Don't let them put their arm around your neck - I've never had this and if they started to try I'd duck. Another way to block it is to put your hand on the back of your head.
Noted thank you.
I think next time this happens, I will put my arm around their neck.
There is absolute no need for them to do this. It is them trying to take control in a totally unacceptable way.
There are so many other control freaks out there:
There are the ones that hold on to your wrists firmly, when they are on top of you which I find really scary; and another really odd one, which has happened a lot:-
I only do outcalls and drive myself, so when I leave to get in my car they follow me out and place themselves between me sitting in the driver's seat and the open drivers door (them gripping onto the open car door) - basically not wanting me to shut the car door and leave even when they are well past the paid time. They want to continue with chatting away and I find this really controlling and weird.
What I do now - is get in the car, lock the door and wave goodbye to them!
This has happened so may times to me now with different clients, and they are all controlling. I also find it sad that they feel a need to do this.
I get so bloody annoyed. I need to be more assertive!!!
