It's part of the reason we charge so much, it's mentally tiring having to put these men back in place of escort client things are going well then the client drops the L bomb, I am human lol I do sympathise hence why it's egsausting. I just tell them that just because the meets are paid doesn't mean the human connections & friendships aren't real BUT I feel it's disrespecting my boundaries to ask for something more than the set up we have as it's basically saying you CBA to pay anymore. Some lump it and come back as usual, some get obsessed & manipulative and I have to shake them, some are embarrassed by their proposal and I never see them again. I just tell them if I allowed all my clients to leave that boundary i'd have no money to pay the rent, i'd love to get my massages on the house but I understand it's a service. I don't usually bring that reality into things as it's supposed to be a fantasy but that's the problem, sometimes they forget that so on occasions it is appropriate to remind them. Just been dealing with someone who wouldn't take no or a block as an answer so yea I get you it's knackering.
Take it as a compliment that your doing your job right, if they can't accept that, there is ALWAYS more clients to be had. Your right it seems cold but like....... I can't pay the rent with 50 boyfriends haha. 'You want to date me? Oh go on then.' I mean.... this is like a monthly thing how would we be expected to see all these men for free..... Think my house would turn into a huge polyamerous gang bang mess. We like the company of our friends doesn't mean we want to date them all. When you put it logically and silly i'm sure they'll get it & not take offence.