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GucciGang

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #480 on: 25 November 2024, 07:19:28 pm »
I have an American client who sent me $100 for a video call. Nat west refused to process the payment unless I could give his full name date of birth and address. This was into a business account. I don’t understand why they are not accepting international payments.

I have now opened a wise business account where people can send money in dollars I will see how this goes. But I’m not finding it easy at all.

He was nice about it and sent an Amazon card but I don’t want those I want the cash.  :FF

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #481 on: 28 November 2024, 12:54:19 pm »
New regulations about changes to authorised push payment scam claims are going to make it easier for people to claim a bank transfer was a scam.

Do you think this will increase the number of clients trying to claim chargebacks?

Potentially, but they would have to prove they didn't receive the service. A client of mine was recently scammed by a sex worker (he sent the money via bank transfer and she claimed she didn't receive it) and the process for recovering the money wasn't straight forward. He had to show all text message exchanges with the girl and where she text him claiming she didn't get the money, so wasn't going to provide the service. It also had to be reported to the police, via the bank. I feel scammers wouldn't want the police getting involved!

To protect yourself, you can accept bookings via adultwork and use them as proof the person booked a service and any aw feedback they leave. Only issue is that the bank may opt to have you close down the account due to being a sex worker, so a better way is to get the person to mark the payment as a gift.

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #482 on: 28 November 2024, 01:35:56 pm »
Just had a client file a case with PayPal saying he didn't receive the goods. Then on the app it says that your sender says someone made this transaction without their permission. They want me to provide proof of posting!
A timely reminder for me not to ask for too much as a deposit. He wanted to pay the whole lot, so pleased I said no!

LittleMinx2

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« Reply #483 on: 28 November 2024, 02:39:24 pm »
Just had a client file a case with PayPal saying he didn't receive the goods. Then on the app it says that your sender says someone made this transaction without their permission. They want me to provide proof of posting!
A timely reminder for me not to ask for too much as a deposit. He wanted to pay the whole lot, so pleased I said no!

Yeah, never use paypal. Not only does it share your information, they will often close down your account if they suspect you're a sex worker or receive too many payments. They'll often put your money on hold too. Even when people pay 'friends and family' they can file a chargeback.

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« Reply #484 on: 28 November 2024, 04:56:32 pm »
Yeah, never use paypal. Not only does it share your information, they will often close down your account if they suspect you're a sex worker or receive too many payments. They'll often put your money on hold too. Even when people pay 'friends and family' they can file a chargeback.

So many potential clients ask to use PayPal, this has reduced since I say 'bank transfer only' but I am still asked at least a couple of times each week.

DarcyLady

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« Reply #485 on: 29 November 2024, 09:52:25 am »
Yeah, never use paypal. Not only does it share your information, they will often close down your account if they suspect you're a sex worker or receive too many payments. They'll often put your money on hold too. Even when people pay 'friends and family' they can file a chargeback.

This. PayPal have now banned me from having an account with them, because it was used for sex work. I also had a tonne of guys seeking to reverse payments when I was using it  :-\

DarcyLady

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #486 on: 02 December 2024, 01:00:45 pm »
I have now decided to start asking for deposits for incalls too. I've had a monumental amount of timewasters recently, and it has really p*ssed me off. I used to only ask for them for outcalls, but the last week has been a joke.

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #487 on: 19 January 2025, 12:06:00 am »
Does anybody have trouble when asking for an amazon gift card as a deposit? I have been trying to ask for them as a deposit as I don't like sharing my personal details with bank transfers or PayPal but people always seem to ask if they can pay a different way. Is there a legitimate reason to not want to pay via amazon gift card? It just makes me feel like they are planning on doing a chargeback!

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #488 on: 19 January 2025, 05:57:51 am »
Does anybody have trouble when asking for an amazon gift card as a deposit? I have been trying to ask for them as a deposit as I don't like sharing my personal details with bank transfers or PayPal but people always seem to ask if they can pay a different way. Is there a legitimate reason to not want to pay via amazon gift card? It just makes me feel like they are planning on doing a chargeback!

For a long time I was constantly asked for other payment methods, I just had to keep stating 'only'. I stopped accepting Amazon though, too many issues and now only offer one method. I explain I know it doesn't suit everyone, and I don't want to 'waste your time if it's a problem'.

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #489 on: 19 January 2025, 10:41:34 am »
Is there a legitimate reason to not want to pay via amazon gift card?

If they use Amazon account that they share with their family, there will be a record of the gift card in orders.
If they open a new Amazon account for a purpose of sending the gift card, the new account might get automatically blocked.

If they are concerned about their privacy, tell them they can buy a physical Amazon gift card with cash and send you the photo of the code, or just the code.
Remember to add it to your account straight away, so that they won't be able to redeem the code themselves (it applies to the e-gift card as well, just redeem it straight away).

If they just hate Bezos, tell them they can buy another gift card. You can ask for a gift card to a shop where you buy your groceries regularily.

Milkyway

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #490 on: 19 January 2025, 06:10:33 pm »
If they use Amazon account that they share with their family, there will be a record of the gift card in orders.

This makes sense. I haven't had anybody give me a specific reason why they don't want to send the deposit this way, I just get them asking if they can do bank transfer or paypal which makes me suspicious!