Thanks everyone for the response! Obviously a varied opinion.

Foxing why did they gross you out? X

So here is my story with SD
I put in my advert the usual mutually beneficial arrangement ect,I got a reply which really stood out very well written,he was a writer and also does theatre living in Hampstead and i checked him out, anyway we emailed 3 times then he says after thinking about it i would like to take the financial aspect out of it   :oNow wait for this he is 80 years old.
I despair 

Well seeking arrangement mostly guys using as a way to wanting girls for basically escort services but pay far less. Most men I have spoken to just make you feel cheap and not convinced there are many real sugar daddies?

I would totally second this!

Some of them don't like the financial arrangement thing being thrown in their face on a profile on sugardaddie, just saying  SA is a totally different site with different expectations, leave the mention of what you're looking for until you get to emails on sugardaddie.

I have had quite a lot of interest from SD. However because I can't afford to upgrade to a Premium Member status I can't contact members .  I have all these emails sitting in my inbox from potential suitors and I can't get in touch with any of them. No money, no honey.  And am the one without the money and it sucks. It never rains it pours, eh?

 

you could always try the Sugar Daddy UK site.  I set up a profile and then changed my mind because I didn't fancy putting in my real name and card details.  Anyway, when I cancelled my subscription they replied immediately and offered me 3 days premium use of the site for free, no strings attached.  So I used the 3 days to peruse all the decent guys and send them messages saying they could contact me on xxx.co.uk email address!  When the 3 days free use ran out my profile just went back to normal and then I just asked them to delete it.

Some of them don't like the financial arrangement thing being thrown in their face on a profile on sugardaddie, just saying  SA is a totally different site with different expectations, leave the mention of what you're looking for until you get to emails on sugardaddie.

I won't leave what I'm looking for out of my profile (although I don't speak of it, unless THEY ask for specifics, when we're messaging) - what would be the point in pretending I want love when I don't. But I don't 'throw it in their face', its just stated in my profile so everyone knows what's what. I find that even if you DO state clearly what you're looking for, you still get guys who really should be getting someone off AW instead - they expect a guaranteed shag, for what, a free dinner?!!! Not happening. This is how it will go: we chat, we arrange a date in MY home town during which we will chat and laugh and find out if we like each other, there will not be any sex, an arrangement will be established, funds received, then let the games commence. Not dinner, shag, oh I've changed my mind! 

I can't see the point in talking to guys who clearly want to find their soul mate pretending that I do too, when that's not what I'm looking for. Unfortunately 99.9% of the guys who join the site are players looking for free sex and unable to read the name of the site they have joined, which really should be a big clue for them as to the nature of it. All of those guys getting straight to the free sex part are getting nothing but the cold shoulder from me I'm afraid.

As to sugar daddy uk - I personally (and this is just me) find this site repugnant. When you go through setting up your profile and it wants to know if you like anal, bdsm etc - wtf?!!!! That's just RANK - again, more aligned to AW and PN than to a site for sugar. I think the vast majority of men in this country just haven't got a CLUE about what an arrangement actually is and are too dumb to work it out.

I won't leave what I'm looking for out of my profile (although I don't speak of it, unless THEY ask for specifics, when we're messaging) - what would be the point in pretending I want love when I don't. But I don't 'throw it in their face', its just stated in my profile so everyone knows what's what. I find that even if you DO state clearly what you're looking for, you still get guys who really should be getting someone off AW instead - they expect a guaranteed shag, for what, a free dinner?!!! Not happening. This is how it will go: we chat, we arrange a date in MY home town during which we will chat and laugh and find out if we like each other, there will not be any sex, an arrangement will be established, funds received, then let the games commence. Not dinner, shag, oh I've changed my mind! 

I can't see the point in talking to guys who clearly want to find their soul mate pretending that I do too, when that's not what I'm looking for. Unfortunately 99.9% of the guys who join the site are players looking for free sex and unable to read the name of the site they have joined, which really should be a big clue for them as to the nature of it. All of those guys getting straight to the free sex part are getting nothing but the cold shoulder from me I'm afraid.

As to sugar daddy uk - I personally (and this is just me) find this site repugnant. When you go through setting up your profile and it wants to know if you like anal, bdsm etc - wtf?!!!! That's just RANK - again, more aligned to AW and PN than to a site for sugar. I think the vast majority of men in this country just haven't got a CLUE about what an arrangement actually is and are too dumb to work it out.
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Well said BM. I couldnt have put it better myself. I managed to get a few clients from the site this time, I was lucky, but you are correct in saying 99.9% of guys on there are players looking for free sex. I am straight to the point on there- no pay/arrangement= no sex. They should know there is no such thing as a free lunch... speaking of which, it annoys me when they think a dinner date shag will suffice. I basically say if they want to do it, I need paying first, and then state my terms. If they dont like it, they can lump it!