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JJay1985

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Client who gets in touch once every few years
« on: 12 April 2013, 04:46:49 pm »
I saw a client yesterday who I had not seen since 2010 (which was the only time I saw him).  In the emails and phone conversations he mentioned we had met before but I couldn't really remember him (I keep details like numbers, email addys in a spreadsheet (but no pics lol) so knew we had met).  During the booking he was chatting to me like we were long lost friends which was nice and relaxing and could vaguely remember our encounter but not in too much detail.  But I could see that at one point during the booking he got a bit upset that I didn't remember his profession and some other details about him.  I'm not losing sleep over this but would like to know how you deal with clients that see you once in a bluemoon.  I didn't ask if he sees other girls and how often he sees them as I didn't think feel it was my place.

Are most guys realistic and aware you won?t remember if you haven't seen them in years?  Any tips for next time?

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Re: Client who gets in touch once every few years
« Reply #1 on: 12 April 2013, 05:38:04 pm »
JJ I have always professed to have one of the worse memories of people I know.

I am one of those WGs who forget their face the minute they close the door.  A few years ago I had a guy on the bed and noticed a tat he had on his upper arm and asked him "Have I seen you before?" "this is my FOURTH visit" was his response, god was I embarrassed. 

There is the occasional one I remember but not many.  I have no chance of remember them unless they were drop dead gorgeous.  Sorry its not an answer to your question but I wanted you to know you are not alone.
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Re: Client who gets in touch once every few years
« Reply #2 on: 12 April 2013, 06:56:39 pm »
thank god, someone else! i am exactly the same lady lust.
i have had maaaany a similar situation. halfway through the day i can't recall first few clients at all or sometimes even 15mins after they've left i have to concentrate hard!
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Re: Client who gets in touch once every few years
« Reply #3 on: 12 April 2013, 07:08:09 pm »
I do forget them when they haven't called in ages, and changed their mobile number .. its only when they walk through the door does recognition occurs !!!! :)

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Re: Client who gets in touch once every few years
« Reply #4 on: 12 April 2013, 09:22:49 pm »
JJay it sounds as if its his treat to see an escort every few years.......

Its impossible to remember non memorable blokes

just say you have a bad memory


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Re: Client who gets in touch once every few years
« Reply #5 on: 12 April 2013, 09:35:30 pm »
Some clients I remember everything about their one and only booking with me 3 years ago, others I'll see 2 or 3 times and still can't remember anything about them. There's no rhyme or reason to it either, some people stick in my mind and others don't. Some guys want you to remember them (I'm sure you've have the "I'm Dave, the one with the dark hair who made you laugh" text and still not clue who he is), some are offended if you can't, others are scared off by any recognition when they phone you again.

Just can't win sometimes.

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Re: Client who gets in touch once every few years
« Reply #6 on: 12 April 2013, 10:11:54 pm »
I had someone who I've seen ONCE (5 months ago!) texting me the other day:

- "Hi Ana, this is George!"
- "George have we met?"
- "Of course! Don't you remember me?"
- "Er... (why should I?) I don't keep clients numbers.... No... could you refresh my memory please?"
-  "I was the young guy from Derby. A few months ago!"
- " Er... Sorry George I'm not remembering you...can you give me more details, how you look like and stuff?"

....Longest 5 min pause............

- " I guess I wasn't that memorable then..."
- "Sorry George, i have a very bad memory" (lame lie to protect his ego).
- " It's ok... I guess I'm not that memorable..... I totally understand it" (sounding very down)
-" George, OF COURSE I REMEMBER YOU!!! (trying to save the situation). You were..... THE YOUNG GUY FROM DERBY! Right?"
- "It's Ok Ana.... This was a total blow to my ego. I'll call you some other time"

Hangs up.

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Re: Client who gets in touch once every few years
« Reply #7 on: 12 April 2013, 10:30:28 pm »
I had someone who I've seen ONCE (5 months ago!) texting me the other day:

- "Hi Ana, this is George!"
- "George have we met?"
- "Of course! Don't you remember me?"
- "Er... (why should I?) I don't keep clients numbers.... No... could you refresh my memory please?"
-  "I was the young guy from Derby. A few months ago!"
- " Er... Sorry George I'm not remembering you...can you give me more details, how you look like and stuff?"

....Longest 5 min pause............

- " I guess I wasn't that memorable then..."
- "Sorry George, i have a very bad memory" (lame lie to protect his ego).
- " It's ok... I guess I'm not that memorable..... I totally understand it" (sounding very down)
-" George, OF COURSE I REMEMBER YOU!!! (trying to save the situation). You were..... THE YOUNG GUY FROM DERBY! Right?"
- "It's Ok Ana.... This was a total blow to my ego. I'll call you some other time"

Hangs up.

(Men, those fragile creatures)

My good excuse is when they expect me to remember because the accent here sounds so familiar to each other when they phone. I can recognise better face to face contact. Many are satisfied with that. Also add that I answer several phone calls every day. Even a few embarrassing moments when I mistaken one for another talking about certain things laughing it off. This can happen when in a rush not checking correctly.

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Re: Client who gets in touch once every few years
« Reply #8 on: 13 April 2013, 12:59:51 pm »
I guess some guys expect everyone they come across in life to remember them, from the cashier at the local supermarket, former work colleagues to escort...but I imagine they wouldn't remember all of their child's school friends!

I'm not too bothered by it.  Looks like we all experience this!

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Re: Client who gets in touch once every few years
« Reply #9 on: 13 April 2013, 01:00:50 pm »
I can totally identify with Ladylust on this!
Each and every time my phone rings with a name and location ( meaning I have met them already at their home/hotel ) I have to quickly struggle to recall ANYTHING about them before I pick up - even if it was the same week. I usually fail and just blag it.
 I know that I am happy to see them again or I would have marked OID/NW! after their name ( Only If Desperate/No Way! ) and if it has been a fabulous booking they get * or ** too!  ;D
If I have the time I dig out my 'little black book' to read up a little info  about them, as I think it is a nice touch to ask about their poorly parrot etc  ;) but I am usually too busy getting ready and rushing off to bother.

This happens in my 'real life' too. I have lost count of the number of times I have conversations with people in the street/shops/gym and then treat them like a complete stranger and ignore them the next time we pass  :-[  There are also huge blocks of my life that I simply seem to totally forget. I used to keep a full-on diary and it is mind-blowing to read sometimes.
The up side of all this is that most negative stuff is simply on default delete and every day is brand spanking new to me!  X