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Fifi

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Clients that want to bring toys
« on: 05 March 2025, 01:14:30 pm »
Do you let them bring them or use them on you?

I'm never really comfortable with it.
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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #1 on: 05 March 2025, 01:52:53 pm »
A client randomly brought a huge vibrator with him with out requesting it was very annoying. I told him off and said you should request this in advance. I just put it on my thigh and pretended!

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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #2 on: 05 March 2025, 02:22:18 pm »
Certainly not without at a minimum

A) sticking a condom on the toy and
B) I think it seemed clean enough just by outward appearance

Absolutely hated a client I saw once who wanted me to use giant dildos that just simply would going to be so uncomfortable for me. I tried my “best” but he’s expecting me to enjoy it and it doesn’t work like that.

Or if they mentioned it was belonging an ex of theirs . EW EW ew stop that

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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #3 on: 05 March 2025, 02:46:18 pm »
Only if the toys they are bringing are for them!

One guy brought gigantic arse toys. Never seen anything like it in my life.

I’ve never had a client bring toys to use on me, and unless they were new and packaged, it would be a definite, ‘NO.’

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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #4 on: 05 March 2025, 03:57:21 pm »
I have my own toys but if it someone I know well I do let them use on me. Most ask me in advance.

One got me a double ended dildo to use with another escort. He really enjoyed watching us with it.

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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #5 on: 06 March 2025, 06:56:38 am »
The only toys I've  agreed to use on myself were presented in sealed boxes, and I do explain I don't get a great deal of pleasure from any toy.

A punter once pulled out a toy from a drawer, the property was very obviously shared  with a partner or at least photos of a woman and children all over the house. Instant knee jerk reaction 'No'. Another grabbed a magic wand he had by the bed, this was because he was having trouble staying erect and he explained watching me use it on myself would turn him on. Aside from the hygiene issues I have had a magic wand used on me once, I got zero pleasure from it, only thing I did experience was the sensation of my pelvic bones vibrating which wasn't erotic at all. So once again 'No'.

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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #6 on: 06 March 2025, 08:45:09 am »
My own vibrators and the like are in a box which hasn't seen the light of day for ages as the novelty of them seems to have faded both by me and clients.  If anyone brought me one to use in or on my body I would politely say no. My memory isn't bringing up any such times but similar to Mirror I've had outcalls years ago to marital homes and "her" sex toys have been produced. Again I've refused but have usually brought one or two of my own.  The men must have thought it a huge turn on to use the wife's vibe on a visiting sex worker.  To me that's a step too far.

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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #7 on: 06 March 2025, 04:08:58 pm »
No. I long since binned my own toys.
 They were only ever 'for show' and did nothing for me.
 It helped to while away a longer booking i suppose, but only for 5 minutes or so.

I too have had clients pull out their bedside drawer and brandish some plug-in monstrosity or other.
I say, "Oh is that for you?" and it never is, so they hastily replace it  ;D

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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #8 on: 06 March 2025, 04:52:10 pm »
Only if they:

a) tell me about beforehand and let make a decision after they've described it
b) allowed me to clean it properly before we start

Otherwise absolutely not. If they turn up with a manky dildo in a carrier bag unannounced (has happened before) it's not happening.

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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #9 on: 07 March 2025, 10:51:44 am »
Thank you.  Yes I've had all the scenarios mentioned too.

Amusingly one guy brought a toy set and I'd already got the exact same toys!

Needless to say I refused to use his  ;D ;D
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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #10 on: 07 March 2025, 01:22:45 pm »
I had a couple of clients trying to get me use some random toys they had laying around their bedside cabinets, one with visible crusty white streaks on it, he insisted the toy was new and unused- bought just for me!  when I pointed out the dodgy streaks he shrugged and said ‘oh you don’t trust me ??? ‘ erm wtf

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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #11 on: 07 March 2025, 01:36:30 pm »
I had a couple of clients trying to get me use some random toys they had laying around their bedside cabinets, one with visible crusty white streaks on it, he insisted the toy was new and unused- bought just for me!  when I pointed out the dodgy streaks he shrugged and said ‘oh you don’t trust me ??? ‘ erm wtf

Urgh 😒
If it was bought just for you it would have been sealed in it's box for you to open! . Pointing this out to him could have provoked a bad turn in the booking.   Gross and disgusting to think he expected you to use it on yourself 😒

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Re: Clients that want to bring toys
« Reply #12 on: 07 March 2025, 01:40:36 pm »
Urgh 😒
If it was bought just for you it would have been sealed in it's box for you to open! . Pointing this out to him could have provoked a bad turn in the booking.   Gross and disgusting to think he expected you to use it on yourself 😒
Yes, he knew exactly what he was doing, was really pushy about it as well. He was getting a kick out of the idea of me using his dirty toy 🤢  though would need to try harder to bypass my basic hygiene assessment.