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kittykat

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Advertising and describing yourself in the phone
« on: 24 February 2013, 07:44:03 pm »
I have been working at an erotic massage place for a while and don't seem to get much interest compared to the other woman who does hr etc.

 Its in part, because for the sensual bits and bobs the other lady has an advert and photos and I just have to kind of hope that people wont mind that were completely different, but also I have had people get a bit aggy with me on the phone for my self description.

I tend to use objective sorts of adjectives, such as clothes size and hair colour but it doesn't appear to inspire confidence in the people who are enquiring (I take all the calls pretty much) also I'm a really inbetweeny build as I am uk 12 which is basically big for what is the 'standard' but not exceptional.

I used to say 'curvy' but it put loads of clients off because they thought I mean a person who was maybe a size 18 or bbw which is more specific and specialised and now I just dont know what to say on the phone to them that will make them choose me.

I would like some inspiration for good words and terms to use that are positive instead of 'i am not like the person on the ad I am bigger than her' because it is quite negative for me to have to repeat all the time and obviously isn't a great thing to say to a client.

Sorry this is so long but I would really like to know what to say amid I am meant to be getting my own ad eventually so would like to know what sensible things can be written that would show personality and be positive about body type etc.xx
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Dani

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Re: Advertising and describing yourself in the phone
« Reply #1 on: 24 February 2013, 08:01:53 pm »
Instead of curvy why not say a voluptuous size 12 and then add height and bust size

Normally on the phone for people who have not seen a photo of me I say I am mid 30s I have a voluptuous, rubensque figure with firm 38g boobs a light tan, long legs a peachy bum and piercing pale green eyes. I dont give a clothes size unless asked as the description I gave is enough for them to know I am not a size 8.  Some guys think a 12 is quite slim and others assume it means fat as guys have no idea about womens clothes sizes especially for taller women.

Its not what you say so much as how you say it.  say it as if you feel sexy and confident.  Never use any remarks that may sound as if you are not as good as the woman on the ad.  If she is smaller than you say you have a more peachy bum and firmer larger boobs etc, Never be negative, and never say I am curvier than the picture as that is saying I am not as good.  Say the picture is just for the ad and I can assure you I am much better in person and have a rounder more grabable bum and larger firm bust, Always overstate your best points. You have to sell yourself in a few sentences.


If none of that appeals why not just say something like, I am not the person in the picture but I can assure you I am much cuter, I have long soft black/blonde/brunette hair, striking blue/green/brown eyes that I have been told have a wickedly naughty glint, baby soft lightly tanned skin, a firm insert (bust size) bust, and a lovely bouncy yet firm bum. 
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Re: Advertising and describing yourself in the phone
« Reply #2 on: 24 February 2013, 08:07:48 pm »
I think eventually you get to the stage where you can reel off a description without even thinking about it :)
Can you give us a few more details? Your approx age, hair colour, height? Tell us what you think is your best feature too!

I guess I would say something like:

I'm in my early twenties and I'm 5ft 4in tall.  I'm a size 12 so I'm slim but I've got great curves and a 32E bust. I've got medium length light brown hair, big brown eyes and a beautiful cheeky smile.

Also, when you give your description, think about the tone of your voice. It should sound like it's the first time you've ever been asked such a fascinating and interesting question and you should sound warm, un-rushed and interested in this attractive and exciting stranger on the end on the line...
(Dont reel it off like it's the 50th time you've been asked today and that you have PMT and think they sound like a cheapskate minger :))

R xx
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Re: Advertising and describing yourself in the phone
« Reply #3 on: 24 February 2013, 08:37:37 pm »
...and SMILE! >>> ;D <<< as you say it, it really does change the tone of your voice :)
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Re: Advertising and describing yourself in the phone
« Reply #4 on: 24 February 2013, 10:24:36 pm »
oh god yeah ,  when i worked from the adds in the papers i had my script down pat to the point that  i could say it in my sleep , walking round tescos shopping, on the bus and probably at the gym when on the treadmill and still sound sexy.

 write down a script that describes yourself 
mine was something like  HI Im Paris B and I'm 32 years old and  I'm of mixed race with soft dark skin long dark curly hair 5ft 6  and a fabulous curvy and firm 34DD Figure   
I offer a full and very very personal  ( giggle giggle ) service that includes  xxx xxx xxx xxxx 
30 mins is xxxx
1hr is xxxx

now i don't bother with all that crap and just send them a quick text with my photos and website link  lol


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kittykat

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Re: Advertising and describing yourself in the phone
« Reply #5 on: 28 February 2013, 12:46:56 pm »
Quote from: Cat_BBW on 24 February 2013, 08:37:37 pm
...and SMILE! >>> ;D <<< as you say it, it really does change the tone of your voice :)

aaah that is good advice. i will try that out definitely
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kittykat

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Re: Advertising and describing yourself in the phone
« Reply #6 on: 28 February 2013, 12:51:34 pm »
so i am early 20 s 5'3
I will try to play up the boobs but really theyre not that big i wear a 30 g but it doesnt look that big because i have huuuuuge hips...

should i mention that i have very wide hips? some people must want someone who is sturdy with wide hips somewhere.
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Re: Advertising and describing yourself in the phone
« Reply #7 on: 01 March 2013, 08:57:03 pm »
You know when you're in the U.K  it's okay to describe your sexual activities, cause it not illegal here right?
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Re: Advertising and describing yourself in the phone
« Reply #8 on: 03 March 2013, 01:58:35 pm »
Quote from: kittykat on 28 February 2013, 12:51:34 pm
so i am early 20 s 5'3
I will try to play up the boobs but really theyre not that big i wear a 30 g but it doesnt look that big because i have huuuuuge hips...

should i mention that i have very wide hips? some people must want someone who is sturdy with wide hips somewhere.
Tell them your boobs are more than a handful and you  have a very ample bottom!
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