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Author Topic: circumstances that you would go without a condom for certain clients?  (Read 4064 times)

caylee_k

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Absolutely not... if it bothers you, then he should be respectful of your boundaries and not be pressuring you to provide a service. I hate when people spend money and then act like they own you-- they are giving you money for services rendered, they didn't give it to you out of the kindness of their heart. You wouldn't see an accountant for 5 years and then say, hey dude so you I paid you to do my taxes for five years how about you do them for free this year? I had tons of clients like that when I was a stripper, after months of spending money they would expect that I would sleep with them outside. And I'm sure I'll be getting similar clients as an escort once I have regulars.

You have to go with what you are comfortable with, because otherwise you're going to feel like shit about it afterwards if it's not your decision, you're going to violated and like you were used. It's clear from your posts this service he is asking for makes you uncomfortable and you are only considering it because he is pressuring you... tell him to go do bareback with someone who actually offers it and not to come back and see you anymore as he is clearly not a respectful client to begin with! Asking for it once after months of seeing you, I would still frown and hold it against him but wouldn't drop him-- asking you repeatedly is disgusting!

ParisB

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You invest in stocks & shares and you can buy /invest in property
Never yet heard of investing in a escort



BibiofLeeds

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I think some clients deliberately try and 'groom'some escorts...spending alot of time with them, flattering them, fussing over them etc to manipulate them into giving more than they normally would. He sounds like one of those types...jog him on.

Lady_Lust_XXX

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There are NO CIRCUMSTANCES that I would consider not using a condom even with a long term client. He is a boundary pusher of the worst kind and his money and presence wouldnt be acceptable on my premises.

My life is worth more than that and I respect myself enough not to put it at risk.

I like the saying "I would rather die of old age than die of ignorance" and in this case it is very apt.

If I was to even consider BB my head would be saying to me each time I looked at a client or whoever I was going to shag, "it could be you that's giving me a life sentence .. or rather a death sentence" and NO PERSON is worth that in my books. 

I'll stick to staying clean and healthy thank you very much.
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It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
And most importantly a beautiful soul.

Erotic flower

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id been asked for bareback and told  they had a certificate for their disease free cock. still no thanks. I don't see why any of us should be pressured to do this or other sex acts we arnt advertising.
he is pushing his luck and in the end you might not see him if he carries on like this.
ive also had clients think its ok to push their uncovered cock near the entrance of my v  which at this point ive pulled away fast and then said put a condom on. some even loose the erection and blame it on the condom and expect us to ride bareback its still no. I just find myself repeating I don't do bareback, they get the message in the end and I don't end up feeling worried about catching something.

firsttimer

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If I'm ever asked (rarely) they are told they can pay me extra...

"I earn about X a week ... I plan to earn that for X amount of years... I would like this paid in full before the act, just in case I never work again due to HIV, or any of the other viruses that stay in your system FOR LIFE."  :FF

They usually shut up after that.

meetingdiversity

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★★I wouldn't do without under no circumstances do unprotected penetration not even for 100,000 pounds as my health is priceless. I will say sure though will do owo providing it meets my ocd standards. :-)★★

MGL69

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To be honest this has happened to me several times, men asking why we need one and trying to once closer and closer. The truth is though, you owe them nothing. The pay for you because otherwise they couldn't have you. You are a treat to them..not a bf. They pay for your time whether they cum or not. If he keeps it up just offer him an ultimatum. Say you are never going to go bareback and if that's the only thing he needs from you the obviously he is wasting his time. Trust me if he sees you that often he won't want to give that up. You don't deserve to be pressured that way. It makes it so awkward and it makes us seem like just a hole to them.

annie_london

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it doesn't matter how many times he sees you or what money he 'invests' that's always been his choice. you never said see me more and down the line I will give you bareback so don't let him get in your head and make you feel bad! He is trying to take advantage don't let him!

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lailah terri

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There are no (zero) circumstances when I would have intercourse without a condom. It doesn't matter how much a client spends, I would not break or bend my rules - in fact someone that valuable I most definitely wouldn't be doing anything like that with.

This!

Even in my personal life I would never take the risk. It makes me laugh when clients expect you to believe that you're the only wg they've considered doing this with  ::)


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