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RedLady1991

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #15 on: 02 June 2013, 11:53:04 pm »
I was working part time in a clothes shop...had bene out of uni for a year but was just getting further and further overdrawn. The bank asked for ?500 of the ?1000 overdraft to be paid off within 4 weeks. I panicked and then decided i could sell myself for sex.

The rest they say, is history.

I remember my first night with the agency, i earnt ?170 which was over a weeks wages at the clothes shop. Eventually i got a full time job and used the escorting to pay off my debt. These days i work full time for a public service and then escort part time - i'm still not out of debt yet but i'm a hell of a lot more financially stable than i was about 2 years ago :)

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #16 on: 03 June 2013, 03:01:51 pm »
I was so broke financially that I used to buy 1pound pizza from sainsburys and it had to last for 2days... and as I was walking on the streets in London guys just smiled at me, often they just wanted sex and nothing more. and I started thinking "would they pay for it?" then i decided I want to find out the answer. then i was looking for private houses and a lady in North London was my first boss who taught me the basics. One month later I was independent. I have no regrets. The money is really good and I have learnt sooo much about people in short time :(  We always joke with my wg friends that each of us could write a book about own experiences it would be bestseller :) full of drama

ClaireJayne

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #17 on: 04 June 2013, 09:00:44 pm »
I cannot remember the reason why I got into it, I put my self through uni by doing it and came back to it in my 30's..............not sure why but its time to exit stage left. 

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #18 on: 13 July 2013, 12:26:10 am »
A girl at the strip club introduced me to escorting

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ameliahoney

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #19 on: 13 July 2013, 12:54:49 am »
Well I'm just about to enter the profession aged 38 and I echo a few of the above experiences - I'm from a good family but can't abide the 9 to 5 existence. My main goal is to qualify as a riding instructor but it's so expensive - ?6000 odd quid for a full course - so I need to make that money as quick as I can. I'm not getting any younger so this seems like the best way.

kirstyinverness

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #20 on: 13 July 2013, 03:52:48 am »
Money. Was so sick of being skint. And im not even talking about just in my adult life. I enjoy sex and meeting new people so it seemed like well, not a perfect, but a pretty damn good way to get out of the rut
Working 13 hours a day for the same i make now in 30 mins...just not worth it! x

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #21 on: 13 July 2013, 02:30:22 pm »
I've never had a proper job, no experience or anything, this is an easy industry to get into.

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #22 on: 13 July 2013, 02:58:53 pm »
Have been doing this job for about 4 years but part time.  Once I hit my thirties, I left my job because I was tired of working 12-14 hours a day to attain and maintain a good career and decent income.  On a rare holiday, I suddenly could not face returning to a relentless and gruelling job.  I felt like a hamster on a wheel doing 50 miles an hour just trying to stay put.  I sat down and made a list of dreams and goals.  It wasn?t anything extravagant, I just wanted to have a lot of free time to read & potter around with various hobbies.  I then made another list of what kind of job would allow me to have a reasonable income with relative few hours.  Escorting seemed a logical conclusion. 

At the time, I was single and starting to miss sex.  A quick foray into dating and adult sites made me realise that I might as well charge for it and actually get treated with more respect by clients than sleaze balls who tried to trick me with all sorts of lies to get me into bed.  Because I had savings before starting escorting, I was really lucky to be able to take my time to research safety precautions, a place to work from and could afford to turn down any client that seemed dodgy.  I know how tough it is when you?re with your back against the wall and how it can make you more vulnerable.  I?m knocking on a massive piece of wood right now but so far I have been incredibly lucky to not have had a dangerous or unpleasant client and never been ripped off (yet).  But I?m not getting complacent and if I get even the slightest inkling of something not sounding right, I simply do not go ahead with a booking.  My motto is if something sounds too good to be true then 99% of the time it is likely to be untrue.  For me no booking is certain or guaranteed even with regulars until the money has actually hit my sweaty palm.  But then I?m content with handful bookings a month as I own my place and have very little overheads. 

I don?t always feel like working and sometimes feel bit meh but compared to any work I?ve done in the past, when I dreaded each day, this job is by far the most pleasant.                   

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #23 on: 19 July 2013, 01:49:40 am »
I'm a nymphomaniac...

No really I have huge debts to pay off and kids to look after for a bit... so hopefully will be done and dusted in 5 years or less in a much better position!!!

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #24 on: 22 July 2013, 10:41:59 pm »
Have been doing this job for about 4 years but part time.  Once I hit my thirties, I left my job because I was tired of working 12-14 hours a day to attain and maintain a good career and decent income.  On a rare holiday, I suddenly could not face returning to a relentless and gruelling job.  I felt like a hamster on a wheel doing 50 miles an hour just trying to stay put.  I sat down and made a list of dreams and goals.  It wasn?t anything extravagant, I just wanted to have a lot of free time to read & potter around with various hobbies.  I then made another list of what kind of job would allow me to have a reasonable income with relative few hours.  Escorting seemed a logical conclusion. 

At the time, I was single and starting to miss sex.  A quick foray into dating and adult sites made me realise that I might as well charge for it and actually get treated with more respect by clients than sleaze balls who tried to trick me with all sorts of lies to get me into bed.  Because I had savings before starting escorting, I was really lucky to be able to take my time to research safety precautions, a place to work from and could afford to turn down any client that seemed dodgy.  I know how tough it is when you?re with your back against the wall and how it can make you more vulnerable.  I?m knocking on a massive piece of wood right now but so far I have been incredibly lucky to not have had a dangerous or unpleasant client and never been ripped off (yet).  But I?m not getting complacent and if I get even the slightest inkling of something not sounding right, I simply do not go ahead with a booking.  My motto is if something sounds too good to be true then 99% of the time it is likely to be untrue.  For me no booking is certain or guaranteed even with regulars until the money has actually hit my sweaty palm.  But then I?m content with handful bookings a month as I own my place and have very little overheads. 

I don?t always feel like working and sometimes feel bit meh but compared to any work I?ve done in the past, when I dreaded each day, this job is by far the most pleasant.                   
Money. Was so sick of being skint. And im not even talking about just in my adult life. I enjoy sex and meeting new people so it seemed like well, not a perfect, but a pretty damn good way to get out of the rut
Working 13 hours a day for the same i make now in 30 mins...just not worth it! x

This is the life, this is the life! x
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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #25 on: 23 July 2013, 07:15:55 am »
Money.

Money.

Did I say money?

I actually hate the job now, but I'm pretty much stuck between a rock and a hard place in the meantime due to unexpected family commitments. By hate, I don't mean I feel burned out, its just that feeling everyone seems to get years into a role where you have to motivate yourself more. Like I used to love touring, but even if you said I'd make ?10,000 on a tour, I'd have to really struggle to get my motivation. I enjoy the freedom and income it brings me, but it is just work now. There is a total separation between my work and private life that I never had before where my private life is now more important than my income. Before I was a lot more money orientated and would drop things to take a booking. Now I'm a lot more relaxed and more likely to say "no".

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #26 on: 25 July 2013, 06:35:18 pm »
I started because I was in a huge amount of debt and from next month I am officially DEBT FREE  ;D  Its taken me 7 years but I got there in the end!  Im going back to collage in sept and will carry this on part time until i'v got some money behind me and my goal is to open my own holistic business one day! 

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #27 on: 01 August 2013, 10:17:14 am »
For me it was by total chance. I never planned to do it although occasionally i did think in the back of my head how much better life would be if i had to guts and could earn some decent money but i always thought that i would just never have the guts.

So i had a profile on a dating site and some guy messaged me. He said he owns an agency and is interested in taking me on and that i could earn X amount an hour. He left his number and the website name. I didn't think anything of it so just put it to the back of my head but started thinking about it. About 2 weeks later i went to message him back and found that he'd been deleted so i couldn't reply but remembered the website name. So i went on the website and sent a message explaining how i'd been approached on this dating site and that i'm interested. A lady messaged me back and said basically that they don't approach people and that that guy was obviously a weirdo but if i'm interested then send some pics and details. So i did and she liked me look so we arraqnged an interview. One week later i was on the site and she got me a 1 hour incall. Once i was in the apartment waiting for the client i was absolutly shitting myself. I was pacing around thinking "why am i doing this". Then he arrived, we chatted and had a drink, the deed happpened and i walked away ?100 better off and thinking "wow, that was easy money". And here i am now.

I also work part time and go to college but was sick of scrimping and scraping and having no money. It really gets you down.
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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #28 on: 01 August 2013, 03:18:20 pm »
Very simple really... I needed the money

Only planned to do it for a couple of months, but became addicted to the fast money, and I'm still doing it a year later, and will probably continue to drift in and out of it for a long time into the future

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Re: Why did you get into this business?
« Reply #29 on: 02 August 2013, 07:16:06 am »
 completly broke It was the only way really