When you tell them you don’t want to see them again in a polite way but they trick you into a booking making contact from a different number.. they turn up at the door hoping you see them.
I had this one client who only booked the once.. I could tell he was looking for dating.. he booked 30 mins and paid only 30 mins but he overstayed and needed up having a hour out my time.. after the booking he starting texting me what an amazing time he had.. I told him politely that I can’t see him again.. I knew he be problems as I got that feeling.. I said he was to big for me down below as an excuse to not see him again .. he started trying to try and text tennis with me about how much of a connection we have (yawn) I blocked then. He knew I didn’t want to see him
Fast forward few months he has pretended to be someone on and turned up at the door using a different number.. lucky I was in a hotel what’s safe.. plus my room In the hotel Was near the cleaning room where the cleaners was close by.. I answered the door and said what you doing here.. he said he thought I would see him.. (even tho I told him previously I wouldn’t) he left, but I do wonder if the cleaners hadn’t been close by in the corridors he maybe would have caused a fuss
I text him after he left and told him what he is doing is harassment and I did say if it happened again I would report it..
He started texting me that he isn’t a bad guy and wanted see me.. sorry but good men don’t trick or take the piss overstaying an extra 30 mins..
I just hope he isn’t going to be a problem for me.
Someone is trying to do this to me at the moment he's awful he had one booking 5 years ago lots of specific request phone calls before he made his first booking, really fixated on clothing. Turned up very scruffy himself. During the booking was pushing boundaries in a 'can we date/meet out of the booking', when the booking time was up he would not budge. Very opinionated said some very daft things about things people spend their own money on (which considering he was spending similar amount on the booking with me was hilarious). Took me a while to get him out of bedroom, then down the stairs, then even though I was telling him it was time to leave he just turned his back on the front door, carried on talking. I had to literally shout at him to get out of my property, at the same time open the door and push him out. He then had the audacity to phone me for feedback on his performance (not AW feedback he says he found me in a contact magazine(I have had some nice clients from contact magazines)). I gave him a piece of my mind and told him to stop wasting/using my time.
Roll on a few months after this booking he tried to mess me around about a second booking which I was totally reluctant to accept.
He has a very distinctive voice and MO, started calling on a new number in the last month or so. When I ask him he says he has never seen me before, I tell him he sounds like someone I have seen.
MO is the same re clothing, keeping me on the phone. He is now reported to CE (to be fair I have said "Sounds like a guy who was difficult, but I am certain it's him), and I will be either ignoring his calls or telling him I am not seeing any new clients.