See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

Author Topic: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements  (Read 131261 times)

LeggyDesi

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 52
    • OnlyFans
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #315 on: 05 May 2016, 01:49:45 pm »
Seriously, many thanks for all the advice and very eye opening points you have recently made.  It really has been food for thought, like if I want specific career advice I should talk to someone directly in that field rather than hoping some random Mr SD from a random company will be able to provide it.

Thanks Lulu, Nova, Katrina, Mirror, Sarah, Jessica, and all the others :)

Ella mae

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 6
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #316 on: 05 June 2016, 12:44:21 am »
A seemingly genuine person has asked me if I would consider entering into an "arrangement" with him where I see him one day a week...he pays me an allowance with gifts and tips...he wants to know how much I want. ..any idea? I don't know what a reasonable ask is!

Cat_BBW

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 3,819
  • Meow.
    • AdultWork Profile
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #317 on: 05 June 2016, 05:54:31 pm »
A seemingly genuine person has asked me if I would consider entering into an "arrangement" with him where I see him one day a week...he pays me an allowance with gifts and tips...he wants to know how much I want. ..any idea? I don't know what a reasonable ask is!

Will he be wanting exclusivity? Will he be wanting bareback? How many hours per week does he want? One? Ten?

You need to think about how much your time plus all the above is worth. And why doesn't he just book you normally?

ghostworld

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 70
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #318 on: 06 June 2016, 12:33:50 am »
A seemingly genuine person has asked me if I would consider entering into an "arrangement" with him where I see him one day a week...he pays me an allowance with gifts and tips...he wants to know how much I want. ..any idea? I don't know what a reasonable ask is!

Have a look on Adultwork for escorts in your area, and see how much girls of your age/attractiveness, who offer the services you feel comfortable with charge for an overnight. This will give you an idea, don't sell yourself short because it's not "escorting". He might want you to be only seeing him, which is worth more too.

Isabelle18

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 62
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #319 on: 30 June 2016, 09:58:07 am »
Other sites which may be worth a shot - as they're free (or may be a complete waste of time) are sugar daddy sites seekingarrangement.com - from my experience this is basically a site where guys expect sex and pretend they don't. Don't advertise that you're an escort as you'll get kicked off but you can say you expect '?... for a .. hours meet' and that's fine:') it's ridiculous, from my experience guys want a lot for not a lot and like to pretend they're not hiring an escort even though they're asking for sex for money and they want to be the only one you're seeing. Prepare yourself for some 'haha you're way outa my price range, have guys ever ACTUALLY paid tha?' when you put the price you're comfortable with on your pussy, cause how dare you think it's worth more than they do. BUUUTTT, if you have low rates, things are abit slow atm or enjoy getting taken out for dinner, shopping trips, it's good for all of that and as said before, it's free so why not.

Whatsyourprice- this is another site where I think sex is implied for money and they expect it but the site pretends that's not what it's about. Basically if they're interested in you they'll click a button to ask your price, you say your rates then they either confirm the meet or don't. I haven't actually tried this site yet, I'll be joining it now but it seems okay and free.

Nite flirt- Is a site which allows you to advertise your phone services for free, it's a good site to navigate I believe from a glance, but I don't actually do phonesex so I haven't properly tried it.

May be worth looking for other sugardaddy sites cause many are free advertising and it's just basically escortation for cheaper usually (again just from my experience, you're welcome to correct me if I'm wrong)



[link edited to make non-clickable, moved to appropriate thread]
« Last Edit: 30 June 2016, 10:01:20 am by amy »

LeggyDesi

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 52
    • OnlyFans
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #320 on: 17 July 2016, 09:46:58 am »
Anyone tried the Sudy App or Miss Travel?

intergalactickitten

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 72
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #321 on: 21 July 2016, 05:16:04 pm »
Anyone tried the Sudy App or Miss Travel?

Gurrl, don't waste your time!
I actually met a guy once on Sudy and god he was such a cheapskate. It's mostly full of teenagers and I don't think there is any maintenance.
Seriously, don't bother with sugardaddying. Allowances are not common these days and all those guys are either looking for trophy wives or cheap escorting experiences.
"Sometimes failure makes your future because you set the past on fire."-Christopher Titus

lapetitemort

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 177
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #322 on: 07 October 2016, 09:55:12 pm »
Sorry if this is on the wrong board, please move if it is.

So I'm curious as to what you girls think of sugar daddy/baby arrangements... for me personally., I started escorting after having a few of these and working out that, for less stress and double what I made being a 'sugar baby' I could escort, without the drama of one guy. The reason I ask is because when I WAS doing the seeking arrangement thing, I had this one specific guy try to start something with me and due to him thinking he could ask me to cancel my plans for him, I decided it wasn't worth it. 6 months later and he comes to me for an escort booking (not sure if he remembered me) and he then asks if I'd like an arrangement. He offers me ?1200 a month to meet twice a week, a few hours each time, and I politely decline, saying that for this amount I would only see him for two hours a week. He then says he 'doesn't want an escort type arrangement', to which I say, well I'm sorry but I am an escort, and although I deliver a great GFE, I'm not taking a cut on my hourly rate, I'm regularly fully booked and don't need an arrangement to give me regular work. He then starts the whole 'yeah but don't you want to do something a bit less self degrading, you're more safe seeing the same guy every week, blah blah'. I tell him I have a selection of regulars who I absolutely love seeing, I love my job and I have some great (albeit professional) relationships, and that my regulars even buy me birthday gifts and bring me things, just because. He replies 'lol, bringing  a hooker a birthday gift' or something to that effect. I tell him that sugar babies ARE sex workers, they're effectively escorts., and whether in an arrangement or using an escort, he's still paying for the services of a sex worker.

What's your opinion on this? Apart from that the guys a dick obviously, who needless to say I've blocked and it's water off a ducks back.... but it got me thinking, how many girls are doing the arrangement thing and taking a 50% pay cut because they've got it in their head it's better in some way, shape or form? [off topic content redacted].
« Last Edit: 07 October 2016, 10:25:16 pm by amy »

amy

  • Administrator
  • Sr. Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 15,555
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #323 on: 07 October 2016, 10:16:05 pm »
22 pages of what people think about it here  :).

lapetitemort

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 177
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #324 on: 08 October 2016, 12:30:46 am »
22 pages of what people think about it here  :).

Ha ha thank you, totally didn't see this one!

Kay

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 4,535
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #325 on: 08 October 2016, 02:33:29 am »
Sorry if this is on the wrong board, please move if it is.

So I'm curious as to what you girls think of sugar daddy/baby arrangements...

He's an ass. IMO a lot of men look for sugar babies to try and wangle bareback and pay less than escorting rates, or get more (e.g. anal) than they would otherwise. I find it all a bit distasteful and think you're better off being a good honest whore!
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

VoluptuousCurves

  • Defender of Ratties
  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 5,625
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #326 on: 08 October 2016, 08:26:55 am »
He's an ass. IMO a lot of men look for sugar babies to try and wangle bareback and pay less than escorting rates, or get more (e.g. anal) than they would otherwise. I find it all a bit distasteful and think you're better off being a good honest whore!

Agree. I did the seeking arrangement thing for a while before getting into proper honest sex work. It was far more degrading, especially the way you have to chase guys, and then they're all looking to pay you something ridiculous like ?500 a month for meeting twice a week. Erm, nah bruv. Take your cheapskate arse elsewhere!
And me, I am not a mess, I am a wilderness, yes
The undiscovered continent for you to undress

cherryfcuk

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 531
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #327 on: 08 October 2016, 09:26:23 pm »
Arrangements can be alot of hassle to be honest guys want stuff for nothing and i refuse to bow to that. I had a meeting the other day and quoted the guy my 3 hour rate for a pay per meet date. i doubt he will last 3 hours but he is taking up my time so he should pay.

Shewolf

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 1,477
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #328 on: 08 October 2016, 09:29:04 pm »
Agree. I did the seeking arrangement thing for a while before getting into proper honest sex work. It was far more degrading, especially the way you have to chase guys, and then they're all looking to pay you something ridiculous like ?500 a month for meeting twice a week. Erm, nah bruv. Take your cheapskate arse elsewhere!

I also had a couple of 'arrangements' with cheapskates prior to thinking fuck it I can get more by just doing it the straight escort way.

  :D

Luciexx

  • Guest
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #329 on: 08 October 2016, 09:50:20 pm »
Are these guys already in committed relationships hence they want hot chicks on the side who will shag them spend time with them for gifts and tips?   Or single guys also do it as a cheaper option than escorts?   You know the cheapest, if I were a shallow dude, will go for hot chicks who are escorts e.g. money, beauty, sex etc etc.  he will get hot sex with hot chicks for free!  or am I so jaded?  :P. I got some punters asking to meet up outside escorting.  Do they think I'm stupid?  :-\