People who do this just want a reaction, it's often nothing to do with your looks, just their own issues reflected upon you. That's how I choose to see it.

Quote from: Bi guy x on 18 April 2015, 08:47:57 pm

Never had this happen to me yet.

Have had a few guys change from hour to half hour bookings when they arrive, is a bit annoying but at least it's still a booking i am getting paid for x 

Give it time lol. I don't mean that in a bitchy way, it really is no reflection on us.
I agree with cheesypeas, a lot of the time they just get off on it, sometimes of course there probably is something pedantic we aren't doing for them. I find it interesting that when it does happen as I said above it's actually not a confidence blow. It's reassuring I think that something you worried about wasn't actually worth worrying about at all

I am expecting it to happen to me,i did have a hoax out call once which was just as annoying x 

SelenaLondon 'habitual rejectors'....It's perplexing
when it happens. I think a lot of it's control driven
rather than sexual attraction.

Did he not give you a cancellation fee?
I'd generally expect 50-100 pounds for walkouts.
Agencies usually state it in their T & C.

I'd challenge an agency that repeatedly
caters for clients known for such behaviours.
An agency did this to me and I sacked them.
It would be professional to warn you and
give you the choice of seeing him or not.

At another extreme...
I met a client who books 10 girls
all at the same time, gathered in his
home and rejects 9 as unsuitable.
He's done this for 20 years with the
support of agencies.

Yip.  I knew this client, went to an outcall with him once and he had a mansion (and I mean a MANSION, it was like a film star's house).  All was good.  I went the second time and he never answered the door.  I was pissed off as it was out of town, a ?25 cab fare and over an hour's round trip.  He called to book the third time and I pulled him up for the second, he said 'Oh yeah, I call and book everyone and it's first come first served, whoever gets here first gets the job'.

Asshole.  I still get mad when I think about that guy for some reason and I don't know why as I've met way worse!

Quote from: Curvygal on 25 April 2015, 03:05:10 pm

Quote from: cheesypeas on 18 April 2015, 02:22:37 pm

SelenaLondon 'habitual rejectors'....It's perplexing
when it happens. I think a lot of it's control driven
rather than sexual attraction.

Did he not give you a cancellation fee?
I'd generally expect 50-100 pounds for walkouts.
Agencies usually state it in their T & C.

I'd challenge an agency that repeatedly
caters for clients known for such behaviours.
An agency did this to me and I sacked them.
It would be professional to warn you and
give you the choice of seeing him or not.

At another extreme...
I met a client who books 10 girls
all at the same time, gathered in his
home and rejects 9 as unsuitable.
He's done this for 20 years with the
support of agencies.

Yip.  I knew this client, went to an outcall with him once and he had a mansion (and I mean a MANSION, it was like a film star's house).  All was good.  I went the second time and he never answered the door.  I was pissed off as it was out of town, a ?25 cab fare and over an hour's round trip.  He called to book the third time and I pulled him up for the second, he said 'Oh yeah, I call and book everyone and it's first come first served, whoever gets here first gets the job'.

Asshole.  I still get mad when I think about that guy for some reason and I don't know why as I've met way worse!

I'm spitting blood at that story! I have a long term regular who admits to sending the same ' You around? X ' text to several ladies at the same time and simply ignores the rest of us if we don't respond quickly ( easiest booking in the history of the world, so I turn the occasional blind eye )
But if he EVER did anything like this, well .. I can't say on a public Forum but it WOULD be still legal..

Honestly my blood boils when I think of him and this is a long time ago.  I think the fact he had a mansion etc. made it worse somehow, as he was clearly a rich asshole with no consideration fucking around. 

I think if they just said, you look beautiful and thankyou for coming all this way but on second thoughts your just not my type so here is taxi fair home for the effort. Some men don't realize or care the effort it takes. I'm half gay and can see a beautiful women (or man for that matter) when I see one wether I fancy them or not, does not excuse being so rude. Sure if your not into the girl appologize and walk away but that dude is ruuu--uududee.

Should have said something like "oh thank god, phew" to dent his ego back for being so unpleasant about it but I suppose you have the agencies rep to withhold 


My boyfriend has a habit of calling girls ugly when they're actually absolutley stunning but just not his specific type. I don't get it and always tell him off for it when he does it.

thought i would comment on an existing thread rather than start a new one... Just had this happen to me, rushed off to grab something to eat- rushed back.
Got ready- he turns up 10 mins early, so I have shopping bags around the place, but I'm dolled up and in my dress and heels etc.
I say "ohh hai you're early, you've just caught me out getting ready and giggle" I ask him to take a seat and does he want something to drink and he just goes 'no sorry this won't work' and leaves.
No fee, nothing. Rang my agency and they say he's just arrogant,. 

what a nuisance !

I already wrote this in a previous post. But yes I have had it probably 3-4 times, sometimes I take it offensively and sometimes I don't. And I just had it with my last booking, I don't know maybe I'm just not their type, I don't know what there reason could be, could be that I have a baby face and look younger than I really am, maybe it's because I do have some crooked teeth, I dunno! But most of the time I get told I'm quite exotic looking, as I am Spanish with some other mixed nationalities.
Oh well - different strokes for different folks!