Hello all 

I have been asked if I like an OTK spanking. What is this? x

Oh God. I don't mind spanking them. That would be easy haha with a paddle brush thing. Not really into being spanked much as last guy hit me way too hard. Bar Steward.

a guy has asked if he can spit on me and pull my hair. I told him he could try, but he'd be going home in traction BLOCKED 

Well these things are obviously more part of a sub service and nobody would class it as a standard GFE, but plenty of people do offer/allow spitting and hairpulling; I'm fine with the latter and also pretty hard hand/paddle spanking although I won't tolerate spitting anywhere.

Either way, if somebody asks for a relatively unremarkable service that I don't offer I don't feel the need to physically threaten them? I'd honestly try not to let it get to you to that extent or you'll be losing your marbles (as well as looking very unprofessional; apart from anything else, a reaction like that is exactly what the trolls want ).

Quote from: Lois01827 on 15 December 2015, 10:23:48 pm

a guy has asked if he can spit on me and pull my hair. I told him he could try, but he'd be going home in traction BLOCKED 

Well these things are obviously more part of a sub service and nobody would class it as a standard GFE, but plenty of people do offer/allow spitting and hairpulling; I'm fine with the latter and also pretty hard hand/paddle spanking although I won't tolerate spitting anywhere.

Either way, if somebody asks for a relatively unremarkable service that I don't offer I don't feel the need to physically threaten them? I'd honestly try not to let it get to you to that extent or you'll be losing your marbles (as well as looking very unprofessional; apart from anything else, a reaction like that is exactly what the trolls want ).

That's my straight talking humour Amy - which understandably can get misread. However, bearing in mind he asked if I do sub and I said no, only GFE then I responded in the way he did and he kept asking for different things - small cock humiliation etc and each time I said no. We all do different services and if I'm saying I don't do a service, but I keep being pushed, then of course I will respond (in hindsight I should of blocked straight away but we are going back nearly 2 months so I'd handle it differently now, but I thought I was being polite - na?ve eh  ). I wouldn't say I'm unprofessional - categorically not. I'm a woman that offers a certain service which I make clear and the thought of someone still pushing it irritates me. I wouldn't let a man talk to me like that in my real life, so I'm not going to tolerate it in my escorting arena either. Swings and roundabouts I guess 

Well that's fine, but all I really meant was that sooner or later somebody's likely to take it the wrong way .

You're not having a joke with people you know and who know you if you see what I mean; we've all been there when somebodys said something meant as a joke but it hasn't been obvious and everybody smiles politely and then looks at their feet. I have it with at least one punter a week when about ten seconds after they say something I realise I was supposed to laugh .

I suppose it's partly because if I was going to physically threaten somebody I'd mean it, which is why I don't do it.

Point taken and I do agree with you - I'm not rude to my clients or I'd be out of business. I take it on board so thanks 

Ha. I have so much bloody hair they could pull handfuls out and nobody would notice, although I would .

As for the spanking, if you're going to do it I'd advise going slow until you learn both how hard you can tolerate and how hard or prolonged will leave marks. My pain threshold is higher than my bruise threshold and I had to spend four days of a tour explaining why I was black and blue once after a hefty spanking on the first day, although it was fun at the time.

If it's over the knee it can be awkward positioning yourself too, especially if you have big boobs. I'd recommend him sitting on the edge of the bed rather than on a chair so you can lean on your arms a bit, although an armchair is OK .