Author Topic: Dating a customer (Read 54871 times)

foxy roxy · « **Reply #105 on:** 27 July 2016, 02:21:20 pm »

4 years and still happy. We live apart (exactly what I want) he hasn't met my family (exactly what I want), when we go out he pays for everything (exactly what I want), he completely respects my job and thinks I have a valid place in society (which is exactly what I want).

I think girls can get fucked over and used for sex regardless of their profession, also if the woman has money she might get fucked over, that's a relationship issue and not solely a working girl issue.

Mirror · « **Reply #106 on:** 27 July 2016, 02:34:26 pm »

Quote from: foxy roxy on 27 July 2016, 02:21:20 pm

4 years and still happy. We live apart (exactly what I want) he hasn't met my family (exactly what I want), when we go out he pays for everything (exactly what I want), he completely respects my job and thinks I have a valid place in society (which is exactly what I want).

I think girls can get fucked over and used for sex regardless of their profession, also if the woman has money she might get fucked over, that's a relationship issue and not solely a working girl issue.

Yep.

The meeting parents thing is interesting. I find that whole thing very old fashioned, my acid test is do you become involved in each others lives, do you introduce each other to friends and colleagues?Parent meeting can come at any time - at one time I'd rush home with my latest boyfriend etc, then I learned it's better not to be forced, just go with the flow and get the relationship established first.

Current husband and only husband so far was a client, and is totally devoted to me. Just because he once paid for sex, doesn't mean he will do again - or would do without telling me. I know that a lot of women just don't know their partner pays for sex, so you could argue that I'm in a stronger position because I do know.

Mirror · « **Reply #107 on:** 27 July 2016, 02:41:41 pm »

Quote from: newbieNW on 24 July 2016, 09:25:25 am

Most punters wouldn't ever dream of stop punting. Having an escort GF is a passport to this "lifestyle". "she does it, I do it, too". Or, "don't disrespect me by continuing to work as an escort whilst I may still be punting behind your back and I will definitely keep my punting phone."

Nope not my experience.

Some (quite a few) clients pay for sex because of their personal situation, many would rather their home life be quite different (and they may be single or otherwise), but it's not and paying for sex is another way to obtain affection and/or sex. It's easy to assume all men want easy sex, at some point in their lives most people of both genders probably do, it's not only a male thing. Everyone is an individual, with individual needs and wants - need for love and affection I'd say is pretty much universal whether or not you are aware of it.

I was a cold hard, lets have some impersonal sex, that'll show how strong I am type person - and in a relationship my dismissive side is very strong, any partner has a tough time with me, hell I have a tough time with me too!

The media love to typecast both sex worker and client, let's not us do it too!

foxy roxy · « **Reply #108 on:** 27 July 2016, 03:10:28 pm »

Some guys only punt when not in a relationship, I have regulars who I see regularly for a few months then nothing for 6 months or so while they are busy dating.

If a guy is a serial punter, he will punt if he's in a relationship or not.................not ....................he's going to punt because he's in a relationship with an escort, if that makes sence. If he's monogamous hes monogamous, if he's not then he's not.

Swinging is a completely different thing and has nothing to do with punting, unless the guy is into both

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #109 on:** 27 July 2016, 03:16:48 pm »

Quote from: foxy roxy on 27 July 2016, 03:10:28 pm

Some guys only punt when not in a relationship, I have regulars who I see regularly for a few months then nothing for 6 months or so while they are busy dating.

If a guy is a serial punter, he will punt if he's in a relationship or not.................not ....................he's going to punt because he's in a relationship with an escort, if that makes sence. If he's monogamous hes monogamous, if he's not then he's not.

Swinging is a completely different thing and has nothing to do with punting, unless the guy is into both

That was my way of putting it across ok clients don't swing they whore themselves about. They swing with numerous people just they pay for it. No difference there sex is sex. Having a gf doesn't change who they are. Still I wouldn't touch a client unless they paid me. I choose to set my standards high. No matter what they are not bf material never will be. That is why the failing rate with them is high compared. You read about it here.

Mirror · « **Reply #110 on:** 27 July 2016, 03:22:42 pm »

It's sounds like you don't like your clients, or to you they can only ever be one dimension?

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #111 on:** 27 July 2016, 03:38:51 pm »

It can sound how it likes to you. You can assume what you want. This is about dating customers is it not?. Actually I have many regulars. So of course many enjoy. I would rather date some guy where it would bother him. You believe what you choose so do I. I have my firm beliefs and prefer guys who don't punt or sleep around. That is up to me. Clients are good I service them nicely. I have no negatives in my escorting. So does that answer your comment.

mature helen · « **Reply #112 on:** 27 July 2016, 03:53:26 pm »

Not all men who punt are cheaters.
Many punters are lonely, divorced, widowed or with sick partners who they don't want to bother for sex especially the more mature clients I entertain. Some men of course are just rampant sex beasts who would fuck whatever they can get their hands on and couldn't stay faithful to save their life but that's them. Dating a punter my first thought would be is he wanting free sex? Once that's settled I don't see the problem especially if he is ok with me working. I'm not looking to date ect but I wouldn't discriminate against a nice guy who I fancied because he's a punter.
I don't think punters cheat on their partners any more than non punters.

KittenCandy · « **Reply #113 on:** 27 July 2016, 03:55:10 pm »

Quote from: meetingdiversity on 27 July 2016, 03:16:48 pm

That was my way of putting it across ok clients don't swing they whore themselves about. They swing with numerous people just they pay for it. No difference there sex is sex. Having a gf doesn't change who they are. Still I wouldn't touch a client unless they paid me. I choose to set my standards high. No matter what they are not bf material never will be. That is why the failing rate with them is high compared. You read about it here.

I get where you are coming from. I wouldn't date a client either. Just not attracted to old men. lol. Plus, there is just something about a man that has paid me for sex that is an instant turn off. So even if they were around my age it still wouldn't happen. Plus, I much prefer to get to know someone first before having sex with them. Hence why in my private my life I could never date someone who I've shagged without getting to know. So if i barely know you and we've shagged we can't date lol

I let my guys wait three months for it. Kinda feel like a hypocrite when I'm busy shagging baboons but I don't enjoy the sex and just do it for the money so....

KittenCandy · « **Reply #114 on:** 27 July 2016, 03:59:19 pm »

Quote from: meetingdiversity on 27 July 2016, 03:38:51 pm

It can sound how it likes to you. You can assume what you want. This is about dating customers is it not?. Actually I have many regulars. So of course many enjoy. I would rather date some guy where it would bother him. You believe what you choose so do I. I have my firm beliefs and prefer guys who don't punt or sleep around. That is up to me. Clients are good I service them nicely. I have no negatives in my escorting. So does that answer your comment.

Me too

KittenCandy · « **Reply #115 on:** 27 July 2016, 04:00:05 pm »

Quote from: Jessica201 on 27 July 2016, 03:55:10 pm

sorry posted twice

foxy roxy · « **Reply #116 on:** 27 July 2016, 04:10:22 pm »

One thing that seems to come up regularly when we talk about dating customers is the question of 'does he want free sex?' My thought is, don't all men in a relationship want free sex? Sure they pay for it with dinners, cinema etc, but basically the girls are giving it away because they like the guy they are with..................What's the difference with us?

Mirror · « **Reply #117 on:** 27 July 2016, 04:24:58 pm »

Quote from: foxy roxy on 27 July 2016, 04:10:22 pm

One thing that seems to come up regularly when we talk about dating customers is the question of 'does he want free sex?' My thought is, don't all men in a relationship want free sex? Sure they pay for it with dinners, cinema etc, but basically the girls are giving it away because they like the guy they are with..................What's the difference with us?

I have always had sex with men because I wanted to, not because they took me out. Quite a few partners didn't take me out, sometimes I was the one doing the taking out, buying things for. Even if they do it's still not because they carry the financial weight.

mature helen · « **Reply #118 on:** 27 July 2016, 04:25:04 pm »

Quote from: foxy roxy on 27 July 2016, 04:10:22 pm

One thing that seems to come up regularly when we talk about dating customers is the question of 'does he want free sex?' My thought is, don't all men in a relationship want free sex? Sure they pay for it with dinners, cinema etc, but basically the girls are giving it away because they like the guy they are with..................What's the difference with us?

What I personally mean is if he wants a proper relationship with me as my bona fide BF firstly as he wouldn't be my punter anymore he would be bound by my no sex until I'm sure I want to be in this relationship with him and so he'd have to prove himself.
I don't like giving away sex unless its with a man who I see a future with or its being paid for by a punter.

Mirror · « **Reply #119 on:** 27 July 2016, 04:31:13 pm »

Quote from: mature helen on 27 July 2016, 04:25:04 pm

What I personally mean is if he wants a proper relationship with me as my bona fide BF firstly as he wouldn't be my punter anymore he would be bound by my no sex until I'm sure I want to be in this relationship with him and so he'd have to prove himself.
I don't like giving away sex unless its with a man who I see a future with or its being paid for by a punter.

Whereas my view of sex has always been different - I liked to make sure we were physically compatible, and get that bit out of the way first. It was never a holding it back, keeping it for commitment thing. I was brought up and taught the opposite, but when I got down to it and really fancied someone my physical side always won!

So dating a customer I'd already gotten the sex out of the way, which suited me down to the ground.

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