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ballbusting fetishist
« on: 27 February 2013, 05:20:01 pm »
Well this is a first.

I have a booking for tonight with a guy who wants me to kick him in the balls..

Just been doing some research into ballbusting, tamakeri, cock and ball torture etc and watching some videos to prepare.

It's also possible he's a fantasist who won't turn up but we'll see.

My only concern is that he might end up with some kind of injury and try to hold me liable.

Anyone know if there's any point making him sign a liability waiver? wikipedia says liability waivers aren't enforcable. I have txts from him saying he wants me to kick him in the balls.. Could I be liable for damages even with the txts?

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Re: ballbusting fetishist
« Reply #1 on: 27 February 2013, 05:32:00 pm »
I'm not saying every single guy requesting you stamp on their balls is a fantasist, but well, every single one contacting me has been.  Even if I thought it genuine I wouldn't accept the booking, as its just not my cup of tea, and I would be too concerned about really hurting someone; also like you say they could report you for assault or something.

I doubt any kind of liability waiver you wrote up would be worth anything in a legal situation, but perhaps someone else with more knowledge could say more on that.

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« Reply #2 on: 27 February 2013, 05:35:57 pm »
The boundary between legal and illegal is injury that is more than 'transient and trifling'. Being kicked in the balls is intense, but unless you are wearing steel toe-capped boots or similar, you are not going to cross that. You can also do an inspection as part of the scene to check that they feel ok.

Depending on just what he wants, you can have him standing facing you or facing away, on his knees, on his back or on his hands and knees. Different positions give different opportunities for seeing what's about to happen and moving to avoid it - from behind can feel more intense with less force because of the surprise element.

Most men will safeword long before you are using full force...
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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« Reply #3 on: 27 February 2013, 05:55:45 pm »
I do ball busting and cock and ball torture, the thing is as you would probably have found out is start softly and increase the force in your kick gradually until he asks you to stop as for signing a waiver i think the best thing to do is ask a true dominatrix but I have never had to or been asked too.

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Re: ballbusting fetishist
« Reply #4 on: 27 February 2013, 06:32:31 pm »
thanks for your replies. He's meant to be here in 30 minutes. I'll let you know how it goes.

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Re: ballbusting fetishist
« Reply #5 on: 27 February 2013, 06:37:16 pm »
I've never had anyone ask for this whilst I've been escorting, but when I pro dommed I had quite a few clients who did, and as I'm a bit of a sadist I loved it. 
If your client is a regular to ball busting then you shouldn't have any problems as he can help guide you. 
As xw5 says it is very intense, so providing your not wearing steel toe caps or spikes you should be pretty much ok regarding not causing any injury.  If an injury should happen then you will be liable regardless of whether you are both concenting or not.  See Operation Spanner http://www.spannertrust.org/documents/spannerhistory.asp

If he's never tried ball busting before then proceed with caution.

Hope you have fun if he turns up.
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Re: ballbusting fetishist
« Reply #6 on: 28 February 2013, 12:40:08 am »
He did show up. Nice guy, soft spoken little Polish fellow. He's been into the ballbusting thing for about 4 years and apparently balls are a lot tougher than I'd have thought. Or at least his were after 4 years of kickings.

He got me to kick him from all kinds of different positions and angles then stand on him with one foot then both feet. He wanted me wearing trainers until the end then got me to give him a (foot job?) in sport socks to finish him off. He seemed very happy and says it will be a regular thing. He's booked in again on Saturday and has asked my shoe size and says he'll buy me shoes.

Tried showing him a pair of ?300 snake skin guccis I've been lusting after on ebay but he didn't seem that interested. He's more into trainers. Started slow and built up to fairly hard kicks as advised here on SAAFE. Not full power but like passing a football.

Thanks for all your comments. That spanner story was interesting tldr actual bodily harm is illegal regardless of consent. Hate to think what the video was like to have warranted that kind of response though

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Re: ballbusting fetishist
« Reply #7 on: 28 February 2013, 08:10:03 am »
Jealous as I love ball busting, but really glad you both had a good time.   ;D ;D
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« Reply #8 on: 28 February 2013, 07:37:23 pm »
Hate to think what the video was like to have warranted that kind of response though

The police thought they were looking for bodies - the videos involved things like hammering nails through genitals (through existing piercings, but they didn't know that). When the corpses turned out to be alive and well, the police looked at what they'd spent so far and went 'we have to get a conviction for something...'
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« Reply #9 on: 28 February 2013, 09:41:45 pm »
This thread caught my attention as I have a lot of request for this , most of them are out and out fantasists
I'm not saying every single guy requesting you stamp on their balls is a fantasist, but well, every single one contacting me has been.

Me too. ive actually done ball busting , but i can count them on one hand :) .
I too , was worried about hurting someone and been liable.

Even if I thought it genuine I wouldn't accept the booking, as its just not my cup of tea, and I would be too concerned about really hurting someone; also like you say they could report you for assault or something.

Again , me too.

With the couple of clients who have actually turned up for this , its usually people who are into heavy SnM ...Submissives , pain whores ....they will fantasize about been kicked hard in the balls with pointy stiletto boots on , but when it comes down to the real live sesh they can just about handle been kicked ( not full force!!) with bare feet , or rounded toe SOFT boots.

Theres not a chance id do it full force , or in my pointed boots , as this is bound to cause extreme pain in the very least , if not permenant damage. Id be worried about causing them long term damage and thats why its gentle kicks only ....... the clients have been happy with how I did it , its more about  the whole "mind fuck" of you looking menacing like you "could" kick the shit out them , without  , ermm , actually kicking the shit out of them

You can practice a mean looking kick that doesnt have that much force behind it ............but i woudltnt spend too much time practicing if I were you ,  as I must have been asked to do this a 100 times and only 3 have gone through with it !  ;D
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Re: ballbusting fetishist
« Reply #10 on: 28 February 2013, 09:49:33 pm »


Most men will safeword long before you are using full force...

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