Are there details missing to this?
All I read is that your previous employer found your AW on their laptop because you logged in on it.
You’re always dismissed from the company so no risk of being dismissed/fired.
You haven’t done anything illegal in terms of sex work.
They could get funny about you using their laptop for your own personal use but would they really be bothered as you’ve already been dismissed.
I wouldn’t have thought it would be worth their time pursuing the laptop use issue, as you’re no longer employed. What would be the point. You’re not the first person to use a work laptop for personal.
If you work for an agency and that employer have notified them of your AW profile, videos, whatever. Then yes it’s a crap situation for you but there’s nothing they can do. They might just not give you more work.
Go find another agency! Make up a last employer, ask a friend to vouch for you, say you were self employed, I don’t know, but if you’re worried about a reference you might need to find a way to get a good one
I just don’t think this situation is as bad as you think it is, unless there’s stuff we don’t know?
Hold your head high. Being a sex worker is legal, it’s just frowned upon that’s all.
Maybe you could say the profile, videos etc were just webcam with you and your ‘controlling’ boyfriend/ex boyfriend and you only did it to keep him happy. Sob story might help, but then again, who are you explaining yourself to? Your old employer? You don’t need to explain anything to them.
I understand it feels shit that people have found out, but this feeling will pass, I promise

xx