what he's doing. The fact that you had to pay for part of your travel fee is a huge sign of this. You need to boot him immediately. It's far better for your mental health if you see clients that come, pay and then fuck off without the added emotional baggage.

Wow just reading all these thank you all so much for the responses and taking the time to give me some insight and truth! ... And gentlemen too (ah i knew there were guys on this forum my bad!!) I really can't express again how much this forum has helped me lol honestly (well of course you all know how isolating escorting is, it's just so nice to get some logic, because I'm always stuck in my own head  anyway)

*Sigh* yeah it's a shame that there is the manipulation, judgements.. i guess I'd say I'm *fairly* new to "the game", but not so much now, where I am starting to really see that many of the men come in and never really think highly of you in the first place. It's like lol why try to get to know me/ask questions/get involved in my life? I'm starting to see there are some that usually have some sort of ulterior motive and yeah i think he just used it so i could now be in some sort of easy beckon call type situation, gross!

Oh and to add haha, i do have my own issues as is that's for sure (sterotypically so), but i mean yeah because of that, i just don't have any more room for punters lol! Yeah he's done, unfortunately i just don't think you can go back to what it was (boundary wise). I really hope this bs doesn't happen again, lol otherwise i hate to say it but so many guys out there are just a lost, super sensitive, insecure cause! And they're just really good at hiding it but dumping their bullshit on escorts lol.

Anyway thank you all again to all you fantastic people all over the world!! Amen to you guys.. the hustle is real. Lol.