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sadie x

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Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« on: 09 April 2012, 11:21:36 pm »
I was wondering if anyone felt the same as me,or if im weird!!
recently ive been having a run of really good looking guys 8)
But i dont actually like it,i just cant wait to get them out of the door!
ive heard girls saying they love it..but im the complete opposite..
i feel very uncomfortable..
even though there usually nothing but complimentry to me..
i have just alway prefered to see guys i wouldnt be atracted to in my real life..
When its someone i COULD be attracted to ,out of work
it just feels wrong with them been a customer,Im so tence and never, been more turned off!!
how does anyone else feel???

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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #1 on: 10 April 2012, 12:04:33 am »
 ;D OMG I thought it was only me, who hated having good looking clients, I don't mind decent looking men in their late 30's 40's.
But I always happen to get 23 year olds who are gorgeous, It makes me feel uneasy and more like a one night stand, and then I think to myself "I have a boyfriend to have sex with and find incredibly sexy" so then I feel guilty :(

I had one lad, he looked like Kirk out of TOWIE and I'm sure some girls find him ugly, but I adore Kirk!, And soon as he came in the room, I thought I was going to die, He's a regular and I sort of like him, bless me :P So I've had to cancel recent bookings :(
But yeah I feel your pain, I prefer not good looking ones haha!
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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #2 on: 10 April 2012, 02:41:48 am »
I have quite a few very good looking clients, one of which sees me twice a month without fail.. he is in his 30's and honestly looks like her just walked out of a calender! When he first started seeing me I couldn't help but feel totally inferior, but after a while I began to relax more and now I can't wait for our meets!  ;D

When they are 20's though I do feel a bit uncomfortable, unless they see me regularly and I know they really do like how I look  ::)
..Some would say I am selling my body but I know I am selling so much more than that..

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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #3 on: 10 April 2012, 08:27:42 am »
Any young and good looking ones, send them my way please.  Yum yum xx

sadie x

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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #4 on: 10 April 2012, 09:52:50 am »
i will send them all your way!!send me the boring average ones please!!swap swap.

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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #5 on: 10 April 2012, 09:54:57 am »
I live in a world of extremes it seems. My customers either tend to be super gorgeous or quite ugly (but nice guys nonetheless so it doesn?t bother me). It?s not often I get Joe Average. One of the things that has surprised me most since I started escorting is that it?s the ugly/average guys that I seem to have the best meetings with. I?m not really sure why? Also I?m now far more bothered by things like how a guy speaks to you, how he makes you feel, his manners etc then whether he could give Brad Pitt a run for his money. These days I don?t judge how attracted I feel to men based on their looks solely.
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sadie x

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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #6 on: 10 April 2012, 10:09:45 am »
i know your right neither do i..im not a shallow person when it comes to looks,not at all..
but i find the ones who the majority of people would consider good looking,i hate seeing because its almost like there full of there selves,and expect there to be more out of the encounter,which turns me the other way,and makes me think just cus your ok to look at,doesnt mean im going to fancy YOU..
but people who are just alright end up been nicer cus there not expecting you to fall at there feet!
thanks for you reply you just made me realise the ansew to my own dilemma!
theres a lot more than the out side of someone that makes me fancy them..

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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #7 on: 10 April 2012, 11:46:08 am »
I don't want to see clients that are better looking than me because it just makes me feel super self-conscious about the way I look! Clients who I look better than and are respectful are my idea clients now.

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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #8 on: 10 April 2012, 11:48:15 am »
;D OMG I thought it was only me, who hated having good looking clients, I don't mind decent looking men in their late 30's 40's.
But I always happen to get 23 year olds who are gorgeous, It makes me feel uneasy and more like a one night stand, and then I think to myself "I have a boyfriend to have sex with and find incredibly sexy" so then I feel guilty :(

I had one lad, he looked like Kirk out of TOWIE and I'm sure some girls find him ugly, but I adore Kirk!, And soon as he came in the room, I thought I was going to die, He's a regular and I sort of like him, bless me :P So I've had to cancel recent bookings :(
But yeah I feel your pain, I prefer not good looking ones haha!
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i think i would be in heaven if i had a kirk look a like but find it very intimidating.
i prefer not so good looking clients. i had two GORGEOUS young clients last week, one was soooooo my type..felt like a one night stand. i really really liked him and he had an amazing body. when i told him this though, he said your just saying that because you have to and when he asked if i was enjoying myself and i said yes he kept looking at my face for reassurance and said i was faking it. i bloody wasnt lol!

but yeah prefer the older, less attractive men who have respect, dont ask me too many questions, like to talk about their families, they just want their bit of fun and they are happy. xx
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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #9 on: 10 April 2012, 12:40:27 pm »
They make me uncomfortable, but in a weird unreasonable way.  I expect them to behave better than regular clients, but when they don't I'm really disappointed and don't want to see them again.  Weird huh.  I'm only like that with the men, with the women I'm just intimidated. 
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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #10 on: 10 April 2012, 01:33:54 pm »
I don't want to see clients that are better looking than me because it just makes me feel super self-conscious about the way I look! Clients who I look better than and are respectful are my idea clients now.

I think that is my feeling - I'm super nervous around men/people in real life, but v.confident when it comes to work - out of practice more than anything. When clients come in I want to try and get all Jessica Rabbit on them and that is a whole heap easier if they are a wee bit over the hill. Its weird, when I have young good lookers they tend to be nervous, and I feel a bit nervous (after 8 years *whoo*) and the whole thing is a bit of a nervy shambles. Luckily they never have any hard-on troubles though...

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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #11 on: 10 April 2012, 03:04:52 pm »
They make me uncomfortable, but in a weird unreasonable way.  I expect them to behave better than regular clients, but when they don't I'm really disappointed and don't want to see them again.  Weird huh.  I'm only like that with the men, with the women I'm just intimidated.

^^^ this ^^^  ;D

I had one a couple of weeks ago who was my idea of very attractive, late 20s, funny and seemed really nice. I really enjoying the booking and let down my guard slightly, which is a rarity for a cynical old hag like me, I usually have to put on very much of an act  ;D.

However afterwards he kept texting me explicit crap, and I was deflated  :-[ I expected him to 'behave' properly because he seemed like someone I would date in real life. But his texts afterwards were someone getting carried away and not very respectful.  ::)
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Re: Prefer not to see good looking clients?
« Reply #12 on: 10 April 2012, 03:56:08 pm »
Ditto. Hmm well it's hard. I often get attached to clients but yes when they open the door and they're my age and hot I sometimes feel a little awkward.