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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #75 on: 03 July 2014, 12:44:55 pm »
When I first started and was very naive I done my one and only car meet. It was terrifying. We drove for what seemed like hours, we arrived at a lock up yard, he told me he lived in a caravan in the yard which I didn't know before, we went into the caravan and he locked the door behind us and put the key in his pocket. It was a filthy dirty caravantjat smelt awful.
I was there for 3 hours before I eventually managed to persuade him to let me go home.
Luckily not too much happened as I managed to keep him talking and avoiding lots of touching or contact.
At one point he did produce a set of american leather and heavy chain prison shackles, but fortunately he was just showing them to me and asking what I thought of them.
When I got home I just burst into tears and was a wreck for couple of days, I have never been so scared.
So no I never have done car meets since that one time and I never again will.

Sounds like the beginning of a horror story glad you got out of that one ok!

I don't understand why some men are so interested in Car Meets, it seriously can't be as relaxing and fun as an incall :s

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« Reply #76 on: 03 July 2014, 12:50:46 pm »
He seemed to get off more on the terrifying me more than anything.
Incalls are so much more relaxed and stress free.
So much can go wrong with a car meet.

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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #77 on: 03 July 2014, 12:53:30 pm »
I don't understand why some men are so interested in Car Meets, it seriously can't be as relaxing and fun as an incall :s

If they ask for a car meet specifically, that does sound slightly strange but it might be the thrill of a different location.

I do car meets myself precisely because I do not have an incall. It's relatively safe around here, though, because getting personal info of a customer is very easy - there is no such thing as anonymous simcards here, so anyone who gives you their phone number is automatically easy to track down even if they remove their personal info from being visible on the net (most does not).

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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #78 on: 03 July 2014, 01:53:21 pm »
only the other week I got a call off a reg at 11pm asking to see me, couldn't have him round at my place at that time so I drove to a lane round the corner from my house, he drove and met me and we when into the field......I wouldn't have done that if I hadn't of met him a few times previous but I suppose its still risky

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« Reply #79 on: 03 July 2014, 02:39:32 pm »
Just something to think about if you really want to do them... I do car meets sometimes but I organise them differently to how most guys are used to who ask for them, I meet them at the dogging or discreet spot requested have my driver/bf/safety  drive me there and stay, keys on the boot of the car before I'll get in no keys, no me. Saying that I also do group dogging meets along the same line but on a ticket basis so I'm used to it and confident enough out doors... If you want to do them I'd suggest you take someone and arrive separately, if the guy isn't happy with this then he probably isn't safe to see!

They can be good fun if done safely. (Also usually very quick jobs for a lot of money)

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« Reply #80 on: 03 July 2014, 03:35:46 pm »
I don't offer car meets but I have with two regular clients who iv been seeing for 4 years a few times due to them wanting late night bookings when iv had people staying with me. I deffo wouldn't feel safe doing them with anyone though..

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« Reply #81 on: 03 July 2014, 03:57:42 pm »

When i first started out i did offer car meets in the countryside. I couldn't take incalls and was young, very naive and in my own admission didn't pay much thought to my own safety. I definitely wouldn't do them now, and if i hadn't been so inexperienced then and had been armed with the knowledge and experience i have today then i wouldn't have done it then either. Looking back, i was very fortunate not to have ended up stranded or even worse if the bloke happened to be a psycho on the sly.

One funny experience though, a good while ago when i was still a newbie, me and an ex regular got caught by a cyclist during a car meet in the summer. We thought we'd found the perfect discrete spot even though it was broad daylight, the cyclists face was a picture and he muttered "oh my" as he was peddling past ha ha, so being seen is always an all-too-realistic risk too  :P




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« Reply #82 on: 03 July 2014, 06:22:53 pm »
what would happen if the police caught people dogging or car meets?. is it illegal? . ive not done it.

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« Reply #83 on: 03 July 2014, 06:28:01 pm »
usually very quick jobs for a lot of money


I started off with car meets. Usually we went in pairs with one doing the business and the other sat in the back and could look out etc. It works well with guys who you can get off quickly, but not so good if they take longer. I did some on my own when I'd learned the routine and never had any trouble, but I wouldn't recommend it to anyone who hasn't done it before. I have heard bad stories and stopped as soon as I was able to get my own place.


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« Reply #84 on: 03 July 2014, 06:51:14 pm »
I did car meets years ago, a lot of clipping also! But I was a bit of a hustler in those days, I think they are dangerous and not worth the risk even with regs, I know girls that do them as they don't have an incall place but a couple have been in scary situations as another girl mentioned here x
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« Reply #85 on: 04 July 2014, 11:21:07 am »
I did car meets years ago, a lot of clipping also! But I was a bit of a hustler in those days, I think they are dangerous and not worth the risk even with regs, I know girls that do them as they don't have an incall place but a couple have been in scary situations as another girl mentioned here x

What's clipping?

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« Reply #86 on: 04 July 2014, 11:46:50 am »
What's clipping?

Taking the payment and then doing a runner.

One of the problems with car meets is that sometimes you get a very suspicious punter, or one that has been clipped and wants to get his own back on someone. Apart from car meets it usually happens with outcalls, but I've heard of incalls too in flats that have been set up for the purpose.


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« Reply #87 on: 04 July 2014, 11:50:31 am »
Isn't that also known as stealing, or at least not providing services promised.

Certainly not on in my book. >:( :( and one of the reasons some clients are wary. I've heard stories of guys being ripped off and it's unacceptable - just as theft or deception in any other activity is.
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« Reply #88 on: 04 July 2014, 12:21:20 pm »
Yes, along with other advanced fee frauds, it's an offence. Typically clipping is done in connection with things where the victim is unlikely to go to the police ('I was kerb-crawling / buying drugs, and...')

I think we can take it as read that it is not a good thing to do - even if you ignore the legality and the morality, some victims will come looking for violent revenge - but a look at 'would not recommend' reviews will indeed find some samples of people doing it one way or another.
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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #89 on: 04 July 2014, 06:37:28 pm »
It's a stupid thing to do, I'm talking 20 years ago, I got beaten up once for it, young and stupid x
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