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Tanya2015

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Re: Employer found my AW website please help asap
« Reply #15 on: 16 September 2019, 06:21:18 pm »
Hey girls thankyou.  :FF well l will say that @Ana30 thankyou very much as they told my agent that they have "seen videos and pics of me" It is the fact an website was saved and a password on they're laptop, hence why it took them to see such things.   I really dont even remember having time to look at this at work, prob wen i was at home after. This was found after they dismissed me from work. None of this was during.  If anyone knows about employer law please get in touch. I contacted the information commission office they was helpful as the argument is that she's contacting my previous employers for information and she's had no consent to do so.  Yes big massive lesson and it will never happen. I hope it never happened to other women as I thought it would never after all the years I've been working in both jobs.

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Re: Employer found my AW website please help asap
« Reply #16 on: 21 September 2019, 06:44:38 pm »
Employment law won't help you here.  To put it in black and white:

1.  You accessed an 18+ website on company laptop
2.   You used a company laptop to run a side business
3.  that side business was in a grey legal and moral area (I don't think it but that's what an employer will say)
4.  You bring the agency/company into disrepute.

You have absolutely zero case I'm afraid - I'm an escort and I would fire you too.  Sorry no offense.  :-*

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Re: Employer found my AW website please help asap
« Reply #17 on: 21 September 2019, 06:50:42 pm »
I agree with CG, my friends job is to check employees computer use. As many employees mis-use work computers for personal jollies which is forbidden and hide porn files and upload viruses and malware that can infect the company's businesses systems.

You were dismissed for work performance not misuse of their computer.
If I'm reading it right you were dismissed before they saw the material-your adult work profile.

You are concerned with the consent issue. Why exactly has she contacted your previous employer? Is there more to this?
« Last Edit: 21 September 2019, 09:46:39 pm by saltysweet »

ana30

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Re: Employer found my AW website please help asap
« Reply #18 on: 21 September 2019, 07:50:16 pm »

The consent issue is interesting. Why exactly has she contacted your previous employer? Is there more to this?

I was thinking the same thing. Maybe the company fears a lawsuit and is trying to collect some dirt on you? But is this legal???
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Ruby Redhead

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Re: Employer found my AW website please help asap
« Reply #19 on: 21 September 2019, 08:59:41 pm »
Are there details missing to this?
All I read is that your previous employer found your AW on their laptop because you logged in on it.
You’re always dismissed from the company so no risk of being dismissed/fired.
You haven’t done anything illegal in terms of sex work.
They could get funny about you using their laptop for your own personal use but would they really be bothered as you’ve already been dismissed.

I wouldn’t have thought it would be worth their time pursuing the laptop use issue, as you’re no longer employed. What would be the point. You’re not the first person to use a work laptop for personal.

If you work for an agency and that employer have notified them of your AW profile, videos, whatever. Then yes it’s a crap situation for you but there’s nothing they can do. They might just not give you more work.

Go find another agency!  Make up a last employer, ask a friend to vouch for you, say you were self employed, I don’t know, but if you’re worried about a reference you might need to find a way to get a good one

I just don’t think this situation is as bad as you think it is, unless there’s stuff we don’t know?

Hold your head high. Being a sex worker is legal, it’s just frowned upon that’s all.

Maybe you could say the profile, videos etc were just webcam with you and your ‘controlling’ boyfriend/ex boyfriend and you only did it to keep him happy. Sob story might help, but then again, who are you explaining yourself to? Your old employer? You don’t need to explain anything to them.

I understand it feels shit that people have found out, but this feeling will pass, I promise :) xx

Curvygal

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Re: Employer found my AW website please help asap
« Reply #20 on: 21 September 2019, 10:11:21 pm »
Honestly, it sucks and I'm sorry it happened but you need to just move on I'm afraid.

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Re: Employer found my AW website please help asap
« Reply #21 on: 24 September 2019, 12:06:33 am »
Ugh, what a crappy situation. I would say like many have mentioned on here. Find a different one, and if it ever comes up, you could always just deny. Deny it, till your death bed and say it was from a previous relationship.
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