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Rosesugar

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #120 on: 22 February 2018, 06:28:41 pm »
Listening to new music on Utube  before i buy  I need some more CD as I'm bit old fashioned and  play discs still !
got carried away on Amazon just now
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JasminePetite

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #121 on: 01 August 2018, 01:19:23 pm »
Hey,

So I've been escorting just over a year and I'm starting to feel like I'm stuck in a rut. I get up later then intended (about 10-11am), sit in my pjs until about 2-3pm reading through aw emails/admin you know the drill. Then I just watch netflix while constantly checking my aw emails/phone wondering what to do with my day.

Usually I don't even know what I'm doing with my day until about 3-4pm then the day is basically over. So what do you girls do in your spare time between bookings? Do you have daily routines to keep you sane?

 I've tried having dedicated days off use to be Tuesday and Wednesday so I could just get up and get on with my day but I always felt I was missing out on potential bookings. I just don't know what to do with all this spare time, my other friends work 9-5 jobs. I just feel like I'm wasting precious time sat here doing nothing ??? But also don't know how to get out of this rut. Thoughts?

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Rosie13

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #122 on: 01 August 2018, 01:28:59 pm »
With dedicated days in mind, why not put your name down for a voluntary shift somewhere nearby? Preferably for a cause that interests you and something that’ll get you up and out in the morning? Or even a part time class with something to work towards outside of escorting? Find something that interests you and enquire locally to see about groups you could join.

I study, work and care for family outside of this and now at a point where I don’t know how I’m going to fit whoring in! I generally only work one or two days a week so any time between bookings is actually a welcome rest for me. If you’re worried about missing bookings, is webcam an option for you?

I don’t know if I’m the best to give advice as my situation is a bit different but hopefully you find something that works for you. X
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Mirror

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #123 on: 01 August 2018, 01:52:16 pm »
Yoga
Accounts/admin
Update blogs/web
Exercise
Visit family/friends
Go to exhibitions, things I'm interested in
Cinema
Music gigs
Walking outdoors, just go for a wander - same with cycling
Meet friend or OH for coffee in coffee shop
Various outdoor pursuits
Use social media to connect with others with same interests...........
Study/read/maintain other business
Oh did I mention voluntary work for more than 1 organisation

Never enough time in the day!
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Bella.X

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #124 on: 01 August 2018, 02:03:01 pm »
Quote from: Mirror on 01 August 2018, 01:52:16 pm
Yoga
Accounts/admin
Update blogs/web
Exercise
Visit family/friends
Go to exhibitions, things I'm interested in
Cinema
Music gigs
Walking outdoors, just go for a wander - same with cycling
Meet friend or OH for coffee in coffee shop
Various outdoor pursuits
Use social media to connect with others with same interests...........
Study/read/maintain other business
Oh did I mention voluntary work for more than 1 organisation

Never enough time in the day!

2nd... + constantly researching and planning my tour locations/dates
« Last Edit: 01 August 2018, 02:06:33 pm by BellaBella08 »
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Helen4444

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #125 on: 01 August 2018, 02:44:06 pm »
Hi, have u thought about getting a little p/time job or are you a full time escort?
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Justine

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #126 on: 01 August 2018, 04:30:33 pm »
When no longer doing a 9 to 5 type of job where you need to be on a train or in the car by 8pm to get to work etc etc, it can seem a real treat not to have to get up early but then if a rut sets in with later and later nights and very late mornings, the day can be gone before you know it, bookings or no bookings.

While I am not a 6am riser like some ladies I do ensure I am up and about by 8am or thereabouts and whether I have bookings in the diary or just a day of availability I make sure my in call place is spick and span and ready for anything. Not all sps have families they are close to or living nearby and not all have the enthusiasm to take up hobbies or activities but going outside and even just walking, is better than lazing around indoors feeling sluggish and wishwashy.

Everyone is different and motivated by different things. I can quite happily visit a small museum and be by myself, something which could horrify another person!

Make the most of the summer weather and find your nearest tourist attraction, go and explore it or even take off more time and visit neighbouring cities. This I have done as had the time not afforded when I had a fixed hours job. I have probably seen more interesting landmarks and buildings than I ever would have without escorting.

Hope something there which sparks interest!
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MARIPOSA 76

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #127 on: 01 August 2018, 04:50:46 pm »
I already tell you about the things I do in my spare time between reservations:

1) I make DREAMCATCHER DIY guided Crochet fabrics on youtobe

2) I make blankets, ponchos, crocheted

3) I paint pictures in graphic art

4) I do many crafts that I find on the internet

5) I read books

6) I see documentaries of all kinds: history, science, mysteries
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7) I give a tour of the second-hand businesses of my town

8) Invention and make cooking things

9) I practice English to speak and read it better

10) I have created two groups on facebook: one of mysteries and sciences and another for and only Women

11) Almost every day I try to go out for a half hour walk ..

 And every time there are always more things to do that time is not enough for me, although if sometimes I do not deal with clients in a day, I never get bored ... !!!

You could practice a new language: I plan to learn French after learning English better ...

Try to see what things you would like to do, because life is one.
PS: "Time is money, who loses it, loses a treasure" is a typical phrase of my country .... Blessings
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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #128 on: 01 August 2018, 05:01:31 pm »
Merged, so nine pagea of ideas. Please make sure it stays sex work related :).
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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #129 on: 01 August 2018, 05:17:54 pm »
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« Last Edit: 25 January 2019, 07:35:12 pm by 80s synthetic »
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JasminePetite

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #130 on: 06 September 2018, 01:15:01 pm »
Quote from: 80s synthetic on 01 August 2018, 05:17:54 pm
Thank you for that, I empathise...
Recently I wake up 9am, which is late and doesn't help with going to sleep early.
I feed the cat and have a coffee. Read emails. Read Saafe. Another coffee. Some news. More admin. Breakfast. Why not a third coffee? Here we go.
I take a shower when booking comes up. Coffee. Admin.
If there's more bookings, I feel bad, because I'm behind with admin.
If I'm doing admin, I feel bad, because I'm not working.
Either way, I end my days frustrated.

My daily routine is an autopilot, it's bad.
I know that I should wake up and start the day with a shower and a meditation, but once I make this first coffee and start with internet, it's just downhill.
I could give you plenty of good advice but I would be a hypocrite in doing so.

Nice to read that others have more eventful and organised lives!  :)

Definitely sounds like your more organised then me! xx
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JustAnotherHooker

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #131 on: 06 September 2018, 06:53:47 pm »
Get the dildo/bullet or rampant rabbit out and have a great time!!
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Rosesugar

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #132 on: 06 September 2018, 07:15:31 pm »
Catch up tv player and  clean up the place while awaiting  clients .
I've become messy and need to get it sorted these guys must think I'm too busy or too lazy  to tidy  !
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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #133 on: 12 November 2018, 10:35:44 pm »
When i Incall and its slow i'll cam, do my social media, edit profiles and ads, continue to sort my website, take pictures (insta, snapchat).

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Rosesugar

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Re: Things To Do (Besides Dusting Your Phone) When You Are Bored
« Reply #134 on: 26 May 2019, 04:57:43 pm »
How long can you stay motivated when it's so quiet ?
Apart from tour days I'm struggling to keep going beyond early evening .
Id like to be available 10 until 8 at least
What's your stratagy without any definate bookings planned? 
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