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Cindyo

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Am I too old?
« on: 15 June 2015, 12:31:09 pm »
Hi Guys
I'm a very young attractive 44 year old and am seriously considering escorting. Am I too old? What are my chances of making good money?

If I'm not too old where do I start???
Thanks in advance your advice will be very much appreciated.
Cindy xx

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #1 on: 15 June 2015, 01:05:25 pm »
Hi Guys
I'm a very young attractive 44 year old and am seriously considering escorting. Am I too old? What are my chances of making good money?

If I'm not too old where do I start???
Thanks in advance your advice will be very much appreciated.
Cindy xx

The oldest escorts are in their 80s, so that answers that question ;)

Have a read (and re-read) of the main site www.saafe.info :)

Cindyo

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #2 on: 15 June 2015, 01:09:49 pm »
Thank you for your reply, that's great to know!!  I've read the Info on the main site it's very helpful.

I was considering an online agency they seem to want money up front to register is this the norm?

Thank you :)

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #3 on: 15 June 2015, 01:40:10 pm »
No, it isn't. Anywhere or anybody who wants money from you before you have done any work is a scammer, and these sites are nothing to do with the sex industry.

We don't recommend agencies here full stop, but there's a difference between a genuine agency which is just crap/potentially dangerous/run by criminals (as they all are by virtue of the pimping laws) and an out and out scam - these are no different to the nice people in Burkina Faso who mail and ask for your bank details ::).

I'd maybe suggest reading the main site again, and there's a lot of information on the forum too - the Search box is in the top right corner. I can't imagine anybody is going to advise agency work as the way forward when you can do far better yourself and get to keep all your money (and I'm surprised you'd even consider it having read the main site), but whatever specific questions you have, we're all here to help :).

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #4 on: 15 June 2015, 01:43:12 pm »
Thank you for your reply, that's great to know!!  I've read the Info on the main site it's very helpful.

I was considering an online agency they seem to want money up front to register is this the norm?

Thank you :)
Hi Cindy,
No it's not the norm. Don't ever pay anyone up front. I'm now independent which is the best way to do it but have been with a couple of agencies when i first started. Any genuine agency will not expect money upfront or any "auditions". If you do get with an agency, depending on what their picture policy is you may require a photoshoot that costs as it's done by a professional but even then 2 of the agencies i was with paid for it and let me pay them back a bit out of each booking until it was paid. I would definitely have a look at Adultwork though if i was you and look at doing it independently x
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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #5 on: 15 June 2015, 04:33:26 pm »
Thank you both for your replies, I'm sorry if I'm coming across about dim but this is totally new to me.

I guess it's just a case of putting an add in the paper and going from there, can anyone recommend an app that is easy to use?
Thank
Cindy x

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #6 on: 15 June 2015, 04:36:32 pm »
Cindy, you are defo not too old.  I started whoring when I was 53 and finished a year ago at 61+ because of side effects of meds that were making me dizzy. (I'm dizzy enough without meds) and taking dizzy turns if with a client is defo not a good thing.

You still have years ahead of you for working and the extra years you have will stand you in good stead with your life experiences.
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It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
And most importantly a beautiful soul.

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #7 on: 15 June 2015, 05:48:24 pm »
I started last year on my 57th birthday and will soon be celebrating my first anniversary in the game. I came on here and read everything and was told to read everything again which I did. I then went and put a profile up on Adult Work and the rest is history as they say. I started in hotels and now have an in call flat. Listen to all the advice you get on here and as has been said read the main site again and again. There is a place for you and you will find you are never too old. Good luck.
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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #8 on: 15 June 2015, 09:42:00 pm »
Thank you all so much for your advice ladies 😊
Cindy xx



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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #9 on: 16 June 2015, 08:18:49 pm »
Hey,

Me too, started at Xmas age 45, now 46 and a little bird on here told me it was my 6 month anniversary the other day!

Okay, I work part time, am a student, and not on the road to financial freedom yet, but I am certainly in better shape than I was 6 months ago.

Whatever you are, as a woman, you have control because there is certainly a market out there for it.  Anyway, I am sure some of the older ladies on here will agree, mature women rock, in terms of confidence and sexuality, it's been an eye opener in how many younger guys have 'Mrs Robinson' fantasies, it's a huge market.

Enjoy! x

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #10 on: 16 June 2015, 10:49:28 pm »
Foxy lady! Hi you have given me such hope! Thank you xx

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #11 on: 17 June 2015, 10:11:17 am »
Foxy lady! Hi you have given me such hope! Thank you xx

I am 44 and this is my main source of income, I am able to be a full time mother to a disabled child without the need to claim any kind of benefits or welfare support for my daughter.  And she never goes without.

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #12 on: 17 June 2015, 10:37:03 am »
Agree totally, being an escort does not necessarily mean that's all you'll ever be able to do, it opens up so many doors. For example, there is no way I would be able to maintain my degree without it as I simply don't have the time to do a paid civvy job alongside my work placement!
If you think of it this way... An agency will take a cut of the money YOU have earned as well as preventing you from being able to choose when you work and how long for (potentially the two main benefits of this job) and therefore, most girls much prefer to be indie.
Just read through SAAFE, build up your spidey sense and go it alone if you feel you can.
Good luck  :) xx

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #13 on: 21 June 2015, 01:18:44 am »
You're not too old. Never too old for this line of work, there are clients who like only mature women. Like Foxylady said, it is a big market. And never pay money upfront for agencies that is a scam! I started my career with an agency parlour because I didn't know how everything worked  :o. Once I knew eventually became independent. Another lady who worked at the parlour was in her late 40s and made good money, her clients were all young  8) 

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Re: Am I too old?
« Reply #14 on: 21 June 2015, 03:48:48 pm »
Love this forum.......loads of positive women, doing it for themselves (or 'doing dick' for themselves!) lols
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