Author Topic: Why do a lot of blokes go mad when you insist on charging them? (Read 11865 times)

Londonergirl · « **Reply #30 on:** 28 June 2013, 11:55:15 am »

Dont take it personally Lolita. its not meant to hurt you. I could have written prostitutes there apologies.

Lil Lolita · « **Reply #31 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:03:43 pm »

Hang on a minute Casey Kisses. I am NOT propositioning them!!

If I am out minding my OWN business, whether it's to Tesco(!) or having a quiet drink in a bar, some of them hit on me. I have NEVER propositioned a guy!!

casey_kisses · « **Reply #32 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:04:21 pm »

You are when you suggest charging them!

Lil Lolita · « **Reply #33 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:06:08 pm »

Well sorry, but do you think I am going to stand around to be insulted that I sleep with some sleazer for nought? Er, no!

casey_kisses · « **Reply #34 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:17:43 pm »

You're not being insulted, they are doing it because they think they are attracted to you! why do you antagonise the situation? you could just walk away and say I'm not interested. At the end of the day men are going to hit on you and you have to find a way of dealing with it, without it causing further upset. You can't control the action of others, only your reaction to them.

Anyway, I'm out because I think this is your personal issue with men and not something really that anyone can change your mind about.

Lil Lolita · « **Reply #35 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:21:02 pm »

I love the way people think this is a personal issue!

It's nice to know there are others who agree and can see my stance (Aussie Male Escort, I particularly liked your examples about different jobs e.g. people wanting free advice from doctors). I just don't see why people are taking the hump otherwise.

Mrs Mischief · « **Reply #36 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:23:18 pm »

I'm a bit confused now Lolita, I'm assuming they don't come up to you and say 'fancy a shag' ? As casey says surely they are approaching you because they find you attractive, some of them may god forbid be looking for a proper relationship. How else are they going to find someone than to meet people in a public place and try to start up a conversation with you to find out if there is any chemistry between you ?

Dexi Delite · « **Reply #37 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:24:56 pm »

At the end of the day if a guy thinks you're attractive to ask out or have a bit of no ties fun then they'll ask. All you have to do is politely tell them you're not interested. It'll save you a lot of hassle in the long run.
As I mentioned in a previous post I'm the one usually doing the asking ( you don't get anywhere if you don't ask). If they're not interested then I'm politely told no. I have to admit if I was out and I propositioned a guy and his retort was it will cost this much for half an hour or this much for an hour, I think I would be taken aback too, as it's so out of context in day to day life.

Lil Lolita · « **Reply #38 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:26:16 pm »

Mrs Mischief, you ought to hear what some of them have said! I am surprised some ladies haven't given them a black eye already! lol

Thing is, we all know how generally a man's mind works. And 99.9999% of the time, he's bound to be after one thing!

I agree with LL, how some men think they are doing you a favour, very bizarre concept they have!

Nobody Interesting · « **Reply #39 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:31:26 pm »

lil lolita,

With respect, I do not think you want input from others who are trying to show you that his behavior was 'normal' and yours was not. You simply want agreement...or something, not quite sure what.

Lil Lolita · « **Reply #40 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:34:21 pm »

Quote from: Nobody Interesting on 28 June 2013, 12:31:26 pm

lil lolita,

With respect, I do not think you want input from others who are trying to show you that his behavior was 'normal' and yours was not. You simply want agreement...or something, not quite sure what.

And quite personally, Nobody Interesting, I think you are seeking an argument. You have read me totally wrong, and I personally do not care if you think that guys coming up telling me they have 8 inch dicks and do I fancy a shag, "normal", and I am not.

Lil Lolita · « **Reply #41 on:** 28 June 2013, 12:42:00 pm »

In summary, as the last thing I want is for this to escalate and to be locked, I just think maybe guys should have a look on sex specified sites if they are after that and obviously not an escort. There seem to be hundreds!

Caledonia · « **Reply #42 on:** 28 June 2013, 01:10:59 pm »

Quote from: Lil Lolita on 28 June 2013, 12:34:21 pm

telling me they have 8 inch dicks

Personally I would just reply "Thats nice so do I :-)"

Lil Lolita · « **Reply #43 on:** 28 June 2013, 01:25:25 pm »

Quote from: ChrissieDavaar on 28 June 2013, 01:10:59 pm

Quote from: Lil Lolita on 28 June 2013, 12:34:21 pm
telling me they have 8 inch dicks

Personally I would just reply "Thats nice so do I :-)"

PMSL!!!

I had one idiot come up to me and say after I had said it "Go screw yourself" to which I replied, "Don't worry, I do regularly!"

Nameless · « **Reply #44 on:** 28 June 2013, 05:42:09 pm »

Quote from: Dexi on 28 June 2013, 12:24:56 pm

At the end of the day if a guy thinks you're attractive to ask out or have a bit of no ties fun then they'll ask. All you have to do is politely tell them you're not interested. It'll save you a lot of hassle in the long run.
As I mentioned in a previous post I'm the one usually doing the asking ( you don't get anywhere if you don't ask). If they're not interested then I'm politely told no. I have to admit if I was out and I propositioned a guy and his retort was it will cost this much for half an hour or this much for an hour, I think I would be taken aback too, as it's so out of context in day to day life.

Agree totally, especially the last sentance. Personally theres no way I'd mention my profession/quote prices in a non-work situation as I'm a very private person. I'd just do as Dexi said and politely decline.

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