I've got one that texts me all the time, he wants to make a booking to trample him with me in an old pair of converse.
Which is fine, but he never actually books

Then I've got another one, who wants to be my "friend", he used to be a client, but he started booking me for an hour,
then stay for 3 hours because we "only used the hour for actual sex".
I put a stop to it, and said it was in the end just work for me, and if you want to spend 3 hours with me you'll have to pay for 3 hours.
He wasn't a client anymore after that, but he still e-mails, texts, and wants to come and see me for a "chat and a cuppa".
He is a nice guy, but I like to keep my work and my private life separate, yet I don't have the heart to say to him I don't
want to see him socially, I just keep making up excuses

Or not even excuses, I just don't have time, and I have no desire to spend time with him either, without sounding harsh..
It's just people-pleasing, and I'm usually pretty good with NOT doing that, but he is a decent guy and I know he means well.
