I guess it's true as one of the other ladies said......
In our own minds, we must have an ideal client in mind whatever that may be and if he doesn't fit the profile then suddenly we become too busy to see them.
These people seem to let it really dent their ego rather than just move onto the next profile and then more often or not take revenge into their own hands (by trying to ruin our reputation) at a later date, I know this all too well unfortunately.
Never occurs to them that we can be as selective about who we see as they are about who they see.
If I was a guy and I got refused a booking from an escort for any reason at all, I would simply save my hard earned for someone else who actually wants my money, not trick the girl who refused me a booking on another number because they usually walk in full of resentment from the offset so no matter what you do and no matter how nice you are to them, they have this axe to grind that won't go away.
I disagree on this one. I have a kind of hazy idea of an ideal client but I certainly don't decline people who I think aren't ideal. I would never work!
Ok will rephrase, SOME of us may have an ideal idea of a client in our minds subconsciously so if someone gets in contact that doesn't fit the profile, we don't meet them.
As I've said elsewhere on another thread, if I'm only advertising on AW then I must get 30+ calls a day and literally only 3-5 maximum of those clients seem completely desirable to me.
I realise I'm extra picky but that's cause I'm extra anxious and extra vanilla with my service's and know that I won't be able to please everyone especially those who ring me up not even knowing what day of the week it is nevermind anything about me and what I offer.
Obviously I want to avoid negative reviews as much as possible from people I'm incompatible with because those said clients will never blame themselves for not reading or accepting your advert properly, it makes them feel much better putting you and your service down instead.
Of course the odd rat still manages to pass my vetting procedure same as I will have missed out on the odd great client over something silly like the tone of his voice putting me off so nothing is 100%
And it truly is my loss for all the good clients I've missed out on over something silly or something silly that they have said or done to put me off but I would rather miss out on a few good guys than have my guard down and have to deal with a lot more rats.
When I meet with good clients, I LOVE MY JOB......I get such a buzz from it. I took a 3 week break recently to go on a course and by the third week, I couldn't wait to get back. I genuinely look forward to seeing my regulars again and I love the freedom this job gives me not to mention the money so when it's good, it's good.
But of course every job has it's downfalls, unfortunately escorting has very deep set downfalls that can really affect you in many ways and the isolation of the job makes that 100 times worse than what it may seem to others (non escorts or punters) so I try my absolute best to avoid undesirables as much as I possibly can for my own wellbeing, confidence and sanity. If I was to see a fraction of the undesirables that contact me, I would not be in a good place at all.
Topic: What would make you decline a booking? (Read 10079 times)