thanks people, i really don't want to give the impression impression saying bbw or even just women over my size aren't beautiful, its just i was an 8 and i put quit a bit of weight on and only realised lately. I've always had massive confidence issues, used to make myself sick amongst other unhealthy ways of trying to keep weight down.
he started out by asking if i was a size 12 and said i love bbw, i didn't really know what to say to that!