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amber_c

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New flat not great for work - help
« on: 04 August 2015, 10:18:23 pm »
I've moved to a new flat and realised quickly I might have made a mistake!
there is a front door into the entrance lobby then a 2nd door to the stairs and lift. both doors are keycarded so I can get in just fine.
however for my guests, they can call my flat and I can open the 1st door but I can't open the 2nd door so I have to go downstairs to open it myself.
and to make it worse, there is a daytime concierge in the lobby. he seems to take it on himself to greet each quest and ask them where they are going so he can helpfully direct them.

I've only had 1 client here so far and I'm starting to worry. 6 month lease.. I will be relying on part-time escorting around my studying to pay the bills.

I'm thinking, daytime clients longer bookings only, meet off site for coffee then walk in together so the concierge will not bother us. maximum 2 daytime bookings.
evening bookings I will just have to go down and meet them myself, other residents will very likely neither notice or care. max 3 clients over an evenings.

also there is a back entrance which is keycarded but more discreet during the daytime so I could bring clients in without going past concierge.

written down it sounds like it could work however I feel really nervous about it. I'm worried about not being able to work here. I know it's gonna be more of a hassle with having to meet each client outside but not something which will prevent me from working.

I have the option to continue my 6 month lease in another flat which I'm viewing tomorrow but moving there wouldn't be possible for another 6 weeks. That building also has a concierge I think but it looks less posh so it might be more workable (concierge is more in a back office rather than meet-and-greeting all visitors).
I've also sent enquiries to a few local strip clubs, just in case.

why did I pick this building  :FF :FF

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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #1 on: 05 August 2015, 12:07:47 am »
It is always a good idea when renting to see if the place is workable before signing. The situation doesn't look good it looks like a matter of time before getting caught. As the wrong set up hun.  When I viewed there were many before found the right one. All the best.

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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #2 on: 05 August 2015, 04:02:28 am »
Ahhh, no this doesn't sound workable at all. Not just for the impracticalities but it sounds super stressful! It took me a while before I found THE ONE.

How many days do you work? And you aim on seeing either 2 clients through the day or 3 clients in the evening, or 5 in total per day? I know you said you will focus on longer bookings. I don't know about you, but I generally get 1 hour bookings, some half hours and maybe just 1 or 2 bookings per week that are longer than an hour. Will holding out for the longer bookings be feasable?

I would suggest that you go see the other flat. Try working as discreetly as you can and maybe book a hotel one day a week to take the heat off from your flat?

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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #3 on: 05 August 2015, 08:17:34 am »
I know you said you will focus on longer bookings. I don't know about you, but I generally get 1 hour bookings, some half hours and maybe just 1 or 2 bookings per week that are longer than an hour. Will holding out for the longer bookings be feasable?

I agree - it's all very well saying you'll just do longer appointments, but that won't make punters book them. You can make them more appealing by leaning your prices but even then it doesn't guarantee you'll get them. I don't think the meeting them outside is very practical either; apart from the pain in the arse aspect, once you've been seen going in and out past the concierge with a dozen or so random men it's going to be noticed. That doesn't mean they'll care, mind :).

I'd be using the back entrance you mentioned for now, and planning a move.

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« Reply #4 on: 05 August 2015, 09:17:58 am »
I agree that it is workable from the back entrance but it will be more stressful but think of it as being practice and not a long term thing. Obviously you will require to be dressed in "sensible" attire when receiving them at the door, but that shouldn't be a bother. Six months does seem long term but it's not really.  I would also take the six months to browse for an alternative location.

Make out a list of things you need to look for in a new apartment and the things you have come up against in this apt should be top of the list of things you DON'T want.

It can take up to six months to find exactly a flat that is totally suitable.  It's amazing the number of flats that are totally unsuitable for us, eg one with a concierge is near the top of unsuitable. 

Personally I had about a twenty point checklist of what I wanted, but "I wants" don't always get but it was a start.  For example, Is there a concierge? Yes? Pass on to next flat; if you get by front entrance without problem then it's onto location on landing, how many overlook front door, best if answer is nil, but not always possible; can you seeing oncoming clients driving into parking area, this is a godsend if you can for 100 reasons; does the front door have a spy hole, IMO this is a very necessary thing, for I didn't like answering the door in a hotel when there was no spy hole, you can always open door as clients approach if you see them and thus neighbours are unaware of the entry.

These are just a few pointers.  I'm just thinking it may be good to get a "sticky" written out for something like this.  Maybe there is one I don't know about  ::)

All the best with your flat though.  Try not to stress too much, not easy, but it is possible with practice.
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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #5 on: 05 August 2015, 01:25:50 pm »
Have you considered doing outcalls until you find something more suitable?

amber_c

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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #6 on: 05 August 2015, 02:16:48 pm »
Okay I've been to see the other flat, it was definitely very workable. But when I called this afternoon to ask about moving someone else has applied for it. So my only chance of moving from here has gone :FF

I've been offered a room in a shared flat for ?40 a day but I think that's more risky. Do agencies provide flats to work from?

I'll just have to work after the concierge goes home (4pm), meet client in back entrance, no daytime bookings at all, etc. Hopefully I'll get some work in a lapdancing club and do some hotel outcalls for some extra money.
This is gonna be a right pain in the arse, can't believe I'm stuck here for 6 months! Any idea how much lap dancers earn?
« Last Edit: 05 August 2015, 02:42:48 pm by Jess x »

amber_c

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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #7 on: 05 August 2015, 02:54:30 pm »
Should also add - I calculated I only need to earn ?400 each week to cover all bills and rent. So about ?500 a week with food and a tiny bit of spending money. So I'm not in the worst financial situation, I'm hoping if I start dancing it will cover most of my expenses and I'll be able to  do a bit of escort work to supplement my income :-\

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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #8 on: 05 August 2015, 03:51:32 pm »
If the concierge sees you walking inside the building with different guys, and them those same guys walking out after an hour hmmm... I give him a month to put 2 +2= 4.  There's the possibility of him turning a blind eye, but that depends on the "building politics" that we don't know how friendly they are towards WG's. Some bulding management don't care, but other's do.

Like an above poster said: I would be using the back door. Problem is if there's CCTV  in the back door and you don't have a buzzer,  you'll have to step down to open the back door and eventually mngt will figure out what's going on. Of course it will take much longer for them to figure out than if you use the front lobby.
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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #9 on: 05 August 2015, 05:33:01 pm »
My last place I got asked to leave so moved and it wasn't as workable. So did a few hotels in the meantime braking even at times. But to not panic try to remain calm through this.  Then was just trying until. A very few landlords accept escorts. But when found don't let go as they are hard to come by.

Some times evenings can be quiet it varies.

Meeting clients in a non discreet way will bring trouble your way sooner or later. It is a risk,:what if they start with you out in the open?. Then if others over hear, you are had instantly with no speculation or guessing. Try to keep low until moved is the only way. Go to lapdancing in the mean time and enquire try to persue.

With escorting we need to always stay one step ahead of as much as possible preventing mishaps.




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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #10 on: 05 August 2015, 10:18:03 pm »

I've been offered a room in a shared flat for ?40 a day but I think that's more risky. Do agencies provide flats to work from?


I have worked for [removed] in the North East and they had some flats for incalls in the Gateshead/south Newcastle area. Only thing was that they took a third of your rate. Not sure if its still the case now , but might be worth a try.
« Last Edit: 05 August 2015, 10:22:46 pm by amy »

amber_c

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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #11 on: 05 August 2015, 11:34:32 pm »
This is such a nightmare.
Do you reckon they will be checking CCTV after the concierge goes home? I was hoping to take a few bookings in the evenings. :(

Gonna have to give lapdancing a proper shot - take pole lessons and try really hard to be good at the job!
Roseanna can you PM me about the agency? Think I know the one you mean. A client told me of an agency in the same area with flats but warned me that you only make ?30 for a half hour booking so I'd have to see a lot more clients.

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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #12 on: 06 August 2015, 12:33:50 am »
This is such a nightmare.
Do you reckon they will be checking CCTV after the concierge goes home? I was hoping to take a few bookings in the evenings. :(

They don't check CCTV unless there's a good reason for it. In my last apartment I had CCTV too, I was being extremely low key and careful with my traffic, one year into my lease there was a robbery in the building, so they started to look into the tapes and that's when building management noticed the traffic into my apartment. They did ask me about it and I told them I was doing a massage course and practising at home with friends (lol). One day when I was not at home the landlord went into my apartment and looked around (my neighbour told me) to see what was going on I guess, thank god he saw the massage table so he must have believed the story because he never said anything to me again. But I was also the perfect tennant, meaning, always paying rent in time, never complaining or causing any problem, being very polite to neighbours and I would always tip the building cleaning lady and keep her happy. Believe it or not these small things matter.
« Last Edit: 06 August 2015, 12:40:13 am by Ana30 »
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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #13 on: 06 August 2015, 09:50:16 am »
If It were me I would probably work it and hope the landlord kicked me out so I was out  of the lease
( not Helpfull I know )
Is there anyway you can sub let the room / flat to a non working girl and move elsewhere
« Last Edit: 06 August 2015, 09:55:04 am by ParisB »

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Re: New flat not great for work - help
« Reply #14 on: 06 August 2015, 03:48:05 pm »
I was thinking like Paris!

Were you counting on working to make the flat affordable? You may be able to work from hotels. It's not ideal but it can be done.