I have always been fine with these clients and most are happy with just female panties and stockings etc but occasionally one will want the full make over and again I am ok with this as long as I am prepared.

My gripe is with those who turn up and have given no warning, then ask to wear my items. Not a huge problem as I have oodles of pairs of spare cheap tights and hold ups etc. What annoys me is when they ask to wear my lingerie when they have a 50 inch chest or bigger!

They rarely bring their own outfits so I do have a few things which will stretch at a pinch to fit them for a booking. What I am not prepared to do is buy huge things for them. I have dresses from charity shops which will fit them but many are only interested in the underwear.

They expect my size 34D bra to fit them and seem disappointed when it doesn't. Same with suspender belts, I have several and they do stretch but if they appear to be at breaking point over their bellies I just tell them sorry no can do. 

What do other ladies here do when dealing with clients like these? 

Birchplace used to sell a lot of that stuff too, if memory serves? The site's had a bit of an overhaul lately but there might be some useful info there

I bought in some extra pieces as I used to run a dress up and play session. If you are looking for a low cost option you can order things very cheap from China, you will find various stores on eBay or just a general web search although they usually take about 6 weeks to arrive. These are good for the guys who just want to try x dressing out as opposed to the life style ones.
Another option for the clients who are more serious but for one reason or another cant order and store items themselves is to ask them to pay a supplement and for that you will order and store items especially for them x

Edit.. mention the above on your profile/website and with the guys who just turn up with no warning have a few large 'china' pieces put aside for them to choose from at a small cost x

I do keep some items for those few men who bring their own ( no charge for this) and want to store them at mine until the next visit but have a bag containing several items for such a situation yet he has not rebooked in 4 years. 

Ordering from China is cheap yes but risky with regard to things being what they advertise (got stung once after ordering a PVC skirt and it arrived as a nylon one with not a hint of pvc) and I can't be bothered waiting several weeks while the parcel(s) crawl over the continents to the UK.

I think the charity shop option is best but I do wish they would provide their own stuff.

I wouldn't dream of buying any clothes from those sites for myself as ive been stung in the past, trying their clothes on depresses me and makes me want to start a diet lol. Their sizes are definitely smaller than ours but cheap suspenders belts for clients that will only be worn a handful of times are a different matter unless you need them urgently it wouldn't bother me waiting as i think it would be rare to find a large choice of decent undies in a charity shop. If you don't want to wait Birch place does have a large range of items. You can always send your client the link to choose what they want then let them send you the money so you can order on their behalf.

A lot of clients want the option to X dress in a safe space and if you market it right you could be very busy allowing them to do so, i had some great times doing it and also got some photos/videos for my private gallery which was great for advertising and in turn generated more income. If it's something that interests you it's worth paying a little more and buying a range of good quality items for clients to use. Im seriously thinking of advertising my 'dress up and play' sessions again as I dropped them when I swapped my services to erotic massage x

I once went on a dinner date booking to a burlesque night with a blind and hard of hearing X Dresser. We met in his hotel, where he had spent a fortune on clothes, wigs, make up. I helped to get him ready then we went out. He had one corset that he had made specially for him that was around £400. It was a good night but such a shame that he couldn't see all the fabulous costumes and burlesque acts x

I have had Xdressers asking can we go out shopping together (with them already dressed as women) and I flatly refuse anything like this. They obviously are thinking of their own thrills doing this but not giving a thought to whether I can be seen by friends/relatives/neighbours!

Most of the Xdressers I have met have only done this behind closed doors but one man was quite put out when after asking could he arrive already attired and I said no. At least he asked first as had he turned up the way he wanted I would have been furious. Reason for this is my location and position of front door etc.

This reminds me of an incident that happened a few years ago. I was waiting for my new working flat to be ready so I rented a room off AW. It was in an old parlour that had been refurbed and now the rooms were let out to indies on a daily basis. inside the place it was well decorated perfect for what I needed at the time but unfortunately it was in a ruff part of town. One of my regular X dressers asked could he arrive made up, I explained it might not be the place but as it was non residential it was up to him. When he arrived some street lads were hanging around outside looking more than suspect so I had to come out and escort him into the building, the poor man was shaking. Needless to say he never asked could he arrived already made up again 

Anyway not to derail this thread too much its best for them to arrive with either their clothes on underneath or in a bag. If they cant have their clothes at home and you don't mind let them leave some at yours but maybe tell them if they haven't rebooked within a certain amount of time the clothes become your spare ones for other X dressers to use. Don't let them just turn up and try to squeeze into your best panties and if you enjoy this type of thing and advertise it right there's definitely a market out there for a safe space to dress up and play x

Most of my cross dressers/sissys like humiliation so they don't mind (and want to) look silly...so to that end I have a bag with anything I have owned that has since gone crap. Stockings that have split or laddered, dresses gone bad in the wash. I'm a 14-16 so a lot of my stuff fit may of them anyway unless they are quite big, with the exception of bras because my back is small, but I have a few cast offs that I put 'half on' as in, without doing up. I also have cast off an poundland makeup. It all adds to the general silliness.

If a cross dresser actually wants to look nice they have to bring their own stuff or pay a supplement in deposit form for me to order what they want ready as I can't be expected to have any amount of man size female clothing for the odd one or two that show up intermittently, especially as these specialist items can be costly.

I had a few cross dressing clients but they were happy to wear my clothing and being a bbw  it wasn't an issue unless they were very skinny or they brought their own.I did have one cheeky sod enquire if I had a special cross dressing wardrobe as he didn't want to wear my stuff (but apparently happy to wear stuff that other men would have probably worn?!?)and seemed put out that I didn't have a special wardrobe with specific cross dressing clothes in!Another wanted to come to my flat already dressed,wigged and made up until I pointed out he would be walking from an NCP car park across a busy dual carriageway outside a pub and into a busy multistorey apartment block!
Other ones include crossdressers who buy you matching underwear without checking your sizing or indeed even informing you that they would be doing this or that they were even into this!