And it was all going so well...

I was hoping I wouldn't get shunned, but thats why I was telling her to just go ahead and see another client. Because just last month  she was saying how she thought she was the only one who enjoyed her job...and then just yesterday its the worst day of her life.

Replacing bad with good is the best thing to do.

Discussing the difference between different African regions is about ethical origin.   So please do not second guess me whether I am offended or not.  Perhaps you could PM me if you have concerns rather than trying to publicly humiliate me?    

ooooo, sounds like someone just got told?

I was simply asking a question out of curiousity. As soon as Brown Candy answered, I would have just been like, "ah okay...interesting" I would not have carried on saying, "yeah, stay away from Egyptions...they make horrible clients. The ones from Somalia aren't that much better either."

By the way....I met men from Tel Aviv in Egypt, they love Black people 

Hey guys. Thank you so much for your support and virtual kisses x
I forgot to say I did ask for this guys address and I did check the address on tfl and google and it showed me somewhere in south London which was strange. There was other things I should have taken in to consideration but I was so side tracked because i was thinking to much about the money I thought I was gonna earn. Lol. I'm deffo gonna up my game and be very upfront and not accept bullshit. I'm quite a gentle person and people can tell that why they take advantage. I badly wanna start doing incalls and such because outcalls are shit and I'm sick of traveling but I need to keep doing them so I can get enough for a deposit. Right now I'm on a break from escorting because I cut my leg, the whether is terrible ( I'm not treking through snow lol) I got my Tongue peirced  and it needs to heal. The day after the incident I had a great day out with a friend in westfeild and I was back to my happy self in no time hehe.   

I would like to re-iterate everyones' advice & send you virtual hugs & kisses.

Have you got a male friend whom you could confide in & ask him to be your driver & give him some petrol money also something for his time. If clients know you have a driver they tend not to try things on. Your driver knows where he dropped you, you phone him (or it cud be a her!!) when you're in the premises & phone to let them know things are going ok & then to let them know you're ready to be picked up. Your driver will have every right to start knocking on the door if you're not out within 10 mins of your alloted pick up time or not answering your phone!!

Ive had some lovely meets with clients but also some dodgy ones. I'm afraid it goes with the territory.

Good luck babe hope you start feeling more confidant soon.
 
Take care.

Luv Kate xx

Sorry to hear about this horrific booking . Very good advice from the other ladies here.

I can sympathise with you as when i first started escorting i did something similar ... I went on an overnight with a brand new client . Didnt have any "emergency" money on me for taxi home, in fact i didnt have a penny as id spent my last ?5 on a train ticket to meet him in Leeds station. He had told me we would be staying at a hotel in Leeds centre , it ended up been at a country hotel in the middle of nowhere. He wouldn't pay me upfront ( Told me that professional escorts and agency girls never ask for money until the morning - yeah right !) so obviously i didn't want to move on to sex until i had the money.

I was worried and stressed by this time and i drunk nearly 2 bottles of wine to calm my nerves ( another mistake)  ....Made every mistake in the book with this client

The hotel was so remote i had no mob phone signal and he would not let me use the room phone as "he didn't want the the staff knowing he had an escort in there" , so i couldn't let BF at home know i was stuck miles away.

I did end up having sex with him and he was very hard work and demanding . To add insult to injury he left me a very bad field report ! I eventually got some payment off him , but nowhere near the fee we had agreed on.


Anyway , this isnt about me...... Im not intending to hijack your thread ...Just  to let you know your not the first or the last whos been stuck in a situation where you just want the hell out .  So i know how you feel .


Because of this i wont do an overnight now , unless its with someone Ive previously met and even then its got to be a hotel. Never houses......You just don't know what your walking into

If your new to escorting the best thing you can do is share an incall place with another girl , safety and company and only do outcalls to hotels !! No overnights , there very hit and miss at the best of times.

And as for the "african " aspect , some of these guys who have not been in the UK long are not used to our ways of life. Some of these guys come from very male dominated cultures and treat women in a very different way to how we are used to been treated. Usually a religion/ culture or a mixture of the 2 dictates that women are 2nd class citizens. People get very worked up and PC when i make these statements but its the truth.  Personally i'm wary of people with foreign accents as in my experience these are going to be people make for difficult clients. This is not  a race thing as the same goes for EE's who are white !! A lot of these guys try it on and use the language barrier as an excuse for acting out " Me not understand " ......they reckon not to understand "NO" , or your "Dos n Donts" ....Just be wary is all i'm saying.