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mature helen

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #210 on: 29 September 2016, 11:06:21 am »
He was a client ☺️
I am curious Cortesa as you share your earnings isn't this classed as him living off immoral earnings? And will you continue to escort after you are married? Has he said anything about you giving it up?

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #211 on: 29 September 2016, 11:27:24 am »
There's no such thing as 'living off immoral earnings', and never has been. It's a myth :).

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« Reply #212 on: 29 September 2016, 11:27:40 am »

I just hope it lasts .. wish me luck
And we all deserve the chance to be ourselves without judgement
I believe we all have a Yin to our yang so to speak xx
   :)  Thank you for sharing.   :)

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #213 on: 29 September 2016, 12:39:11 pm »
There's no such thing as 'living off immoral earnings', and never has been. It's a myth :).
I don't like to disagree with you Amy as you are very knowledgeable but there is a law that has been used to prosecute unless my eyes deceiving me. lol

S.30 Sexual Offences Act 1956 states:-

"1; It is an offence for a man knowingly to live wholly or in part on the earnings of prostitution.

Read a case in the Telegraph...

Last year a police officer stumbled across Jilly's website and officers raiding the flat found a male client in a compromising position with Jilly. The client, who had earlier telephoned Chubb (her partner) to ask if Jilly was available, was being given a massage when they were interrupted by the officers.

In another raid Jilly's home was targeted and officers took away books, mobiles, computers and every piece of paper they could find. "They arrested Mike; they said he'd been living off immoral earnings," she told me.

Last week Chubb, a retired Army major, was found guilty in Dorchester Crown Court of living off the immoral earnings of a prostitute, given an eight-month suspended sentence and ordered to surrender the ?15,000 he earned from the 18-month venture. He was also ordered to pay ?250 costs.

The judge, Recorder Dermond O'Brien, told him: "Despite the criminal nature of your activities you probably did not realise you were doing anything significantly wrong. It was an act of breathtaking naivety. How somebody of your obvious intelligence was able to convince himself of this is something I can only marvel at."

The relationship between Chubb and Jilly has now ended, and she is back living alone. Jilly was not prosecuted because she did not herself solicit. "[The police] had no complaint about what I do," she told me.

From what I gather she was OK working from her site on the internet but he was prosecuted because A. He was her partner B. He knew she was a prostitute and C. He answered her phone when she was busy. She wasn't 'controlled' she was working an independent escort and paying her tax according to the Telegraph story.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #214 on: 29 September 2016, 12:47:34 pm »
I don't like to disagree with you Amy as you are very knowledgeable but there is a law that has been used to prosecute unless my eyes deceiving me. lol

S.30 Sexual Offences Act 1956 states:-

"1; It is an offence for a man knowingly to live wholly or in part on the earnings of prostitution.

Yes, that was the previous offence before it was superceded by the Sexual Offences Act 2003 and the current Section 53 offence of Controlling Prostitution for Gain. Getting rid of it meant that people's partners (and potentially their children) could no longer be prosecuted, as now both controlling the prostitution and gaining from it have to be present for an offence to have taken place. We call it pimping :).

The term 'immoral earnings' whilst commonly used to refer to the old offence, has never been used on any statute.

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« Reply #215 on: 29 September 2016, 12:56:52 pm »
He wouldn't have been prosecuted for being her partner and knowing she was a prostitute because that would essentially mean no prostitute could ever have a partner.He will have got done for answering her phone which makes it look like she was managed.The same would apply technically to any of us if we got caught answering and taking bookings for another prossie.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #216 on: 29 September 2016, 01:08:56 pm »
I hope you will be happy Courtesan and I wish you all best. If both people agree on something then there is not problem. If you are happy and don't feel used in any way by your parter then enjoy life. It's better to make money in this way then be unfaithful and end up with others for free in bed.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #217 on: 29 September 2016, 01:21:41 pm »
Yes, that was the previous offence before it was superceded by the Sexual Offences Act 2003 and the current Section 53 offence of Controlling Prostitution for Gain. Getting rid of it meant that people's partners (and potentially their children) could no longer be prosecuted, as now both controlling the prostitution and gaining from it have to be present for an offence to have taken place. We call it pimping :).

The term 'immoral earnings' whilst commonly used to refer to the old offence, has never been used on any statute.
Thanks for clarifying Amy.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #218 on: 29 September 2016, 04:56:16 pm »
I'm currently in a relationship and have been long term for almost 2 years now and planning on getting married 😍  he knows all my bad bits and good bits and vice verse. I am interested in other work too though in regards to just escorting x
We live together & work around each other as he has a job as an engineer .. so I work when he works .. we share our earnings and I do try not to see people I know or associate with and vice verse x

Although what I do isn't a secret from most inc him obviously I don't discuss it with our nearest and dearest so not offend although I know it shouldn't, but people get an image unique in their mind when you mention certain job titles / labels etc but I enjoy what I do .

He spoils me rotten all the time in the sweetest ways and we get along like best friends with ups and downs like everyone else and have loads in common

He has seen escorts in the past when he's been single but now as far as I trust he doesn't and I don't have any desire to meet other men either out of work nor am I into my clients in any other way than to provide them with an enjoyable friendly and comfortable experience I don't view any of them the way I view him nor have I before him oddly enough ..
I'm not into swinging and nor is he as that's a commonly asked question. If it did bother him I'd leave

I just hope it lasts .. wish me luck
And we all deserve the chance to be ourselves without judgement
I believe we all have a Yin to our yang so to speak xx
This is so nice to read! Hope it all continues to go well for you x

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #219 on: 06 October 2016, 12:16:11 pm »
I'm dating and living with an ex client - don't turn down a good thing because you feel it's 'wrong'. Maybe talk to him about it see how he would feel about dating.

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« Reply #220 on: 06 October 2016, 08:42:00 pm »
My opinion about this is if you wanted it, by all means but everyone has a different set of circumstances and different escorts are in different life stages.  Even it works for someone, it may not work for someone else. Life becomes complex as we grow older.  Enjoy whilst it lasts in your younger years. 

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« Reply #221 on: 11 October 2016, 03:23:22 pm »
I believe it can work. In the past I've been very tempted to even marry some of my previous and current regular clients. I'm 25, I'm trying to wait until I'm at least 30 preferably 35 before I basically accept an offer I can't refuse. If he's not too ugly, not too boring, we get on really well, he's 10-20 years older earning over ?100k/year then I'm all over that.

Currently if I was to have a boyfriend he would have to accept me being an escort, and then see how we feel about everything later on.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #222 on: 12 October 2016, 04:45:44 pm »
I don't think there is a human alive as cynical as me. I am like an old, bitter witch :) My mate says I even cackle like one!
I'm so surprised at that ! What with your scat play etc LMAO

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #223 on: 12 October 2016, 05:43:32 pm »
I know I am a paradox :)

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #224 on: 12 October 2016, 06:00:50 pm »
I know I am a paradox :)
Snap,cackle and plop   ( Oooh) I'll never eat rice crispies again especially chocolate ones , you could eat them , don't chew and fire them out ! X