Author Topic: What do they actually want? Gfe or all guns blazing? (Read 2861 times)

Keira · « **on:** 16 July 2011, 11:49:21 pm »

Hey everyone!

Firstly I must say how entertaining you all are, you're such a wonderful group of men and women! :-)

Secondly, I've been doing this job for about a month now, I work for 2 agencies (as I wanted to learn the ropes a little before hitting the indy scene). One agency runs throughout the day and the other is a sit in car and wait through the night jobby. When I started I was all guns blazing big hair, big eyes, heals, hold ups the works, looking a bit like I was out in the clubs on a sat night or something, gradually I lost the hold ups and the big hair and started looking a little more normal. I always have hold ups etc on me just in case! Nothing has changed in the amount of clients I get and i still have repeat custom so, it's left me pondering somewhat. What is it they're after, do most of them secretly want it to seem less like a booking and more real, girl next door type thing, or do they want all guns blazing whore at the door? I've experienced both but as neither agency gives me any details about the client before I see them it's a little difficult for me to tell.

What's your experience?

x

Sweet-Pleasure · « **Reply #1 on:** 17 July 2011, 08:20:48 am »

Hi Keira!

I think what most men really want is confidence.

Appearance-wise, unless they ask for the stockings, sussies, stilettos look, you can show up in your church florals and they will still want you if you're confident and in control. I have a lot of clients that prefer jeans and a t-shirt or blouse and skirt for out calls just for discretion, that way I go from girl next door to whore at the door when they see what I have on underneath!

As an indie you could offer gfe or pse as I do, and ask which they want when they confirm. That way you can play the adoring girlfriend or the rampant call girl as they want.

XxX

Coty · « **Reply #2 on:** 17 July 2011, 09:12:27 am »

Quote from: MissArcaBunny on 17 July 2011, 08:20:48 am

Hi Keira!

I think what most men really want is confidence.

Appearance-wise, unless they ask for the stockings, sussies, stilettos look, you can show up in your church florals and they will still want you if you're confident and in control. I have a lot of clients that prefer jeans and a t-shirt or blouse and skirt for out calls just for discretion, that way I go from girl next door to whore at the door when they see what I have on underneath!

As an indie you could offer gfe or pse as I do, and ask which they want when they confirm. That way you can play the adoring girlfriend or the rampant call girl as they want.

XxX

Totally agree...I always wear jeans or trousers and a nice top with all the sexy stuff underneath and take stilettos with me. and sorry to be thick but what is pse?

Coty xxx

Sweet-Pleasure · « **Reply #3 on:** 17 July 2011, 10:34:34 am »

Quote from: Coty on 17 July 2011, 09:12:27 am

Totally agree...I always wear jeans or trousers and a nice top with all the sexy stuff underneath and take stilettos with me. and sorry to be thick but what is pse?

Coty xxx

PSE is Porn Star Experience

XxX

EmilyJones · « **Reply #4 on:** 17 July 2011, 12:41:11 pm »

Yeah, I think what clients all really want is a great time with a fun escort, but they will choose for themselves when it comes to GFE/PSE/Dom/roleplay/etc usually by your advertising.

When you're with an agency, they will tend to try to tell every client that you're perfect for him no matter what he wants. But as an indie, I've chosen my preferred way of working and made it clear on my website/profiles so I always get clients who are looking for what I offer (although any other day he could of course be looking for anything else from other girls, too

) - and if I thought there was any extra clarity needed, I'd just ask the individual fellow directly.

There isn't much point trying to make too many gender- or sex-based generalisations in life, even within our industry. If you want to be super-busy, you tend to have to be more flexible, but as long as you're covering the average client's basic requirements (friendliness, enthusiasm etc) the precise height of heels that you wear, or number of minutes spent snogging vs spanking etc, are secondary details that depend on the individual.

Keira · « **Reply #5 on:** 18 July 2011, 04:02:59 pm »

Thanks guys, that confirms my thoughts. Most of the other girls in my agency dress with pretty much everything hanging out whereas I thought guys might prefer someone who looked a bit more real (as well as it aiding the discretion aspect), i have all the sexy stuff on underneath anyway so theyre always happy (when they're not wankers, of which I experienced my first one last night), I'm usually busy and haven't had any complaints but always keep the stockings on me just in case :-)

brooklyn__ce · « **Reply #6 on:** 19 July 2011, 01:23:41 am »

It really depends on the client. They are all looking for different things, truly.

Ella · « **Reply #7 on:** 21 July 2011, 04:18:02 am »

Play it by ear. Unless they specifically request something - (luckily thus far I've only really been asked for things like stockings and suspenders, high heels, nothing too complicated!!) - I usually go for a sexy but classy dress (covered with a trench coat and flats and hair tied back if it's a hotel outcall - quick change into high heels, remove the coat and shake my hair out in the lift!!) and bring a few extra bits with me in case they like stockings etc but haven't specifically asked for them.. I find that most guys appreciate nice lingerie and always wear matching bra and knickers set and hold ups. Then as I said, if they haven't actually requested any outfit, I might bring some extra things - a corset, some french knickers, a white set of bra/pants/stockings - some guys have a thing for the virginal look!! - and that's it. If they want something really specific they will usually let you know in advance anyway. As to the GFE thing, you have to play it by ear and go with your instincts - some guys really want that, chatting and cuddles and sharing their troubles - and some simply want to get their end away with no complications and for you to leave straight after (normal for a short booking). You learn to suss it out. Hope this helps in some way!

ladyjennaj · « **Reply #8 on:** 23 July 2011, 06:11:24 pm »

I find clients much prefer the GFE

I started with all guns a-blazing too, which eventually calmed down and i began to look more girl-next-door.

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