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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #15 on: 09 December 2012, 03:37:17 am »
Ideally the perfect Working flat would be DR Who's tardis that you can move when you need to ESP when you get busted or are touring lol

However as i ave never been able to get a tardis my thoughts are if a house then a end house is great as you will have 2 entrances and /or or a side entrance  as well if your only doing a few clients then you can use both entrances.    No pun intended
Or one that has no neighbour opposite .one that i rented was opposite a graveyard and on a main rd so no probs there


Flats purpose built not conversions unless done very well because normally the noise  is awful I had one where it was a asement flat so great but upstairs played the piano ( well they thought they did and trying to shag to the funeral march is not fun)

 But basement flats are great    or flats with loads of apartents and preferably several entrances and lots of professional people in them
   Flats that don't have people windows looking at you door ie around a court yard ect setting and communal garden where people congregate and chat ect

The more people on your floor the better  also ones were the flats  are not directly opposite so even if looking out of spy hole they can't see bugger all

The best flat I had was one that had around 40 on each floor anfpd my own flat   the worse where I got Sussed within 2 weeks was one that had a courtyard and one that only had 3 flats on each floor and one on a main rd opposite a rank of busy shops.  All of these we got Sussed within a week or so )

Look out for signs that proclaim monthly residents meetings neighbourhood watch meetings ect
It often means that  your living close to nosey neighbours

If you can move in and not be seen then that's even better I've moved in overnight like a vampire

If it a private landlord find out if they used to live there because if they did chances are the neighbours have there number on speed dial to complain and complain they will.

Personally I wouldn't rent from a woman again either as all the ones that I had to leave from due to getting Sussed were owned by women  judgemental yeh but that's just my experience

The best were professional cooperate lets or male landlords

Avoid places that are close to schools and churches ect if possible cause nothing gets the local PTA. And the vicars smock in a twist than the local prossie corupting the young




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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #16 on: 09 December 2012, 08:47:56 am »
I'd say apartment every time houses bring more nosey neighbours

I agree that an apartment is usually best as visitors could be going into any apartment in the block whereas a main door house is going to get all the traffic (obviously). 

Houses may often have children in them too (dependent on where you are).  Mothers will always be about watching their children and any activity going to and from a house will be noticed more readily and acted upon in many cases to protect their children. 

For me, after finding the right location, my next query is, is there any/many children living in the locale, if the answer is yes, then I will not use it.  If Im honest, when my children were young I would have run anyone out of the area that was whoring.  May be a bit double standard and a case of NIMBY but children are precious and should be protected 100%.

Some guys dont treat escorts too well, I dread to think what they may get up to if they saw a child about when leaving.
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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #17 on: 09 December 2012, 10:24:23 am »
I used to rent two separate places. It was a nightmare, too many outgoings and having to work doubly hard. The building was perfect, but it became a hassle. Tidying two places up, having to run from one place to the other sometimes at short notice, dealing with 2 different landlords etc became too stressful.

So I gave one place up, and now I am much happier working from home. I live in a massive anonymous apartment block, half the flats on my floor are empty, and the guy next door I have seen once in 6 months. Its also quite hard to get in my building without being buzzed in so I've never had anyone randomly knock on my door, and personally I don't mind sleeping in the same bed (as long as the sheets are changed).

I would like to move to a bigger place, but I'd be looking at another ?250 a month and I'd much rather save that money, especially as there is no major reason to leave.

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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #18 on: 09 December 2012, 11:15:04 am »
I live in a massive anonymous apartment block,

I agree that anonymous apartment blocks are the best and if there is a buzzer system you have a bit of added safety (so long as someone else doesnt let anyone in) but as I still have family that lives with me, even if I considered working from home, which I never would, it could be compromised if anyone came home from work unexpectedly. ( ::)  try explaining that to family members. ROFL).

We just have to work around what is comfortable with us.
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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #19 on: 09 December 2012, 11:51:42 am »
I live in a massive anonymous apartment block,

I agree that anonymous apartment blocks are the best and if there is a buzzer system you have a bit of added safety (so long as someone else doesnt let anyone in) but as I still have family that lives with me, even if I considered working from home, which I never would, it could be compromised if anyone came home from work unexpectedly. ( ::)  try explaining that to family members. ROFL).

We just have to work around what is comfortable with us.

This is a common recommend however some small (and very purpose built)apartment blocks can be very 'communal' with residents keeping an eye on parking spaces, generally being very protective and knowing what's going on. Having lived in one I'd be extremely careful in future, although many clients still thought it anonymous it isn't when they park in neighbours spaces, forget the flat number so either press the another buzzer asking the other occupants to let them into Miss Whatever's flat or phoning and shouting "Which number is it Miss R?", greet you loudly by name as they come up the stairs/into the flat clutching a wad of notes.

Amy's solution of meeting by the main entrance is however one which could be used to eliminate such problems if you are in a smaller block.

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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #20 on: 09 December 2012, 12:18:22 pm »
Avoid places that are close to schools and churches ect if possible cause nothing gets the local PTA. And the vicars smock in a twist than the local prossie corupting the young

Hahaha spat out my tea!  ;D

I always get paranoid about clients hovering around outside texting for number then buzzing - if a neighbour saw numerous men texting/calling then pressing a buzzer they would maybe suss. But obviously I'm not going to give out full address for safety reasons, although it would be more streamlined maybe.

I also get paranoid about clients pacing up and down the street looking edgy. There is nothing other than a fence and some unused grass wasteland opposite the building but what if a neighbour was looking out their window?

What I have been doing is giving out a number about 5/10 doors down and instructing them to park there and call me for buzzer details BEFORE they get out of their car. Then walk swiftly to my place and be buzzed in.

What do people think of this? right idea? or is there a better way?

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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #21 on: 09 December 2012, 12:23:24 pm »
This is a common recommend however some small (and very purpose built)apartment blocks can be very 'communal' with residents keeping an eye on parking spaces, generally being very protective and knowing what's going on. Having lived in one I'd be extremely careful in future, although many clients still thought it anonymous it isn't when they park in neighbours spaces, forget the flat number so either press the another buzzer asking the other occupants to let them into Miss Whatever's flat or phoning and shouting "Which number is it Miss R?", greet you loudly by name as they come up the stairs/into the flat clutching a wad of notes.

Amy's solution of meeting by the main entrance is however one which could be used to eliminate such problems if you are in a smaller block.

I agree smaller blocks can be hazardous to work from due to neighbours "protecting" their or others parking places.  I was lucky when I worked from a multi storey that I could see all traffic coming into street and I never took visitors anywhere near "normal" parking as I know this irks neighbours.  I usually tried to ensure visitors called from their vehicle but a few slipped through but I was always very strict with instructions to where I was and told them to be very discreet as neighbours may hear what they are saying.

I would never go down to door to meet clients unless they were disabled and needed assistance.  If they werent sensible enough to be able to take my simple instructions then I would rather do without the booking and have done in some cases.
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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #22 on: 09 December 2012, 12:27:13 pm »
Avoid places that are close to schools and churches ect if possible cause nothing gets the local PTA. And the vicars smock in a twist than the local prossie corupting the young

What I have been doing is giving out a number about 5/10 doors down and instructing them to park there and call me for buzzer details BEFORE they get out of their car. Then walk swiftly to my place and be buzzed in.

What do people think of this? right idea? or is there a better way?

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 :o Awful idea, a guy may just knock on the number you've given him. Give him a landmark and then direct from there.

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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #23 on: 09 December 2012, 12:30:28 pm »

What I have been doing is giving out a number about 5/10 doors down and instructing them to park there and call me for buzzer details BEFORE they get out of their car. Then walk swiftly to my place and be buzzed in.

What do people think of this? right idea? or is there a better way?

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Yes I think this is good especially if you can see the location you are giving out too.  However, you have to make sure he knows he has to call before he leaves his vehicle.I did this when working from a friends apartment in Bristol. We could take all the security precautions we do and there would still be some numpty fk us up.

There was one guy at my incall apartment that turned up WITH A CHILD ............... he was promptly told to leave.  WTF was he intending to do with the child while he was getting his end away ......... I was so pleased I was in a situation to be able to see in their cars.   What some guys do is unbelievable.
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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #24 on: 09 December 2012, 12:33:22 pm »
No I meant (for talking sake) give him number 1 my street and tell him to call from car for buzzer number when parked outside. Then when he calls, tell him it's not number 1, it's number 6 for example and the buzzer number.

The thing is - I need to SEE them before giving them the full address. I need a system where I can look out of the window and see them before giving them the house number and buzzer number (I am paranoid about someone I know turning up!)

Any ideas?

Landmark wouldn't work in this case because I can't see the landmarks near me x 
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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #25 on: 09 December 2012, 12:35:35 pm »
Yeah I can see them approaching the number I've given them in their car this way  x so I then know just to cancel quickly not to give them my real house number let alone buzzer if I know them (has happened a few times eeek)
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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #26 on: 09 December 2012, 12:37:56 pm »
I agree re seeing them before you give out true full address and it is for many reasons, one of them being that you do know the person.

If I couldnt see a person approaching I simply wouldnt give out any info.  They could be an address collector and my address aint going to be on anybody's list that I aint seen.
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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #27 on: 09 December 2012, 12:41:36 pm »
Yeah exactly, that's my reasoning too.

But is the way I am doing it the best way, or is there a better way? Perhaps to be less confusing just giving out the street (I am at the beginning of a street) and just looking out the window to see them driving into street and parking?

Can't think of any other ways  x
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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #28 on: 09 December 2012, 12:47:58 pm »
Personally I think your system is satisfactory.  The fact that you are at the beginning of a street may not be too helpful for you as you cant always be at window watching out for clients arriving.  We just dont know what comes up between their last call and them arriving.  Perhaps saying to them to turn into "such and such" a street and pulling into the first parking place available then calling you would help.  Apart from that I think your system is fine.
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Re: Choosing an incall place: house or flat?
« Reply #29 on: 09 December 2012, 12:55:51 pm »
If you can see the end of the street why not just say, please park and call me from the end of the street?Obviously designating which end by your wording, eg corner of North Road and South Road, or top end of if at the top of a hill. Sound much more natural too.