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sensualmilf

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Do you respond to texts?
« on: 16 July 2015, 08:06:22 am »
I state on my profile that I don't respond to texts but still get them (no surprise there!)
But I was wondering if they are all timewasters, e.g. 'Are you in a hotel?' (My most recent one)
I would be interested in your experiences.

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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #1 on: 16 July 2015, 08:12:22 am »
I state on my profile that I don't respond to texts but still get them (no surprise there!)
But I was wondering if they are all timewasters, e.g. 'Are you in a hotel?' (My most recent one)
I would be interested in your experiences.

SM

I encourage texts so, yes, I do. Stupid texts that just ask nosy questions without even a "hello" are ignored because they come across as rude.

If someone sends a polite text - along the lines of "Hello, I was wondering if you were available for an incall this afternoon?" I absolutely answer them. In your situation, you can either ignore because they haven't read your profile or you can give them a break and say, "Hello - please call me if you'd like to discuss a booking."

ALL profiles on AW say that texts will be ignored as AW puts that on there. Unless you make a very clear point near the top of your profile that you will only book via phone, many punters will text anyway.

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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #2 on: 16 July 2015, 08:25:36 am »
No most of the time theyre tws. The only way I would accept a text is if we spoke already
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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #3 on: 16 July 2015, 08:26:22 am »
I'm fine with texts too - a polite text is no different than a polite email, and a rude and stupid one from somebody who hasn't read my ad is no different to a phone call from the same. Texts means I can get on with my day as I don't have to be sitting indoors in the quiet to answer them and I encourage everybody who's been before to text rather than call.

I ask all punters I haven't met previously to call and book, but that's really just to check it's an adult male who's at the other end. They all have to call when they get to my landmark, but I certainly don't mind texts before that :).
« Last Edit: 16 July 2015, 08:30:39 am by amy »

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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #4 on: 16 July 2015, 08:33:19 am »
Yes I answer texts too as long as they're polite and to the point.

I do ask them to call just too confirm though.


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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #5 on: 16 July 2015, 08:35:58 am »
Polite texters usually turn out to be fine. Ie Hello. My name is Peter. Would you be available at 6pm? is usually fine. Texts like Where r u based or What do u offer are annoying.
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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #6 on: 16 July 2015, 09:14:51 am »
I agree...Polite texters with real English, not txt tlk are fine.
But they must ring for details or booking.
I'm not keen on text but not every cient has a private office to call from.

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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #7 on: 16 July 2015, 09:44:31 am »
Typical me, I very rarely responded to texts.  I always wanted to hear if there was the hint of an accent for for me that meant the client was a no  no.

I also hated texting with a passion and wasn't taking the chance of them starting a game of text ping pong.  When I did text back it was usually to tell them I was free to speak and to call.

If they did then all fine and well, if not, I lost nothing I never had.
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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #8 on: 16 July 2015, 10:10:33 am »
I get a fair few bookings by text.
I always answer if some one politely introduces themselves, asks for for an hour at x time.
"R u free?" Gets ignored though.
It would cut out quite a lot of bookings if I didn't respond, some guys think you might be busy and unable to answer the phone etc, either that or more discreet for them x

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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #9 on: 16 July 2015, 10:40:56 am »
I answer specific texts, but messages asking me 'where are you' (I'm outcall only), or 'are you available?' will get my standard reply advising to let me know their requirements, to phone, or look at website.

I also have regular clients I will make arrangements with by text, they put the info I need into the message, if anyone starts chatting on, asking one thing then another then they will have to phone. If I'm driving on the way to a booking, or anything else then I don't answer texts, I might pull over to ask them to phone, some will, some carry on texting and I can't do anything about that. There's enough clear info on my profile, so it's not as if I'm leaving them blind.

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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #10 on: 16 July 2015, 10:43:59 am »
I have had a booking through answering a text, but he was a pest & sent 30 in the run up to the appointment.
{Have spoken about this in my needy clients thread so wont bore by repeating myself again}
Not always easy for them to call & discuss if in a bad signal area {that guys excuse} or at work to save face etc.

Anything blunt/chavy/rude I'll ignore. On the whole I've found that they are time wasters/fantasists even when polite. it's just sods law with texts.

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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #11 on: 16 July 2015, 10:55:11 am »
I find it interesting how quick fire someone can be when in a supposedly area of poor signal.

I usually ask if there is a landline nearby I can call them on. ;D

I would also like to add that if I could I would happily use text to arrange most of my bookings, but there are times when I cannot engage in a half hour to an hour of exchanging messages back and forth.
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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #12 on: 16 July 2015, 12:37:05 pm »
My profile says to not text and that any texts from new numbers will just receive a response of me asking them to call. Which is what I do. It's a bit annoying as it's stated quite clearly on my profile, but hey ho it happens. Then when they call I ask them to make sure they've read my profile in full before I confirm a booking.

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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #13 on: 16 July 2015, 01:20:43 pm »
I'll accept and respond to texts from regulars (my number isn't on my profile), and I have AW set up so I can read messages via email to my phone, so they can't tell I've read them if it's just a 'r u free 2 sit on my face in 10 mins'

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Re: Do you respond to texts?
« Reply #14 on: 16 July 2015, 02:12:55 pm »
I have a phobia of speaking on the phone to people I don't know (including calls to bank, customer service etc etc), so even when they do call me, I say I am only able to text. If I have a good day, I will answer phonecalls, but not too many. I a polite text to a phonecall any day. Obviously I don't reply to txt spk and were r u baseed type of text