Author Topic: Am I being ripped off (Read 4933 times)

Jessiegirl · « **Reply #30 on:** 13 February 2017, 03:34:56 pm »

Hi all,
I don't get threatened but sometimes get jobs I dont want or like. My fave client told me to stand up for myself as it will have a detriment effect on me and my work. I did do this about one job i was dreading but don't want to turn down too many jobs. Maybe i need to be more forceful.
I think where i work the police turn a blind eye to brothels and only interested in people trafficking.
I have given my number to my fave client. He sees me at least once a week and its not like work with him just fun.
I dont want to mention this place yet as I'm still working there. Maybe when I go independent.

Lucie268 · « **Reply #31 on:** 13 February 2017, 05:05:00 pm »

You need to leave this arrangement ASAP. Your 'boss' is most definitely pimping you out.

If you're worried about safety and working alone why not try hotels, or looking on the seeking/offering posts here so you could work together with another escort?

If you feel like 50% of your clients are bad then that's not a good sign. When you're independent *you* get to decide who you see, plus you have control of your AW profile, your services and you keep all the money.

Jessiegirl · « **Reply #32 on:** 13 February 2017, 10:36:58 pm »

Hi
One escort on this site has kindly offered to be a security buddy which sounds great and was not aware about. So learning bit by bit.

MelissaS · « **Reply #33 on:** 13 February 2017, 10:46:33 pm »

Quote from: Ana30 on 12 February 2017, 08:55:56 pm

You are not being ripped off, you are being exploited and coerced by a criminal.

+1. Stay well away from this people, the farther shot you can get of this person/people the better. When I first worked, I started off working independently and for about 6 months I had absolutely no problems worth noting (aside from TW's and a couple of d*cks kicking off in texts)
I then went to work for an agency because my friend at the time insisted they send you lots of rich and nice clients, lots of work and really good bookings, and I had more problems in 2 months than I did for the entire time I worked for myself. They sent me alsorts of horrible people and I felt so unsafe. I had to kick people out, threaten clients with the police and alsorts.

I'm working again now and I'm working independently. What I learnt from that was that there is no better judge than your own instinct, and nobody cares about your own safety the same way you do.

It may seem scarier working independently, but you'll be in charge of your own bookings this time. Nobody else. Just make sure you have a security buddy and procedures to make sure you're safe.

Curvygal · « **Reply #34 on:** 16 February 2017, 04:44:36 pm »

Quote from: Aqua Allegoria on 13 February 2017, 11:11:46 am

I don't see who would help you and how.
I understand this is what your "boss" keeps telling you. But this is because he's trying to brainwash you so he can keep you working for himself and make profit out of you.

If the flat where you work serves as a work flat to more than one lady then it qualifies as a brothel. That's illegal. Your boss is a pimp. That's illegal as well. So if something happens to you at work I really don't see a pimp helping a working girl report to the police that she got attacked in a brothel...

Just try to see it from a different perspective.

+1

Think about this. What would this boss do for you. Picture the situation but put someone else in it instead of yourself....if an escort was attacked there, what would happen? My guess is at best the client would be asked to leave. Is that worth everything? Having someone there to ask the client to leave?

You can work from hotels to minimise the risk - don't get me wrong things can still happen but they are rare - and in a hotel, 0 on the phone is generally always reception. If you scream loudly enough, someone will hear. And clients know all this so are more likely to behave themselves in hotels IMHO.

Gracious · « **Reply #35 on:** 16 February 2017, 04:50:38 pm »

Quote from: Jessiegirl on 13 February 2017, 03:34:56 pm

I don't get threatened but sometimes get jobs I dont want or like.

Exactly. When you work for yourself, you get to decide which bookings you accept/decline Your pimp is only interested in your 50% for doing fuck all.

I know you have concerns about being indi, but when you do decide to go down that route, you will see just how much better it is then working for this pimp.

Change is always scary but once your on the other side you will see that the grass is in fact greener

Hotblondie · « **Reply #36 on:** 17 February 2017, 06:55:58 pm »

You have to go independent, it`s not hard at all, as other ladies said you can rent hotels for 2-3 days, then move to another until you save for a flat.
You can find any information you need on this forum, use the search facility.

If you don`t like hotels and you`re not feeling safe to work alone, try to find another escort to share a flat with or even rent a room from an escort, either check the seeking section on here or put your own topic up.
Good luck and you should really get rid of that pimp of yours, you are much better off keeping all your money.

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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