They just have the mindset that having a man and being married = happiness, it's funny when I tell them that I have a boyfriend and then they say stuff like "If I was your boyfriend I would support you and not let you do this". Nobody asked your opinion dickhead like my boyfriend is my pimp or something, I can make my own life decisions I don't want some controlling nutcase in my life. They get equally confused when I show ambition saying stuff like I'm a university student and I also work as a freelance graphic designer and illustrator.
I've lost count of the amount of guys who talked about marrying me, like my life would be better living with them in their tiny one bedroom flat staying in all day while they go to work in the factory.
Oh my gosh this is the worst!
Punters can say a lot to me and it just wash off, but when they start trying to take on the role of psychotherapist and start telling you how to live your life, well, the anger builds.
I had one guy recently telling me about what life will be like when I've grown up and have a life, a stable relationship, career, etc.
I swear, if they genuinely think prostitution is so damaging to us, WHY DO THEY COME?
They're basically admitting imo that the don't give a toss if what they are doing is damaging, I think their patronising attempts at life advice are them just making themselves feel better.
(not that prostitution in damaging, but from the way they speak about it they must think it is).