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lulu7

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Re: Beginners worries- choosing clients
« Reply #15 on: 02 November 2016, 09:53:39 pm »
Well you can do things on your terms. It's your body and you need to find a way to work which is comfortable for you.

If you don't see overweight clients perhaps you can put a disclaimer and you can always insist that everyone who meets you has a wash before they get started and if they fail to then it's completely up to you whether or not you kick them out. And always keep your phone close when meeting clients/have a buddy so that if you want a client to leave and it turns nasty you can call

but the majority of clients are not undesirable, they're just normal looking men with good hygiene and they're nice enough. Looks won't ever come into. Weight only comes into it if they're obese or they're fat in such a way it affects you being able to actually shag them
The majority of the time we're on here we talk about bad clients more than good clients. Its just the way things are in the world but the bad clients that are on here are not representative of ALL clients. Don't let us scare you/give you an impression of clients that isn't true.  I can honestly count on one hand the number of creepy/smelly clients I've had but I do moan about the bad ones a lot.

TrashAzn

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Re: Beginners worries- choosing clients
« Reply #16 on: 03 November 2016, 01:17:16 am »
Doing this job isn't an easy thing to do, you need to remember you are being paid though this is a job and sometimes doing work there are things you don't enjoy it's not all having sex with men you find attractive (though sometimes there are some nice surprises!) and you have to be able to get into work mode where doing the booking takes priority over your own feelings about how they look, I've had sex with lots of guys I wouldn't ever consider dating in real life but they pay well and they are just normal nice people so it's easy really, the ones you have to worry about are the idiots and time wasters you encounter I've had one scary encounter but for the most part I've avoided anything too bad, guys who are fat or not good looking are the least of my problems.

If you're not a people person, can't enjoy the company of different kinds of people and be able to push through spending time with people you aren't attracted to while acting like you are enjoying yourself then it's probably not something you should do, it can be mentally draining even if you can handle it and have enthusiasm for what you do. Remember you are being paid to provide a fantasy to your client it's not really supposed to revolve around your own tastes.

carachameleon

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Re: Beginners worries- choosing clients
« Reply #17 on: 03 November 2016, 04:56:55 am »
A great piece of advice I've read here is to go into a bar and look around. See if you can have sex with everyone there. If you can't imagine doing it with 80% of the men there, then escorting wouldn't be right for you

Emma_C

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Re: Beginners worries- choosing clients
« Reply #18 on: 03 November 2016, 08:22:15 am »
It is weird when you first start out. I remember it well. Does take a while to get used to having sex with strangers who you wouldn't look twice at in the street. We're not programmed to screw guys we're not attracted to are we.

I still have flinching sessions afterwards sometimes, especially if I see a guy in the street when I'm not working, & I think he may call me when I'm back at work.

The creepy ones, I find, will generally let something slip before they arrive. If they don't & do something offensive when they arrive then just tell them to leave. With the smelly, if they turn up & refuse to wash then ask them to leave. Obese guys will sometimes say on the phone "I'm a larger guy". I find the overweight guys are really respectful & quite shy types who are easily pleased. Don't recall having a bad one.The smelly ones I'll avoid, just wont see again. Sometimes they come out of the shower & still smell. Pheromones or something. Get some Badger balm for under your nose.  :P

You can put whatever you like on your adverts. I've read some women wanting a photo before they'll see someone. (Hopefully they'll not send not send a dick pic  :P)

I put watsapp on my work phone to see what guys look like.




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Re: Beginners worries- choosing clients
« Reply #19 on: 03 November 2016, 09:34:06 am »
Undesireable?

Clients come in all shapes, sizes and looks.

JenJen001

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Re: Beginners worries- choosing clients
« Reply #20 on: 04 November 2016, 12:04:41 am »
Thanks everyone you've all been so helpful,  I couldn't have asked for more genuine honest answers!