See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

Author Topic: Need to worry or not.  (Read 2068 times)

ellie22

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 57
Re: Need to worry or not.
« Reply #15 on: 09 February 2018, 05:57:42 pm »
Thanks girls for your feedback, my instinct and common sense will not allow me to see him again i just felt there was something else about him i can't put my finger on. He was very tall and quite well built as well i felt a bit like a mouse at the side of him, thanks again.xx

Rosesugar

  • Guest
Re: Need to worry or not.
« Reply #16 on: 09 February 2018, 07:45:58 pm »
Ellie
Go with your gut instinct .
It dosnt feel right it's really  not a normal thing to do to you .
I'd feel very uncomfortable. .
If you don't want to see him again you certainly don't need to justify yourself  to him.
Keep safe

Lady_Lust_XXX

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 6,700
  • 'nil carborundum illegitimi'
Re: Need to worry or not.
« Reply #17 on: 09 February 2018, 08:31:22 pm »
I was in a violent relationship many many years ago and to this day if anyone touches my neck I absolutely freak out in a flash.

It's not something I'm obviously going to mention to every client so things would go badly.

I would avoid but that's me.
Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
And most importantly a beautiful soul.

Phoenix

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 960
Re: Need to worry or not.
« Reply #18 on: 09 February 2018, 09:21:42 pm »
First and foremost is the fact he didn't think to ASK if this was ok?  >:(  I would have knocked his arm into the middle of next week as a sheer reflex..

Licketysplitz

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 94
Re: Need to worry or not.
« Reply #19 on: 10 February 2018, 02:03:19 am »
Just reading through the post and comments again. It just made me remember of a client a few years ago, who had lots of excellent feedback from local ladies that I knew of. He had booked to my understanding a GFE session.
 However when he turned up he kind of went into a sub role play which we had not discussed beforehand. Asking me if I had been a naughty girl and did I deserve to be punished. Not to digress too much, he wanted lots of oral and was very instructive. He didn't do much to bother me until he took his belt off, made a loop and tried to put it around my neck! I was immediately into no fucking way are you doing that! He was like, "oh I won't do anything to hurt you, the other girls don't mind". Looking back now I think he was testing to see what he could get away with, but the fact he just sprang it on me was very disrespectful.

Reading some of the other comments on here has made me think that no one should just go for your neck like that. If you know them fair enough but they could be testing what they can get away with!
« Last Edit: 10 February 2018, 02:05:20 am by Licketysplitz »

Delora

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 22
  • Sc- inked_luciano
Re: Need to worry or not.
« Reply #20 on: 10 February 2018, 07:23:34 am »
If this is something you are not comfortable with maybe mention to the client that the rough side isn't for you, but as you said he didn't actually do it maybe the idea is a turn on so explain he could mimic the idea? Be honest, or simply don't see him again. But if he seemed like a nice guy he should be okay to talk to! Maybe get a security phone buddy off here! Always a good idea as I know one funny acting can throw you off for a few days xxxxx