Author Topic: Dating a customer (Read 54577 times)

Serendipity · « **Reply #165 on:** 28 July 2016, 09:03:27 am »

Quote from: foxy roxy on 28 July 2016, 08:48:12 am

So if you have a relationship with a client and it doesn't work, you never date a client again. If you go out with a civvie and it doesn't work do you never go out with a civvie again?

The fear of a client turned partner outing you when the relationship ends I can understand, but is it not the same fear as a non client finding out and then outing you when the relationship ends? Or him finding out and then ending the relationship because the entire relationship is built on a lie and you are not the person he thought you were?

I just think that the issues are exactly the same regardless of the client/civvie status of your man.

I completely agree. I've dated civvies who have known about my job, and also civvies who I've kept it from. If you're an arsehole you're an arsehole, regardless if you pay for sex or not. Paying for sex doesn't make you a man slut or a lesser person. Clearly MD thinks she's above customers

newbieNW · « **Reply #166 on:** 28 July 2016, 09:07:20 am »

Quote from: roseanna on 28 July 2016, 02:40:37 am

Not much surprises me these days, but I do think it's rather odd that someone could do this job and then be surprised that every man is potentially interested in sex with a companion, and even kind of expect it. I'm sure all of us who have had partners have found the expectations tiresome, but to expect a partner to go without sex altogether just because we have to do so much of it is completely off the wall.

It was a tongue in cheek post to lighten up the atmosphere.

But seriously, I went out with someone for a couple of years before escorting. We never had sex and I liked him as a man / a person who shared so much in common. He was a little eccentric but was a good guy. Eventually, he moved to France. We were friends, that's what was about. It depends on what age group you are and in what life stage you are at. If you are "young", your needs are much more different from some of us in Autumn years. We change a lot as we travel through our life's journey. I survived three divorces. I've seen it all. My 3rd hubby was a pathological liar behind the facade of a trustworthy, responsible professional man.

Lushblossom · « **Reply #167 on:** 28 July 2016, 09:37:34 am »

newbie NW I have had 3 divorces too! Read the book bought the t shirt don't see the attraction much at all in acquiring a boyfriend.

Not my cuppa tea for now.

mature helen · « **Reply #168 on:** 28 July 2016, 10:33:51 am »

Quote from: Lushblossom on 28 July 2016, 09:37:34 am

newbie NW I have had 3 divorces too! Read the book bought the t shirt don't see the attraction much at all in acquiring a boyfriend.

Not my cuppa tea for now.

I 2nd that! I like to keep the men in my life as punters, all my sex is paid for and my free time all for myself, I love my solitude, I only break it for a couple of close friends and family. Total bliss!

newbieNW · « **Reply #169 on:** 28 July 2016, 08:23:36 pm »

Quote from: Lushblossom on 28 July 2016, 09:37:34 am

newbie NW I have had 3 divorces too! Read the book bought the t shirt don't see the attraction much at all in acquiring a boyfriend.
Not my cuppa tea for now.

Thank you for sharing, Lushblossom!! It's nice to hear that I wasn't alone in this!

As much as I do so respect and admire some of the punters I met so far, I prefer not to combine my life with someone else at this stage. Friendship, that's great. Someone to wake up with - No.

newbieNW · « **Reply #170 on:** 28 July 2016, 08:27:45 pm »

Quote from: mature helen on 28 July 2016, 10:33:51 am

I 2nd that! I like to keep the men in my life as punters, all my sex is paid for and my free time all for myself, I love my solitude, I only break it for a couple of close friends and family. Total bliss!

Until you fall for someone else, helen ;-) Maybe, we ought to have mature escorts club on this site. Giggles.

mature helen · « **Reply #171 on:** 28 July 2016, 08:30:59 pm »

Quote from: newbieNW on 28 July 2016, 08:27:45 pm

Until you fall for someone else, helen ;-) Maybe, we ought to have mature escorts club on this site. Giggles.

Oh no! I'm too old and cynical to be doing all that again..lol. Yes newbieNW that would be a good idea

newbieNW · « **Reply #172 on:** 28 July 2016, 08:57:48 pm »

Quote from: mature helen on 28 July 2016, 08:30:59 pm

Oh no! I'm too old and cynical to be doing all that again..lol. Yes newbieNW that would be a good idea

I feel the same about "too old" but "cynical" can be rephrased as only too wise and realistic. xx

Shewolf · « **Reply #173 on:** 28 July 2016, 09:04:19 pm »

I don't think there is a human alive as cynical as me. I am like an old, bitter witch

My mate says I even cackle like one!

Lushblossom · « **Reply #174 on:** 29 July 2016, 06:53:01 am »

Lol Shewolf luv to hear you cackle.....!

bristoljen · « **Reply #175 on:** 25 September 2016, 08:51:13 am »

Purely hypothetical question which I was thinking about last night, would you ever date someone who was a client. If you met someone with shared interests around the same age and you were attracted to them would you ever date them presuming the were single? I would be open to the idea as long as they were not dating me to take advantage of free sex and it was a genuine relationship. What got me thinking was one of my clients last week had so many shared interests, if I did not have something to go to I could have chatted about them for hours with him.

BarbaraB · « **Reply #176 on:** 25 September 2016, 09:03:00 am »

put in search dating client or customer u will get a lot results

colette · « **Reply #177 on:** 25 September 2016, 09:20:35 am »

Being prostitute doesn't mean becoming a machine : we are always human beings , whatever we do or whom we meet with .
I personally can't restrain myself to fixed rules , which , while pratically justified , would obliterate my capacity to reach out towards other people .
My advice is to always listen to the heart , and do whatever the conscience approves .
Love is the best gift we can be given on this planet , it's often the solution to any problem ... <3

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #178 on:** 25 September 2016, 11:09:17 am »

I am dating a former client right now. Been seeing each other since June.

It's nothing serious - I'm planning to move areas soon which will bring it to a natural close or maybe just an occasional meet up if I'm on tour or he's travelling. Also he is married, although he and his wife both have other partners, they are fully committed to each other. But it's nice to have someone to meet up with for great sex every week or so, and who understands the sex worker life.

bristoljen · « **Reply #179 on:** 25 September 2016, 11:10:41 am »

Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 25 September 2016, 11:09:17 am

I am dating a former client right now. Been seeing each other since June.

It's nothing serious - I'm planning to move areas soon which will bring it to a natural close or maybe just an occasional meet up if I'm on tour or he's travelling. Also he is married, although he and his wife both have other partners, they are fully committed to each other. But it's nice to have someone to meet up with for great sex every week or so, and who understands the sex worker life.

How did you bring up the subject of becoming partners? Did you ask him?

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