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Lushblossom

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Re: Since returning not making the money help
« Reply #15 on: 25 March 2025, 08:38:01 am »
Hey every one I’m out of hospital and resting up . Yes I’m in a small town and I very much stand out . I will only see a few from home I’m in a council property it is very nice but I have some very nosey neighbours with time on there hands so I won’t get away with working loads from home I’ll just do a few . But I’m gonna stick to the parlours for now where I know I can make money I won’t risk touring at the moment it’s too expensive for me .

I’m very recognisable ladies when I lived in Manchester which was a huge city I was constantly getting men come up to me in the street saying they had seen my profile it was very embarrassing I hope it doesn’t happen where I live .


I was supposed to be starting a job but they expected me to do 100 training hours for free before I started which I said no too so I’m looking for another little Job .

Alots changed for me since you all knew me I have epilepsy now which is another reason why I prefer parlours I hate them but if I have a fit at least I’m not on my own with the customer x

You can always buy a wig to disguise if need be.

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Re: Since returning not making the money help
« Reply #16 on: 25 March 2025, 10:04:27 am »
You sound gorgeous!
You are a good age - and sexy. Lots of men will want you.
I think a beginner can get some good experience in brothels or massage parlours, but it isn't good for everyone.

What I would do (what I did do and I'm similar to you):

Don't try to be the same as everyone else and compete.

Set yourself up as an experience worth paying for!

I think if you can work from home, set yourself up as SPECIAL. You want only a few clients a week, not a busy door. Work out what that means for you.

Then, only see guys for a minimum of 1 hour—no quick sessions. Charge £20 more than all the nearest competitors. So, I am guessing you should be charging around £150 per hour.

Then think about it: how many guys do you need to see at home to cover costs?
I am certain you will get at least an average of 5 or 6 per week doing this (which would put you on an average wage).
But perhaps you will get 10.

Write your adverts to target older clients as they are more reliable and more likely to be repeat clients - age 50-60 seems to be the sweet spot - and your age of 36 is perfect for them they aren't looking for young girls.

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Re: Since returning not making the money help
« Reply #17 on: 25 March 2025, 10:52:41 pm »
You sound gorgeous!
You are a good age - and sexy. Lots of men will want you.
I think a beginner can get some good experience in brothels or massage parlours, but it isn't good for everyone.

What I would do (what I did do and I'm similar to you):

Don't try to be the same as everyone else and compete.

Set yourself up as an experience worth paying for!

I think if you can work from home, set yourself up as SPECIAL. You want only a few clients a week, not a busy door. Work out what that means for you.

Then, only see guys for a minimum of 1 hour—no quick sessions. Charge £20 more than all the nearest competitors. So, I am guessing you should be charging around £150 per hour.

Then think about it: how many guys do you need to see at home to cover costs?
I am certain you will get at least an average of 5 or 6 per week doing this (which would put you on an average wage).
But perhaps you will get 10.

Write your adverts to target older clients as they are more reliable and more likely to be repeat clients - age 50-60 seems to be the sweet spot - and your age of 36 is perfect for them they aren't looking for young girls.

I agree with all what you saying here. I’m 40 years old and I also found coming back to work after few years was a nightmare. My profile was new, had to build up my base of clients again. Took me about 3 months. I still earn good money between 2k -2700 and I work only 4 days per week and only until 6-7pm.
I see mostly 50-60 years old clients and I am happy with it.
Also location was very important. Some areas I won’t make even 500£ per week. In other I will make thousands.  ::) OP needs just the time to build up her profile and base of clientele.

amy

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Re: Since returning not making the money help
« Reply #18 on: 26 March 2025, 09:40:47 am »
Just to recap, the OP is in a tiny town (<15,000 population) and in a council property which she will lose if she's rumbled, her neighbours are overfriendly, nosey and hanging about during the day and she's extremely distinctive looking (and therefore identifiable). Plus she has a health condition that could put her at risk if she's alone with a punter.

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Re: Since returning not making the money help
« Reply #19 on: 26 March 2025, 04:44:24 pm »
Thanks Amy for the re cap and thanks ladies for your advice and help it means a lot . I think I’m gonna stick to the parlor work for now and just do the odd shift there . I think I could work from home but abit paranoid bout doing so I’m only doing one  hour bookings . I wouldn’t get away with working like I did in Manchester and even then I was recognised and it was horrible and that’s Manchester . I have epilepsy so Iam also worried bout fitting in front of a client . I can usually tell when I’m gonna have one . I take meds to help with this . I really appreciate all advice . Xx

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Re: Since returning not making the money help
« Reply #20 on: 26 March 2025, 08:22:15 pm »
@barbiesback please just look after yourself and take things one step after another.. Parlour work is always a good launching pad.
Good luck ❤️

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Re: Since returning not making the money help
« Reply #21 on: 27 March 2025, 02:58:30 am »
Thanks so much hun I think the parlour route is best for me now I have some savings so I’m just looking to top up my income I get pip because of my epilepsy so I get 540 a month which is so helpful so I do ok monthly . I’m not looking to work loads and make loads but I would like to tick over xx

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Re: Since returning not making the money help
« Reply #22 on: 27 March 2025, 08:38:06 am »
No matter how tough things get, dont lose hope. Better days are coming, and you re stronger than you know. 💛
I’m a confident blend of strength and sensuality