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meetingdiversity

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #135 on: 27 July 2016, 08:20:30 pm »
Quote from: Kay on 27 July 2016, 04:47:24 pm
As Helen says, punters punt for different reasons - including loneliness or being widowed - so there's no reason some of them wouldn't make a good partner.

MD - IIRC it wasn't that long ago that you did date a client?

I know and that was two little blips less than a month. Lesson learned and I have found a decent man who loves me for me he didn't love me who met me as an escort. I don't have a problem here but when a few try to change my way it isn't happening. Especially coming with the fact I don't like clients just not to date. That's all nothing more or less. Mine met me under no sex worker fee. I'm happy with my foundation.

One client asked me if I have a bf. I said yes he said he hopes it not a client I rest my case. My life my choice. Disagree with me but I will never agree with dating clients. I'm worth more than that and have high standards.

My choice like others set thiers  That's all. Oh yeah... I have a client coming to me in ten minutes because I provide a great service. :) Unlike what others assume here but pardon me think what you like. We are all different. It's working for me mine wasn't a male slut to begin with. :)
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #136 on: 27 July 2016, 08:32:48 pm »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on 27 July 2016, 08:20:30 pm
I know and that was two little blips less than a month. Lesson learned and I have found a decent man who loves me for me he didn't love me who met me as an escort. I don't have a problem here but when a few try to change my way it isn't happening. Especially coming with the fact I don't like clients just not to date. That's all nothing more or less. Mine met me under no sex worker fee. I'm happy with my foundation.

One client asked me if I have a bf. I said yes he said he hopes it not a client I rest my case. My life my choice. Disagree with me but I will never agree with dating clients. I'm worth more than that and have high standards.

My choice like others set thiers  That's all. Oh yeah... I have a client coming to me in ten minutes because I provide a great service. :) Unlike what others assume here but pardon me think what you like. We are all different. It's working for me mine wasn't a male slut to begin with. :)

You're worth more than that?! What is that supposed to mean. I can understand not dating clients as that's your choice and I respect that, it's not for everyone. However to say your standards are high etc is quite rude to the women who have ended up dating/living with/marrying ex customers.
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #137 on: 27 July 2016, 09:47:29 pm »
Quote from: elleheart on 27 July 2016, 08:32:48 pm
You're worth more than that?! What is that supposed to mean. I can understand not dating clients as that's your choice and I respect that, it's not for everyone. However to say your standards are high etc is quite rude to the women who have ended up dating/living with/marrying ex customers.

My standards are my standards that's all make what you want of it. Not all escorts date clients they are not the only men. I just choose non clients that's all. I only said after another thought she knew. If you stroll up. I just finished with a satisfied new client. :)
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #138 on: 27 July 2016, 09:48:44 pm »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on 27 July 2016, 09:47:29 pm
My standards are my standards that's all make what you want of it. Not all escorts date clients they are not the only men. I just choose non clients that's all. I only said after another thought she knew. If you stroll up. I just finished with a satisfied new client. :)

But doesn't this mean you would only choose men who wouldn't choose to shag you?
I think there's some hella internalised misogyny going on here.
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #139 on: 27 July 2016, 09:50:34 pm »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on 27 July 2016, 09:47:29 pm
If you stroll up. I just finished with a satisfied new client. :)

Why do we need to know that?
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #140 on: 27 July 2016, 09:51:55 pm »
Quote from: Shewolf on 27 July 2016, 09:50:34 pm
Why do we need to know that?
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #141 on: 27 July 2016, 09:52:22 pm »
Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 27 July 2016, 09:48:44 pm
But doesn't this mean you would only choose men who wouldn't choose to shag you?
I think there's some hella internalised misogyny going on here.

It means what I have said all along make what you want out of it because you are far off. I will never date a paying client regardless. That's all.
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #142 on: 27 July 2016, 09:53:35 pm »
Quote from: Shewolf on 27 July 2016, 09:50:34 pm
Why do we need to know that?

Because apparently mirror assumed wrong.
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #143 on: 27 July 2016, 09:53:54 pm »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on 27 July 2016, 09:47:29 pm
My standards are my standards that's all make what you want of it. Not all escorts date clients they are not the only men. I just choose non clients that's all. I only said after another thought she knew. If you stroll up. I just finished with a satisfied new client. :)
Eh? You say that you don't want a man slut, who is to say your current man isn't one? Seeing escorts doesn't make you a man slut in the slightest. Some just want company, simple as that.
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #144 on: 27 July 2016, 09:58:09 pm »
Quote from: elleheart on 27 July 2016, 09:53:54 pm
Eh? You say that you don't want a man slut, who is to say your current man isn't one? Seeing escorts doesn't make you a man slut in the slightest. Some just want company, simple as that.

Because those who don't use escorts escorts will never know with clients. Ok... I disagree to agree to end this. Obviously I touched a nerve. I know and won't share about mine thank you.
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #145 on: 27 July 2016, 10:01:00 pm »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on 27 July 2016, 09:58:09 pm
Because those who don't use escorts escorts will never know with clients. Ok... I disagree to agree to end this. Obviously I touched a nerve. I know and won't share about mine thank you.
My partner is not a man slut and never was. Never assume. I'm not a fan of closed minded people who tar everyone will the same brush. Touched a nerve? Seems like you're the one who has been burnt badly  ::)
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #146 on: 27 July 2016, 10:03:36 pm »
Quote from: elleheart on 27 July 2016, 10:01:00 pm
My partner is not a man slut and never was. Never assume. I'm not a fan of closed minded people who tar everyone will the same brush. Touched a nerve? Seems like you're the one who has been burnt badly  ::)

No not at all my man is better than paying for sex simple as. Obviously  because you all are defending clients who are man slut.  My man isn't.  That's one thing I have for me.

Look Amy will lock this thread soon. I won't back down from my beliefs. Nor will you. So there you go. So carry on.
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #147 on: 27 July 2016, 10:04:07 pm »
Quote from: Shewolf on 27 July 2016, 09:50:34 pm
Why do we need to know that?
Because mirror says that it sounds that she doesn't like her clients ! So she said that to show you that she doesn't dislike them and she still gives a great service but just chooses not to date them! Not wanting to date them and not liking them is two different things! And even though what she is saying may have touched a nerve with some of you and came across a bit rude for you there's no need to give snide remarks ! It's kinda childish ! Plus two wrongs really doesn't make a right ! Before you know it people will be scared to come on here and voice their opinion if it's different from the majority .
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #148 on: 27 July 2016, 10:05:02 pm »
it just seems like a barista saying they would never date a man who paid for coffee.
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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #149 on: 27 July 2016, 10:05:14 pm »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on 27 July 2016, 10:03:36 pm
No not at all my man is better than paying for sex simple as. Obviously  because you all are defending clients who are man slut.  My man isn't.  That's one thing I have for me.
Woah, so men are 'better' if they don't use escorts? Jesus.   ::)
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