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MissBehaving

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3075 on: 18 January 2020, 12:12:58 pm »
I never get hagglers  , certainly never from someone I've already met ...until a couple of weeks ago and I'm still reeling .
I met the guy , mature , late 50's , a mont ago . No issues , friendly , brought chocolates .
A couple of weeks ago he texted wanting an hour appointment for the following day .
We agreed on a time blah blah blah ... a little later he texted again saying he really wanted to extend  " our liaison " to 1 1/2 hour .
I said that's fine .
He texted back saying " how much ? I'm thinking £150 and we'll concentrate on your pleasure during the extra time "  :FF :FF :FF
To which I said " Nah , my fee is a £180 "
Now the " nah " doesn't sound very sophisticated but much nicer than what was actually going through my mind .
Anyway he says he can't pay that much so to leave it at 1 hour .
Late that night he text again,  Repeating that he really wants a longer appointment, could we negotiate a mutually agreeable price  , together with a long list of what he wants me to wear .

By which point I'm absolutely fuming . My profile clearly states that my fees are as stated , no discount available and also that I do not cater for any request concerning my appearance .
I immediately cancelled the booking , no explaination and blocked him .
I realise that I shouldn't get so riled up over such a small matter but frankly I'm still mad about it . It doesn't help that my phone shows blocked calls and text ... and he's made dozan of them since that day .

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« Reply #3076 on: 18 January 2020, 12:43:03 pm »
I never get hagglers  , certainly never from someone I've already met ...until a couple of weeks ago and I'm still reeling .
I met the guy , mature , late 50's , a mont ago . No issues , friendly , brought chocolates .
A couple of weeks ago he texted wanting an hour appointment for the following day .
We agreed on a time blah blah blah ... a little later he texted again saying he really wanted to extend  " our liaison " to 1 1/2 hour .
I said that's fine .
He texted back saying " how much ? I'm thinking £150 and we'll concentrate on your pleasure during the extra time "  :FF :FF :FF
To which I said " Nah , my fee is a £180 "
Now the " nah " doesn't sound very sophisticated but much nicer than what was actually going through my mind .
Anyway he says he can't pay that much so to leave it at 1 hour .
Late that night he text again,  Repeating that he really wants a longer appointment, could we negotiate a mutually agreeable price  , together with a long list of what he wants me to wear .

By which point I'm absolutely fuming . My profile clearly states that my fees are as stated , no discount available and also that I do not cater for any request concerning my appearance .
I immediately cancelled the booking , no explaination and blocked him .
I realise that I shouldn't get so riled up over such a small matter but frankly I'm still mad about it . It doesn't help that my phone shows blocked calls and text ... and he's made dozan of them since that day .

It’s not a small issue at all so I see why your getting riled, what would rile me also is the fact that not only did he want a discount then he decided how much the discount would be and made the excuse that the pleasure would focus on you! Aye right mate, our pleasure is mainly money based I would say, well for me anyway! Another deluded client....

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« Reply #3077 on: 18 January 2020, 02:13:45 pm »
My guess is, he thinks he's proved himself as a 'nice' client in the first booking, so now you'd be willing to go the extra mile because he's a 'sure thing'. I could sort of understand if he'd seen you several times, but after one visit it's taking the piss.
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« Reply #3078 on: 18 January 2020, 03:35:37 pm »
Some people do go through life trying to discount everything, I have had a cheeky one myself this week - first booking he negotiated an extension which did suit me, however he'd also broken a request of mine but was actually ok.

Faffed over a repeat which never happened, then tried to offer significantly less the extension deal agreed on the first booking. He could have booked a time he can afford and I did drop slightly which I do not usually do. Ended up finishing the call on the note 'I'm busy got to go', what's worse during the call he even acknowledged 'If I don't book someone else might get in'. Yes someone at full rate.

There were various arguments offered including he was paying for the hotel, not a great argument with someone who is mostly outcall.  ::) When I had a moment of quiet I did decide on a deal I would offer should he phone back, to fit his budget and me he hasn't and I've a full price booking arranged without any haggling or fuss. Just a text or two.

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« Reply #3079 on: 01 February 2020, 06:49:54 pm »
I doubt I am the only one who has experienced this one. Earlier today a new client. Booking was fine in my opinion and unless he was acting he really enjoyed it all too!

My complaint? I opened the front door and he came in with phone in hand. Hardly looked at me and walked past me while doing something on the mobile. Turns out he was switching it off which was ok by me but he barely glanced at me while walking down the hall, which he should not have done as he had no idea where he was going.

It pisses me off on the rare times it happens. If we sps did the same and kept our eyes on our phones while ushering them in we would be branded rude.

I had one man walk straight past me and say wow you look hot! the thing was, he had not even looked at me.  ::)

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« Reply #3080 on: 01 February 2020, 07:24:31 pm »
That's so annoying. Sometimes it's 'negging'- emotional manipulation. To make the other person feel insecure and make them want approval. It's a technique reccomended by various pick up artists and dating gurus.

When I was a newbie I opened the door and the agency client was posing- slowly leafing through a newspaper on the step like he was sat on the tube. He looked up about 10 seconds later in his own sweet time as if suprised I was there. This kind of planned manipulation generally show's they've got hidden agendas to screw you up. If it was now, I'd accidentally slam the door on his nose. ;) 'Oops!'

Now we get in the hall, I tell them to turn the phone off, put it away till they've left the premises. Nobody moving till that's done.
« Last Edit: 01 February 2020, 08:04:37 pm by saltysweet »

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« Reply #3081 on: 01 February 2020, 09:29:40 pm »
I doubt I am the only one who has experienced this one. Earlier today a new client. Booking was fine in my opinion and unless he was acting he really enjoyed it all too!

My complaint? I opened the front door and he came in with phone in hand. Hardly looked at me and walked past me while doing something on the mobile. Turns out he was switching it off which was ok by me but he barely glanced at me while walking down the hall, which he should not have done as he had no idea where he was going.

It pisses me off on the rare times it happens. If we sps did the same and kept our eyes on our phones while ushering them in we would be branded rude.

I had one man walk straight past me and say wow you look hot! the thing was, he had not even looked at me.  ::)

I had an OC who pissed me off to no end. Keycarded elevator so he had to met me in the lobby of course. I'm sitting there, NOT on my phone bc I think that looks terrible, he comes up about 10 feet away from me & says, "Celeste?" I smile & say hello.
He literally jerks his head in the direction of the elevators & strides off to them.
No hello, no handshake, no greeting....not a fucking thing.

So I sat there. I thought, you know, that's really GD rude & I'm not letting you get away with it. You need to come back & acknowledge my existence, you rude bastard. About 30 seconds later he comes back with this surprised look on his face, & says, "Are you coming?"
"Once you greet me properly & say hello I am." was my chilly reply.

I sat there til he came over. I held my hand out until he shook it. Only then did I rise to my feet & sloooowly walked to the lift. THEN, we had to wait for that GD elevator to go up bc ppl from his conference (that he didn't know, mind you) were IN IT & he "thought it might be awkward."

I'm thinking, gee, I have *regular ppl* as friends, who says you're not meeting someone from,  I dunno, your college years or something. Such guilt *tsks* & so unnecessary.

We're not even at his door yet & I'm fed up. As we're walking down the hallway I said thoughtfully,  "There's several ways this could've been handled, you know. You could've left a key card at the front desk for me. You also could've come to me & saved yourself an awful lot of stress, it seems like."

"Uhhhh. I didn't think of those."

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« Reply #3082 on: 01 February 2020, 09:34:24 pm »
I had one today I let him in while leading him to bedroom he gave me a hard slap on my bum oh Gosh I hate that habit with passion I find it so degrading and irritating. I just smiled and told him not to behave like a immature young boy who is visiting a working girl for the first time. He didn't like what I said and decided to cancel the booking I just showed him the door before losing my temper.

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« Reply #3083 on: 01 February 2020, 10:16:56 pm »
I had one today I let him in while leading him to bedroom he gave me a hard slap on my bum oh Gosh I hate that habit with passion I find it so degrading and irritating. I just smiled and told him not to behave like a immature young boy who is visiting a working girl for the first time. He didn't like what I said and decided to cancel the booking I just showed him the door before losing my temper.


Wow! That warrants a warning on the warning section.

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« Reply #3084 on: 01 February 2020, 10:22:56 pm »
I had one today I let him in while leading him to bedroom he gave me a hard slap on my bum oh Gosh I hate that habit with passion I find it so degrading and irritating. I just smiled and told him not to behave like a immature young boy who is visiting a working girl for the first time. He didn't like what I said and decided to cancel the booking I just showed him the door before losing my temper.

So he regressed from behaving like an idiot, to a toddler spitting his dummy out because he couldn't handle being 'told off' by a woman ::)

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« Reply #3085 on: 01 February 2020, 10:28:20 pm »
Honestly sometimes you think we are dealing with adolescents teenagers.

katrina

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« Reply #3086 on: 01 February 2020, 10:45:29 pm »
Honestly sometimes you think we are dealing with adolescents teenagers.

Some teenagers are more mature  ::)

An adult male:  Ooh tits with buttons on I'll just press them beep beep  ::) ::) ??? Or even worse suckle on them  >:D

saltysweet

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« Reply #3087 on: 01 February 2020, 11:17:38 pm »
I had one today I let him in while leading him to bedroom he gave me a hard slap on my bum oh Gosh I hate that habit with passion I find it so degrading and irritating. I just smiled and told him not to behave like a immature young boy who is visiting a working girl for the first time. He didn't like what I said and decided to cancel the booking I just showed him the door before losing my temper.

Good on you J, who slaps bottoms any more? ??? so 1960s
Maybe just me but I don't turn my back on clients...vulnerable position. I guide by standing behind them.
« Last Edit: 02 February 2020, 01:25:21 am by saltysweet »

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« Reply #3088 on: 02 February 2020, 10:51:47 pm »
That's so annoying. Sometimes it's 'negging'- emotional manipulation. To make the other person feel insecure and make them want approval. It's a technique reccomended by various pick up artists and dating gurus.

When I was a newbie I opened the door and the agency client was posing- slowly leafing through a newspaper on the step like he was sat on the tube. He looked up about 10 seconds later in his own sweet time as if suprised I was there. This kind of planned manipulation generally show's they've got hidden agendas to screw you up. If it was now, I'd accidentally slam the door on his nose. ;) 'Oops!'

Now we get in the hall, I tell them to turn the phone off, put it away till they've left the premises. Nobody moving till that's done.

Clients who use 'negging' tactics fall to pieces when the tables are turned on them!
Sensitive souls they are. Haha   ;D

CelesteManchester

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« Reply #3089 on: 03 February 2020, 12:37:52 am »
Clients who use 'negging' tactics fall to pieces when the tables are turned on them!
Sensitive souls they are. Haha   ;D

What am I always shouting about on here? turn it back on them.
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