I would have told him that if he thinks it's so rude then he can just do without.

Your trying to do a good thing and he throws it back in your face, that couldn't have been a very good start to a booking.

If he requires a fresh bottle of wine for his bookings then he should bring his own.

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Pfft.  Bad manners, poor social skills.  I bet that was tough going 

I always buy the mini bottles so they only get used once. I would never drink from an opened bottle of wine with a client, so I can understand if a guy wouldn't want to only for the safety issues. Then again, do punters worry about this? No idea...

I always buy the mini bottles so they only get used once. I would never drink from an opened bottle of wine with a client, so I can understand if a guy wouldn't want to only for the safety issues. Then again, do punters worry about this? No idea...

Ok. Of course clients must have this in their mind too.

I think Tiger Lily has the right idea.  It may be more expensive but this is the price you have to pay in order that both you and your client know that the contents havent been spiked.

It might sound quite outlandish but there are many unscrupulous girls out there that have been known to spike clients drinks and dip their pockets. There has been many stories over the years.  There is also the chance girls spike the bottle and there is someone else in the flat who could do damage.

Do you get where I am coming from.

I wouldnt say it was rude to leave the open bottle lying around but it is rather thoughtless as girls are known not to drink out of an open bottle of wine either.

I would either buy the smaller bottles or stop the practice altogether. 

It might be a good practice to remove the fee from the room you are working in too, then you wont be uncomfortable leaving a guy in the room alone.

My practice was always, dont leave anything lying around that you are not willing to lose.  Same goes for outcalls, never carry anything you are not willing to lose.  You could maybe take off a piece of jewellery that is precious to you and forget to pick it up on the way out - best to leave it at home.

We know we are honest but clients dont.

I don't actually offer wine because most of my bookings are in they day, have given the occasional client a beer... always have those in 

Anyway, any agencies I have worked for always keep wine in the fridge and I've never had a client concerned about the bottle being open already. Do you bring out the bottle? I would just fill their glass and stick it back in the fridge.

(Recently I was asked if the books next to the bed were just for show or if I actually read them.) They're just twats and they have their preconceived ideas of who and what we are.

Someone actually said this out loud?! Thinking it is bad enough.

No it didn't annoy me, i can understand the stereotypes or dangers < depending on which way he meant it, the bookign went fine, i just thought perhaps i was doing it wrong