Thanks for saying that, it's cheared me up a little tbh.
I've been overweight for a few years now, I dropped to 12st 7 in 2012 but since then it's been a real struggle to try and lose anything, I'm told it's the hormones, that they do these things to a woman etc. I'm now sticking to a diet plan that's working, having lost 13lb in the last month with another 33lb to lose to reach the above target. I'm always conscious when I'm naked, clothes tend to cover things a lot but when you're naked then I guess you're' exposed. As you say though, we shouldn't be governed, or feel that we need to be, both these negaitve stereotypes. I plan to live forever anyway so maybe one day I'll be someones "Grab a Granny."