Any decent client will not be bothered x

@ Amy. I always have a short conversation but every know and then it just drags on and I prefer to get to the point. It's on my ad that I don't see black men even though I'm black myself and it's only because I'm attracted to them and wouldn't want them as a client.

This is my first time using saafe so I assumed if I used an @ you would be able to see my reply

When I worked in Dubai  I had a text that had on it something like
In order to ensure our liaison is exactly what you require
Please get back to me with name age & nationality and anything else you feel that would ensure our time spent together is just perfect 😂
 
My friends also had something similar
 
I don't do it in the uk as I couldn't care less what colour or where someone is from but in Dubai and other middle eastern countries I really did want to know who I was seeing 

Often though just by the texts sent you could figure it out

British / Irish guys were blunt and to the point  - Paris You Free

Americans & Canadian were hey hunni / sweetie are you avalible today for some hot  fun

Clients from India would always put the word Dear - so are you available today dear  or I would like to see you today Dear 😂

Locals nearly always asked for Dom / strap on service

Appreciate that this type of screening probably wouldn't work in the uk but  a guy could easily lie and say he isn't black / white /Asian or whatever he is to see you
You won't know till they turn up

A lot of people do get angry if they think you wont see them because if there a certain colour or from a certain country or even if you dont want to see younger men or older men because its such a intimiate service and not like building a brick wall for someone or servicing there car i think everyone can choose who they want to do a service with i mean customers do some will only see certain types or wont see EE ladies or black ladies or a blonde or brunette or tattoos. But because were offering a service some men think we dont have a right to choose because we are offering a service i just think it needs to be handled with care and just expect if your open about it some will take that as a excuse to get nasty or aggressive and wont liked being asked its a hard one but everyone has the right to choose who they have sex with.

many they think that! they think that money drive us...always! many do not like refuse as well! i understand it is frustrating but they can not undertsand our position and our job...they believe to understand!

Many men don't want to give personal details, they want to remain as anonymous as possible and not be discriminated against. They also want no pressure, no strings.

Simple as that.

Also how do you know they will tell the truth? What are you going to do if they turn up and you think they are a different age, or something else? Waste your own time?

Actually I get a bit of that when I ask/advise about my drug & alcohol / don't want to see anyone who's hungover but that's something they can control, which is why I can apply it.

Many men don't want to give personal details, they want to remain as anonymous as possible and not be discriminated against. They also want no pressure, no strings.

Simple as that.

Also how do you know they will tell the truth? What are you going to do if they turn up and you think they are a different age, or something else? Waste your own time?

Actually I get a bit of that when I ask/advise about my drug & alcohol / don't want to see anyone who's hungover but that's something they can control, which is why I can apply it.

This has happened twice to me, both times I saw them out the window coming and simply didn?t answer the door.
The first one lied about his race, the second clearly lied about his age. They knocked and knocked and I didn?t answer. Once they were gone I sent them a text explaining that I don?t appreciate liars and I don?t appreciate boundary pushers who don?t respect my restrictions.

It won?t be my time wasted, since I would?ve dodged a bullet. They will have wasted their own time booking a girl who doesn?t see them, travelling and hoping I change my mind at the door, which didn?t happen.

I state my restrictions clearly on my profile so anyone who tries to trick me will get a wasted journey and will go home pissed off with blue balls.