We don't generally encourage newbies to meet up with random strangers who've just appeared here out of nowhere, particularly when they are posting anonymously. And to the OP, there are no 'girls' on SAAFE - we are adult women.

There are already plenty of posts regarding this, but it's worth stating again that anybody interested in arranging to meet others in person should treat the situation just as you would if you were meeting anybody else unknown to you on the strength of a few words exchanged online - do not pass on ANY personal information, meet in a public place and make sure you tell somebody else where you are going and when you are expecting to return.

YD, if you post some more information about yourself and your 'buddy group', your post might not look quite so odd.