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Esmi K

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Good evening people , got my photo shoot done on monday so just waiting for pics to be put on a website so i can start working. probably going to start on monday so got a couple of questions for you :
1 My first client probably going to be an incall so i was wondering in what should i meet him? i m pretty tall 178 cm so dont think i should wear heels so i was thinking to wear a sexy babydoll and some sexy nickers....what do you think it? will it be ok?
2 How long should i wait before asking for the fee? should i ask him straight away when he comes into the room or offer him the shower first? ::)
Thank you very much guys
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xSweetCheeksx

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Re: Hi guys i m a newbie and got couple of questions for you nice people :)
« Reply #1 on: 27 February 2013, 09:09:28 pm »
Hey, i'm also new at this and only had 2 clients so will try my best with the advice lol. As long as it's sexy underwear, you can't go wrong so no worries there.
As for the fee. I was told by a girl who's with the agency i'm with that if they don't give you it pretty much within the first 5 mins then just politely say something along the lines of "are we ok to get the financial part out of the way so that we can both relax?". I know some may thinking that having to ask is unprofessional but i'd rather that than hand out free sex lol. Good luck anyways, i'm sure you'll do great :) x
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What you call that?...Head over heels?"

Camomile

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Re: Hi guys i m a newbie and got couple of questions for you nice people :)
« Reply #2 on: 27 February 2013, 10:55:59 pm »
Hello and welcome :) My tips (based on my experience only as there is no rule book)-

*Wear your heels. Most men will see your height and understand that's your height barefoot. If you feel too tall you can simply take them off after. To me heels finish an outfit. I never open the door in undies you never know if they will not stay or anything. A nice dress or sexy robe would do then change when he's showering ;)

*The majority of men will hand your fee over pretty quickly. If he doesn't do ask for it before the shower. That way the session is nice and relaxed instead of awkwardly asking when he comes out and is naked. If you feel nervous asking you can word it in ways like "let's get the business out the way" not too hard face but direct. Remember you shouldn't feel guilty asking.

Hope you have a buddy sorted and have a read of the main site for more info. Searches on the forum are always good too as a lot of stuff gets asked regularly. Good luck girl! x

Esmi K

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Re: Hi guys i m a newbie and got couple of questions for you nice people :)
« Reply #3 on: 27 February 2013, 11:04:38 pm »
thank you guys  :-* will let you know monday how it went :)

xSweetCheeksx

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Re: Hi guys i m a newbie and got couple of questions for you nice people :)
« Reply #4 on: 27 February 2013, 11:27:56 pm »
Yeah definitely let us know :) x
"Valley girls giving Blow jobs for Louboutins,
What you call that?...Head over heels?"

xCara

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Re: Hi guys i m a newbie and got couple of questions for you nice people :)
« Reply #5 on: 28 February 2013, 06:59:33 pm »
Just relax, take it easy! Know what you are willing to do, and what you're not!
Then stick to it, don't do something you don't want to!
Obviously you're gonna be nervous, but try and relax, just go with the flow!