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Emi787

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #345 on: 11 October 2016, 05:47:00 pm »
No complaints here. The more money thrown my way for doing basically nothing, the better  ;D

I had one follower on facebook who (I assume) didn't know I was stripping/escorting who would deposit ?40-60 into my bank account whenever I asked him for some, all because he fancied me more than anything it was his way of trying to pull me. I got minimum ?1k off him before I met him, I made him the happiest man in the world just for a 5 minute shag after he progressively gave me over ?1k. Yep, more men like that please, roll up roll up!

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« Reply #346 on: 11 October 2016, 09:10:29 pm »
No complaints here. The more money thrown my way for doing basically nothing, the better  ;D

I had one follower on facebook who (I assume) didn't know I was stripping/escorting who would deposit ?40-60 into my bank account whenever I asked him for some, all because he fancied me more than anything it was his way of trying to pull me. I got minimum ?1k off him before I met him, I made him the happiest man in the world just for a 5 minute shag after he progressively gave me over ?1k. Yep, more men like that please, roll up roll up!


I'd prefer to just do a straight forward 30 minute booking for ?70 than all that faff! I would hate to feel like I was begging  ::)

Emi787

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #347 on: 11 October 2016, 09:30:39 pm »

I'd prefer to just do a straight forward 30 minute booking for ?70 than all that faff! I would hate to feel like I was begging  ::)
That's the thing, I wasn't begging... at all. Ok the one time when I had no cash on me when I ran our of petrol is an exception.

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« Reply #348 on: 11 October 2016, 09:43:10 pm »
That's the thing, I wasn't begging... at all. Ok the one time when I had no cash on me when I ran our of petrol is an exception.


Yeah well that's a good enough reason...just remembered when I lost my purse on holiday and got my (then) boyfriend to send ?900 through via the Western union and never paid him back lmao  ;D

Emi787

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #349 on: 11 October 2016, 09:54:14 pm »

Yeah well that's a good enough reason...just remembered when I lost my purse on holiday and got my (then) boyfriend to send ?900 through via the Western union and never paid him back lmao  ;D
I know right! I think the most I've never paid back was ?2k... he claimed it was 3k but I reckon it was 2k...too much to explain! It involved a brand new iPhone at the time and a shop around town. All for a...lets say a very brief quick romance. I only shagged him once for it.

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« Reply #350 on: 11 October 2016, 10:16:14 pm »
I know right! I think the most I've never paid back was ?2k... he claimed it was 3k but I reckon it was 2k...too much to explain! It involved a brand new iPhone at the time and a shop around town. All for a...lets say a very brief quick romance. I only shagged him once for it.


Nice one  ;D


Years ago I agreed to spend a whole weekend with a client...he paid me ?1000 and took me shopping spent about ?500 on presents trying to woo me into 'falling in love' with him...and he was there pretending 'its not about the sex'... so we only shagged twice  ::) it was the longest weekend of my life and I couldn't wait to get back to my real boyfriend, I still had the receipts so took most of the stuff back lol  :D

Emi787

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #351 on: 11 October 2016, 11:45:20 pm »

Nice one  ;D


Years ago I agreed to spend a whole weekend with a client...he paid me ?1000 and took me shopping spent about ?500 on presents trying to woo me into 'falling in love' with him...and he was there pretending 'its not about the sex'... so we only shagged twice  ::) it was the longest weekend of my life and I couldn't wait to get back to my real boyfriend, I still had the receipts so took most of the stuff back lol  :D
I know what you mean but, I can't give sex for free to anyone even a loving boyfriend. I'm weird I know. Somehow I enjoy sex far more when I know I'm gaining financially from it even in some round-about way of getting them to come back for more.

Some men are really boring, ugly fat whatever. At the end of the day its whats in their pockets, and I'm not talking penis size. Money is what turns me on mainly anything else just helps.

DanielleMidlands

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« Reply #352 on: 30 October 2016, 03:43:01 pm »
has anyone in the UK used any of the sugar daddy sites before and could recommend one please. I've used them before in other countries and had success with it, but I've never done it here. Thanks

VoluptuousCurves

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« Reply #353 on: 30 October 2016, 08:34:10 pm »
Seekingarrangement is the busiest one, but the men on there are fucking skinflints IME. They want the moon on a bloody stick for something pathetic like ?250 a month. If you are young (under 25) and very conventionally attractive you might have better luck than me.
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sexyshanti93

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« Reply #354 on: 17 November 2016, 06:46:05 pm »
I'm on seeking arrangement actively just started using it though.

Have any of you used it and what were your experiences?

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« Reply #355 on: 24 November 2016, 01:31:34 pm »
I'm on seeking arrangement actively just started using it though.

Have any of you used it and what were your experiences?

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #356 on: 24 November 2016, 06:42:15 pm »
Ive just rejoined it.
I did have a 4 yr relationship out of it before I started escorting and had a monthly allowance and fab holidays etc so it can work but I believe it's very rare.

So far since joining I've been asked for naked photos, offered ?5k a mth to give up my job ( my pretend one, I haven told him I'm an escort) and travel round the world with him. Yeah right, I'm sure you're genuine.

I had lunch with someone last week who then texted me 2 days later and said ' fancy a coffee and some fun on Monday?'
A coffee in return for sex? Not even dinner?!!! Wtf????

This is the kind of shit you'll have to wade through.
I'm very realistic and if I get some nice dinners out of it without giving sex in return that'll do for the time being but I'm not holding my breath

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« Reply #357 on: 24 November 2016, 08:09:13 pm »
I had a ?250 meet last week, The guy came straight frm work, booked a hotel in central, had a glass of wine and well got to business. Much like an outcall. Was probss there for an hr max lol. No complaints 8) ;D

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #358 on: 29 November 2016, 01:46:10 am »
I made a profile with SA, but never found the motivation to sift through and spend time flirting to meet many men. A few of my friends had great success with SA though and when they have photos up, that is always a bonus. The tricky part is setting a price (I am always terrible at negotiating) when you can't have your price on your profile.

Two of my clients were on SA, both were good looking and young (30s) but both seemed to want more of a gf that is always available and accepting of gifts instead of cash (they were also kind of flashy despite being less successful than my long term SDs)

I had a SD for 2.5 years whom I partially lived with, travelled with, etc. I would consider him a very good friend and it was more like a mistress/gf scenario than escort, whereas some men on SA are really just looking for escorts. However I find guys who want this GFE also prefer it to be exclusive.

If I have any advice it would be to set the prices high (and early) because you never know how much attention they want or what they might pay, and have a pay schedule. One SD (previous client) would pay me weekly, seeing me on scheduled days of the week and stay for a few hours at a time, another monthly and I would travel or spend consecutive 24h days with him, but both would first try to offer gifts instead of cash (um NO). Eventually both gave me gifts as extras and still paid the cash, so I was happy I had been assertive. If you can find older ones, they tend to be more willing to pay the prices and understand that your life is not all about them. It seems very unlikely to find this in younger, attractive guys but I always hope to meet one someday lol.
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« Reply #359 on: 18 March 2017, 10:00:45 pm »
I know what I'm doing when it comes to monthly allowances kind of but I'm just wondering people's experiences when it comes to "arrangements" when it comes to in exchange for property. I'm about to possibly cover rent in kind for a nice flat and am wondering key things I should maybe make sure of or check or do if i do go through with it? I'm aware this is a little dangerous & has the potential of being messy but I want to do what I want to do for my reasons.

Would be interesting to hear if many people do/have done this....