Whereas my view of sex has always been different - I liked to make sure we were physically compatible, and get that bit out of the way first. It was never a holding it back, keeping it for commitment thing. I was brought up and taught the opposite, but when I got down to it and really fancied someone my physical side always won!

So dating a customer I'd already gotten the sex out of the way, which suited me down to the ground.

Sex don't really bother me I'm more about wanting to get to know his personality and if we have common interests basically if we get on and how he treats me outside the bedroom.

I wouldn't consider dating anyone unless I already knew we were sexually compatible.

Different strokes

I always thought I wouldn't date a client, but recently my mind has changed after meeting probably the nicest sweetest guy I've come across, we have spoken since March and had bookings, it's progressing nicely and he told me how he felt after our first meet, he's so lovely we talk every single day, I always said I'm young don't want a relationship until I'm around 30, but now I'm starting to think hmmm, a relationship would be nice!

Personally I don't think punters are any worse or better than non punters if a man is going to cheat he's going to cheat regardless if that's with an escort or not. Punters have various reasons for paying for sex I'm sure we've heard different ones from clients!

There are punters out there who probably don't tell a soul that they punt and you could meet him in a bar or on a dating site just like any civvy guy.  So an escort/civvy could be dating an ex punter and have no idea at all.

Same here, I slept with my partner on the first date to check! It's also bullshit that you shouldn't put out too soon

Me too, sexual compatibility is massively important to me in relationships, I'm always keen to check all is good in the bedroom department first.

I really don't think I could date a client, I went out for dinner once with a client socially and felt really weird about it, felt more at home naked with him than sitting in a reataurant with him.

I was a cold hard, lets have some impersonal sex, that'll show how strong I am type person - and in a relationship my dismissive side is very strong, any partner has a tough time with me, hell I have a tough time with me too!

The media love to typecast both sex worker and client, let's not us do it too!

We all live and learn something new each day.  It's good to hear that you're happy!! 5^  Thank you for sharing.

Yes but you can fall in love with firm buttocks and a nice willy, I reckon.

Oh yes! But for how long?