Car meets in public is a no go. Many awful mishaps happen hence ugly mugs. This is a warning in it's self. I wouldn't risk it. The only cars I get in to are taxi's or personal loves. Many bad news happen to street girls. You get in the Car lets hope he doesn't kidnap you or beat up or even worse. Don't let badness happen before making a wise choice.  We need to protect ourselves. Don't give them the opportunity.  It is all about prevention for our safety. In calls are much safer in my opinion. Why.... It attracts a different crowd just how cheap prices do Stay safe.. 

I never offer car meets, even with regular clients. I get a lot of calls for them even though I put on my website that I don't do them!

I've just had a client asking if i do incalls in a hotel. I replied yes. He said i don't trust hotels. Then suggests car meet! I respond i don't trust car meets, he then suggests meeting outside my hotel and then going for a car meet!

No way he's been added to my doggy client banned list.

Anyway just a question. Why do men want car meets when they can have an incall at a comfortable hotel? Is it the excitement of having sex in the car or maybe something more sinister. A car meet  they have more control and can attack a girl/ rob a girl?

Your thoughts?

I think many clients have their own version and opinions on what is safe, what is discrete.

I've had two potential clients say that they'd be recognised coming to an incall place, or booking a hotel room, so meeting in cars in a layby would be more discrete, and less likely to be spotted by the press:

In my opinion it's not safe, plus you have nothing to tie the person to that spot - with a normal outcall you have proof of residency, and often have spoken to them at a landline registered at, or belonging to the address (or hotel) to be visited. A man could send you to any location, and he be sat at the other end of the country, or even worse start playing cat and mouse, or have his mates drive up. Too many things to go wrong PLUS there is an offence of having sex in a public place AND I'd not like to take a chance that the police couldn't make a soliciting offence out of it - after all you are more or less operating on the street, when attending a car meet.

You never know what someone's intentions wherever you meet them especially in our work but to me the worrying thing is that after you said no to the car meet as it isn't something that you do is that he still tried to push it that to me is red flag as he obviously doesn't take no for an answer!  you did the right thing I would have done exactly the same.

I don't understand men who want car meets maybe it's the thrill of being caught that's a turn on to some men but personally I couldn't imagine a more embarrassing situation then the police knocking at the window! But I've too many horror stories about car meet to take that sort of risk.

I think of car meets (apart from the dangers of them) are requested by guys who are cheapskates, cos they can get them for ?15-?20.

For the ladies its just far too too dangerous from a dozen different angles.  We would be as well walking the streets looking for clients if we lowered ourselves to accepting them.

I've enjoyed fooling around in a car with a partner - its got a certain sleazy, dirty appeal to it when you have been driving around a scenic route. But thats someone I  know and trust... granted the idea of having the old bill knocking on my window would kill my mood. I have a slight thing about the possibility of getting caught I suppose.

I have no idea why a client would enjoy it for the same reasons - there's no trust. Maybe it is the whole thrill of possibly getting caught, maybe its just because its stereotypically cheaper than an incall, or maybe it is because its easier to attack/rob a WG. There are worse things I could think of than being stuck in a layby in a strange car with a man I barely know, but it rates pretty highly up there for me.

I used to work nights in an office next to the red light district in my city. When I'd go out on my break, I'd sometimes see the street workers going up/getting into guys cars (I've got a good memory for faces and you would recognise the same girls after a while). Used to always worry for their safety, even then.

Who's to say at when you get to the location that its only you and your client. It could be but it could also be half a dozens guys

I'm sure someone wrote recently about a car meet gone wrong