So this regular of mine established an illusion of a relationship in his head
Texts me cringy texts like „how is my kitty doing“ (yeah u know what he meant), „just cooked chicken“, „leaving the city now“
Why do ppl like this exist
Mind u I don’t think he is not aware of what he’s doing because one time he interlocked hands with me and I abruptly took it back showing annoyance
He is going to get blocked but just wanted to discuss

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If you think it’s genuinely that he doesn’t know any better, then it’s time to remind him firmly (but sweetly if you wish) what the boundaries are. A lot of clients especially autistic ones can easily get too attached without thinking… I balance that out with being one of the worst repliers known to humanity 😂

You can say something like: “I’m happy that you want to book me but the texting me all day needs to stop please as I do have a life outside this work, if this doesn’t improve I will need to block you, thank you” - should significantly cut the texts down

I’ve had lots of EAS men unfortunately  . Clients suggesting getting married… me explaining that they better get that idea out their heads or else I will need to stop seeing them / this isn’t fair on me as a professional just doing her job / gently reminding them I’m not attracted to them in that way as I am getting paid

Definitely cut them off if necessary though! You don’t need to tolerate bad behaviour

This client seems like such a drag he might be so past the limit and need blocking if it was me honestly, a good call