Hi girls,

My work bedroom for years has had an en-suite bathroom so usually had a bin and clean up all in one room and a storage basket in bedroom with all the towels which I hand one over.

Do you usually help a client clean up or show them where the bin and bathroom is? I usually point them to the bin first so I know they’re not leaving a condom on the side in the bathroom or flushing down the toilet.

Now I am moving into a new flat and will be using a separate bathroom as I’ve kept the main en-suite bedroom for personal use so will be using main bathroom for clients.

Do I still keep closed bin in the bedroom for used condoms to go in or do I ask them to use bathroom bin- my worry is they just leave the condom on wise or worse flush down the toilet. Some clients have no common sense. Also do I still keep towels in my bedroom to hand over or leave them in the bathroom? Don’t want them just using another towel to shower after rather than one they’ve already used to shower before just because they have access to a large pile.

I also worry about the mess they end up leaving as my old en-suite was a walk in shower much easier to clean but this new bathroom is shower over bath. For context I was renting before and this new place i have just bought myself. Don’t want to be constantly cleaning hair up. Thinking to put a polite little sign/notice up asking they leave the bathroom in the state they find it or is that too much?

What do your girls do for clean up after?

Like the poster above I never let them handle condom removal and disposal,  they are hopeless at it and on rare occasions when they have done it they pull from the tip and fling spunk everywhere ffs.

I do the removing, I tie it in a knot and put it in a mini flip top pedal bin which I line with a nappy bag and empty after they leave, wet wipes etc also go in there.

I also use the main bathroom for clients and I physically give them a clean towel before I send them into the bathroom and only have out the things they can use, most I find are tidy but then I'm not in a city or full time.

I'm another who wouldn't let them remove the condom - I take it off with a wet wipe and wrap it as soon as it's done with, then it goes in a rubbish bag ready for the bin. I don't want them dribbling all over the place and they don't have any reason to touch the condom at all; I use up the paper bags that come in the condom boxes first, then individual nappy bags.

I don't find that many need a shower, but like Patricia I leave one towel and one hand towel in the bathroom along with a face flannel (which I normally wind up using to dry the splashes on the mirror after they've gone). I don't mind them using two towels if the first one is damp and cold, but not many ask (and if I had a lot to wash I might feel differently). I also leave out deodorant and aftershave (ones I like and use when I'm not working - it gives me an excuse to buy them ).

If you have a glass shower screen definitely get a squeegee, at least if your water is anything like as hard as it is here. A quick spray and a swish down does fine between most IME and I normally just do it when I've been in

I always take charge of the condom and tie a knot in it - very important to stop seepage
I'm now lucky enough to have a wheelie bin - but at previous places had to use black bin bags for bin day. Top tip from me is that if your place uses bin bags and not a wheelie bin, double bag everything work waste wise in none see through bags to make small daily packages and put in a street litter bin.
I have had bad experiences with bin bags getting torn open and a horrifying trail of used condoms strewn over the pavement outside my flat. I think cats and dogs can smell sperm/vaginal secretion even if there is no food waste in the black bags.

I personally put a bin next to their side of the bed with tissues and wipes for them to dispose of so they don't need to dispose of it in the bathroom. I always wrap condom wrappers in tissue paper and put tissues on top used condoms in the bin if they are exposed as I don't think its nice for clients to see condoms wrappers and used condoms, but they don't mind seeing just tissue in a bin.

Ditto.

Lady, It sounds to me like you are making too much work for yourself!

While they are lying there, YOU need to take off the condom. they are likely to pull it off and spill contents everywhere and who knows where they will put it.
Do not leave the men unattended. They break stuff. They steal stuff. Or they are just nosy and will open every door.


You have - GOOD QUALITY KITCHEN ROLL - PLENTY - and you wipe them with it, if there is any mess. Not wet wipes as that just moves the mess around. You can use wet wipes as well after to freshen up.

Then they get up and go.

Most do not use the bathroom. ---

They don't wash their hands - yes, it is disgusting - By doing this, you will learn most will not go wash their hands even when encouraged to do so and even after you have just watched them finger their own arse-hold.

Whatever room they can go in needs to be idiot-proof and you must only have things in there that you are willing for them to use. GIVE them the towel. They don't understand how shower mats work  or shower doors. Treat them all like toddlers.

And do lurk outside the door when they are in a separate room where they might come our and wander into another private part of your home.

I just had a huge clean up job. A old guy had a incontinence issue, and literally just pissed all over my bedroom carpet and bed spread. My bed is soaked and my bloody carpet is too. I'm so upset. I literally got to chuck my quilt away. I don't have a spare right now, and just scrubbed my carpet clean with carpet cleaner. Got to run to supermarket now and get a new one  now. So will have to cancel my next booking. He was about 80 years old,  so tried not to get angry with him, however my whole demeanor did change with him, and he looked surprised and puzzled that I was moody and quiet. He is 100% blocked.

This is terrible .. can he no reimburse you for the damage to your property?

He never offered and to be honest, I was in shock.   I just want no contact with him, ever again.